i am very, very shy. how do i tell a boy i really like him? or how do i ask him out?

Question

but i don't know if he likes me. he shows signs, but i can't tell. and we don't talk to each other, but we r around each other often. like in classes and where we eat.

Answer 1

write in a paper. I LIKE YOU , DO YOU LIKE ME....YES OR NO ? (circle)or(write back) . Now fold it up(the paper), like a love message. and have your friend give it to him and tell him it is from you, or you give it to him. when he opens that unique letter you wrote to him, that you folded it up like a puzzle or present. he will read it and circle it.. he will probably ask you if you like him, and you say YES and he will do the rest if he likes you. he will ask you out.. if he does not circle it or respond he is either to shy or he does not like you enough to write back. In the note you can add a little heart. You do not need to sign it with your name. the mystery of your name will give him an excuse to ask you for your name in the letter or in person.

Answer 2

If you really like him u shouldn't be shy around him, Guys are for the most part open to giving everyone a chance. I kno ur shy and what i am askin is a lot but you need to get out there and take a leep of faith and try hang wit him more. you should try to talk to him, make him laugh, let him have a good time. IF you guys hang well together you then try to hang wit him at the movies or sumthing u like to do. If u BOTH are still havin fun then you should some how communicate to him that u like him. Try to show that u like him wit out telling him cuz when guys are caught off guard they will probably reject u. i hope this helps.

Answer 3

I think what you need to do first of all is to start talking to him in a casual way, you can't just go and ask him out if you haven't had a conversation before. Once you know him a bit more and feel more confident in his presence, then it will be easier for you to ask him out and also to see whether he likes you or not.

Answer 4

Well most people that are shy usually ask there friends to find out more information about they guy that they like. Like Try to get one of ur friends to see if he likes you or not. If that does not work that rehearse what you wanna say to him and try to build enough courage to talk to him about it. I uesd to be really shy til i realized that guys are all ******* and there is no reason to be shy even though I like them.

Answer 5

Hi, why don't you tell one of your friends to just go and ask him and find out if he likes anybody and if he does than who. And if he does like you then go on and ask him. Asking indirectly through a friend makes it much easier. Hope i helped.

Answer 6

hun, u gotta get ova dis shy factor. take a chance, maybe he likes u too. u'll neva know until u ask. and if he says no, atleast u accomplished a huge step. u got over ur shyness or ur starting too. but who knows wat he'll really say. shoot fo da posotive. look at things as bein "da glass is half full, not empty" and go fo it. maybe dis is da start of a new realtionship or friendship.

Answer 7

pass him a note that says: I am very shy. I like you. Will you go out with me?

Answer 8

Don't wait to see if he likes you back, take the first move and write him a note. Keep it simple and short. Good luck !

Answer 9

walk up to him and ask him or leave a note in his locker noooo wait i got it leave a note in his locker or like give it to him then walk away and in the note write that you would like to hang with him one day and put that its not a date and then leave a phone number lol and then if he calls or tells you he wants to then you can hang and find out what kinda guy he is.

Answer 10

u can tell ur friend or his friend to tell him but dont let ur friend to tell him that u told her to say it let her say that uve just told her this as a secret so u dont put ur self in an embarising situation if he says he dont like u.....