Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

Im feeling really sick and tomorrows my birhtday! THIS SUCKS!

2007-02-03 10:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by freezy 2 in Singles & Dating

I can remember older man hitting on me and starring at me when I was young. Now I seem to watch men alot wherever I am. Even my own boyfriend. I can't help but to notice that it seems like a large number of men are pigs!!

I accuse my boyfriend of being a ped all the time, cause if there's an under age girl around, wearing something provocative, you can bet where his eyes will be.

Also, when I met him he was 23 and he said he would sleep with a 16 year old!!! He has now upped the age to 18 (only cause i was discusted with him tho). Do you think all men are perv's?? Is my BF a sicko?? Should I leave hime over this???

2007-02-03 10:29:20 · 28 answers · asked by peeyou 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 10:28:07 · 16 answers · asked by mckenzie h 1 in Friends

We are getting married in December. Our colors are red, pink, white, and black. We want to keep it funky yet sophisticated and classic. We are doing a mad hatter cake. We dont want to do flowers!

2007-02-03 10:27:57 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Weddings

Ok, here's the new issue. There is a girl that hangs out at a bar I hang out at, and she seems to have made a game out of snapping up whatever guy I've been spending time with. It could even just be one conversation, she makes of point of sleeping with them, making out with them, or dating them and flaunting it in my face. I recently really hit it off well with a guy that she's been trying to date for the past few months. I really like this guy, and I'm finding out that she's been asking a mutual friends questions about our relationship. Should I say something to her? Should I just ignore it and hope nothing comes of it, or should I just drop the guy and not go back to the bar? I'm not about to "compete" and he dosen't seem to be interested in her when I'm around. What should I do?

2007-02-03 10:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by sardonicwit 1 in Singles & Dating

My common law husband is a selfish, disgusting, cheating, loser. We have been together for four years and he refuses to work. He always asks me for money. He's cheated on me and blames it on his pill popping. I know that he will never change and I know that I want to him to leave. I am an independant woman and I supported myself before he came along and I'll be fine supporting myself after he's gone. But, when he's gone, I miss him. You see, although he's a terrible husband and has a huge problem with commitment, he's my best friend. He's my only friend outside of the work place. My heart doesn't feel complete unless he's with me. I don't feel safe unless he's around. It's more than just lonliness, it's flat out torture when we're not spending time together. I can't figure out what I should do. And talking to him about it doesn't work. He never takes me seriously when I tell him I'm not romantically in love with him anymore. HELP!

2007-02-03 10:26:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yea, i love this gurl alot and we been talking about it alot.

were both virgins and i need tips for my first time [sex]

seriously!

2007-02-03 10:26:00 · 11 answers · asked by pirate 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf likes porn and I have know this since we got together, he a about 4 videos at home. He never really use to watch it all that much and he knows how I feel about it. I was raped and have been in abusive realtionship in the past (which he also knew about). Ok, we don't have sex alot (some of this has to do with my past, which I am trying to work on), i found some pron on his computer and was very upset, and I did say something along the line of "I'm sorry I'm not more like them", he tells me those have been on there for a while. Ok, I bought t hat at first, but there is a way to see what someone is looking at on the internet everyday. i found this out on accident, but now I know for sure he goes to this one site almost everyday, and I can see every one that he looks at. We have been together in about 2 weeks, but you have to understand i work 2 jobs 7 days a week. Knowing that he goes to this site EVERYDAY does not help. I am trying t o fix my issues, but porn doesn't help.

2007-02-03 10:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my girl it's been 18 months I want to propose I love my lil Chunkey Monkey?

2007-02-03 10:24:12 · 18 answers · asked by REESE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met a guy that I really want to be in a relationship with. He is divorced and has dated since the divorce but has been steady with a woman for a few years and they have a relationship of convenience. He and I are hitting it off but the relationship is new. He only sees the other woman about 2 days a month. He and I live far apart and have only seen each other in person for two visits but talk every day and plan to see each other again. I do not want to force him to break off with the other woman with an ultimatum and have him resent me. I would rather just keep seeing him and let our relationship grow until he knows he wants me and not her. I am planning to move to where he lives within the next year. Presently, we live far apart and so does that other woman. I am more interested in this man than any other man I have ever met and don't want to end things. How should I proceed? Give him space to decide who he wants or tell him it is me or her?

2007-02-03 10:23:56 · 6 answers · asked by time_ready_love 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 13 (almost 14) year old Muslim girl. I moved to America just two years ago from a city in the Middle East. I am kind of having trouble making friends. Well, two Pakistani girls soon became my friends, but they aren't great friends. They too are Muslim.
One of the girls has very strict beliefs. She does not eat Starbursts and Skittles because it has gelatin in it (gelatin come from pig fat and Muslims are not allowed to eat pork). I eat Starbursts and stuff but i don't eat them in front of her because i am afraid she will not be my friend. She also does not wear capris, but i am allowed to. What should i do?

2007-02-03 10:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i texted to my guy "im totally in love with you" and he replied that he doesnt think he deserves my love...what do you get from that?he doesnt want my love or what?what do i text back

2007-02-03 10:23:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's almost like i don't even get a chance to say anything. I just ge rejected.

2007-02-03 10:22:45 · 4 answers · asked by iceman_102@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just about to move in with my friend and her husband, they are both great. Would you do this?

2007-02-03 10:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Cherry R 1 in Friends

ok i know this is not necessary but i wanna shop at A&F/HCO/AE and other stores like that but my parents wont let me like my mom said that its kinda expensive. well actually i just want to shop there, cuz their stuff are really comfortable. and i know,its not that expensive for them to let me buy my stuff in there cuz my dad came from a wealthy family and like he has a car and now hes planning to buy a new one.and my mom she shops at ralph lauren and guess and we have like 4 houses in different states.and i only got 2 younger siblings.Its like really lame cuz they dont have time for us and they're not even giving what we want.so i just cant understand why cant they just give the stuff that we want.
soo is there any other advice?
or if how i can convince them?


thankss!:]

2007-02-03 10:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I am not aloud 2 have a boyfreind ( im 11), i like "LOVE" this guy he feels the same way wut should i do? and dont say i dont no wut luv is 'cause i no more than a 30 yr old woman

2007-02-03 10:21:27 · 29 answers · asked by pritty princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl at school if she spread rumors about me and she pretended she didn't. But I know she did. She suddenly doesn't call or anything anymore. I don't understand why she is pretending she did not do this. Why do people think they can lie and stuff still have your friendship?

2007-02-03 10:20:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-03 10:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by scotgal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, I have given flowers to girls I like but personaly I find it like something not very practical. Well flowers are pretty but they die in a few days, so it's not even something with much of a decorative or memory value. So do you really like them that much or would you prefer something else as a gift?

2007-02-03 10:19:52 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 10:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking that I'll send the girl I've been missing two flowers through the school. I didn't want to put my name on them though. I was thinking at first they should say "from anonymous," but that could be anyone. I want to say that there from "Just because I want to," because that's how I feel about her. Even though she doesn't have the same feelings for me that I do about her, I still want to get her something just because and she oesn't even have to come talk to me. So what other things could I say to put in the "from ___" space?

2007-02-03 10:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i just got married, and im not a jealous person by nature even though he is, and i once told him that i would be ok with him having sex with other women as long as i know about it and as long as its just a one night stand thing. is it normal for me to think this way? and if he would do that and tell me, i wouldnt consider it cheating. but would he still cheat on my anyways?? I think that all men cheat no matter how hot there wife is, i dont wanna be cheated on, would this arrangement eliminate that? im really confused and i feel i made a mistake of telling him that because i dont want him to take advantage of it.

2007-02-03 10:19:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my origial wedding date is scheduled for July 7,2007 all is booked and planned however we have now been told that my mom has terminal cancer and has been given 2 months and even if she is able to be here in July she lives in a different state then we and wont be able to travel, so we will now be having 2 ceremonies one with her and then again as planned in July. Any thoughts to this situation or suggestions would greatly be appreciated.

2007-02-03 10:18:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im just curious but what happens when a straight woman seduces a gay man?

2007-02-03 10:18:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think there is a thing as loving a person too much? If so, how can you tell if you do?

2007-02-03 10:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by Go GO Ressa 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister was arrested for a felony crime, arson. She is a drug addict and an alcoholic and has drained my family emotionally, physically and financially. We have made a pact that she will remain in jail until her trial. I am wondering if anyone else has been in this situation. I am very embarrassed, sad, and numb. I am so angry at what her abuse has done to our family and I want her to get better and to learn to be responsible. Does anyone know FIRST HAND what I am going through?

2007-02-03 10:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by TwinkaTee 6 in Family

One of my friends ended our friendship because she thought I was gay. (I'm not, by the way.) Now she won't even talk to me! (It's been close to 6 months since it happened.) How do I get her to talk to me?

2007-02-03 10:17:16 · 5 answers · asked by Darcie C 2 in Friends

Theres this guy I really like, and a friend of mine who's one of those know-everything girls told me that he was going to ask me out to the V-day dance. My ex happens to be the guy's friend, and he told me the guy wasn't going to, and he just likes me as a friend. Then, at the dance the guy I like actually asked me out, but I'm wondering if he's just being nice or if he actually likes me. What do I do?

2007-02-03 10:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by kitten heelies 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had a very close friendship with a man that has lasted for 23 years. We have cared for one another and yrs ago I told him I loved him and always would. For 20 years he never reciprocated those feelings. I have been married for 9 years now with a few problems. In December I received an e-mail from this man. It said I have always loved you but I would have been bad for you. Then another that said he would never turn his back on me, he'll always be here and I Love You. Then he called and said he loved me very much and that he had been stubborn, wearing blinders through life never realizing what was right in front of him. Another e-mail that said I am never forgotten and that he got married 4 mths prior w/out telling me. He said this would not change feelings or friendship. He went on to say he was in his 40's, alone and had fears and then said I Love You with all my heart has to offer. In the last e-mail he backpeddled and said his love for me is as a friend. What do you think?

2007-02-03 10:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by shell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heres te deal we have been together for 10 months and i love him with all my heart but sometimes i have the feeling he is cheatin on me....he goes back and forth from home and la to record his music and i support him (give him money to do his music) and i just dont know....and i give him everything i can money love attention care...but when i was down in the gutter he paid for my bills food everything...andi guess i just returning the favor now that i am finacially set....and i am pregnant with his baby and want to be with him forever....i just have those feelings like im being played....and i know he loves me.....plz give as much advice as possible.....thank you

2007-02-03 10:15:55 · 7 answers · asked by mommy since 1407!! 1 in Singles & Dating