Do all men want to have sex with teen girls (13 & up)???

Question

I can remember older man hitting on me and starring at me when I was young. Now I seem to watch men alot wherever I am. Even my own boyfriend. I can't help but to notice that it seems like a large number of men are pigs!!

I accuse my boyfriend of being a ped all the time, cause if there's an under age girl around, wearing something provocative, you can bet where his eyes will be.

Also, when I met him he was 23 and he said he would sleep with a 16 year old!!! He has now upped the age to 18 (only cause i was discusted with him tho). Do you think all men are perv's?? Is my BF a sicko?? Should I leave hime over this???

Answer 1

Sounds like your guy has pedifile tendencies which cannot be a good thing. If he was 23 and was looking at 16 year olds that is a huge red flag. I really do think it would be better to get out of this. Just because a young girl dresses revealing does not make it ok to check them out sexually at all. It is wrong, stop sugar coating it and run.

Answer 2

Answering your question honestly No not all men are pigs or pervs.....but I will agree that most are!! You have to understand though in there own demented way they think they are right or ok ...they justify it because of the way a girl dresses etc....bottomline wrong is wrong and the age of a little girl is important even if she is slutty or a little whore!! I'm not a perv or a pedophile ......some guys have no morals or values.....its just that simple!!! Being brought up right and with something to stand for is a matter of principle nowadays!!
Im not saying your BF is a sicko but considering the age gap etc and the apparent lack of respect he shows towards girls/women I would strongly encourage you to look at other options!!!
Basically what side of the fence do you want to stand on???

Answer 3

Now hold on just one minute! Don't go putting us older men down just because we like to look at young beauty. Sure I like to look but I'd never do anything about it. I like to see what the future holds for the female population. If you think I'm a pervert just for that reason, you're not mature enough to judge someone else.

I have to admit I have slept with a 16 year old but I wasn't the one who started everything. I was 29 at the time and I thought she was 18 or 19. Believe me, you wouldn't have been able to tell if you saw her either. Once she told me how old she was, I had to break it off for that reason and the fact that she was playing the field. That was 20 years ago and I've done a bit of maturing sense.

Oh and as for the girl that said "all men are pigs" she must be a sow cause she dates them.

Answer 4

Your question needs splitting down in to smaller questions. Anyone having sex with a child (someone below the age of consent) would be considered a pedophile. In the UK the age of consent is 16, a woman having sex with a child below the age of 15 would be considered a pedophile. Rape, unless you've been in this situation you will never understand it. I'm a guy, I'm built like a brick outhouse (fit), and some years ago was that subject of an attempted rape by a woman. In different circumstances I may have voluntarily have slept with her. Yes a guys bits can remain excited even though he vehemently doesn't want to have sex with that person at that time (I'm sitting here fuming internally as I think about this). Rape is not so much about sex as it is about power, emotional hurt, and control, unless you've had the misfortune to experience it then I doubt you can imagine the emotional train wreck you go through.

Answer 5

Until about 20 years ago, it was legal to marry a 13 year old in most states. It would require parential permission until the age of consent-when she could speak for herself. Most of our history, older men would have sex with younger women. In more unsettled times, these men were proven warriors, merchants, farmers and so forth and had established that they could care for a spouse and children. The younger men weren't able to prove that. This is something that takes time to establish. Many communities would not let a couple exist unless one or the other of the partners could prove ability to care for the other and any children. Thus older women would often form alliances with younger men and so forth. Read your unexpurged histories for examples. The idea of a woman marrying a man her own age is a fairly recent innovation. She would have been expected to marry an older man.
Bearing all of this in mind, there is still social conventions that are encouraging this. Models are considered to be over the hill by age 28, many actresses retire by age 30 for the same reason. We look for women without the visible signs of aging. Older women were often referred to as crones or hags in stories and their wisdom and abilities were not seen in a good light. The attributes of a young woman or older girl were often seen as being the most desirable in a mate. With all of this we can see that culturally, older women are discriminated against. If you look at anime, you will find that the features of a school girl are the most desired. If you think the culture here is bad in that aspect-consider how it is in Japan, which is even worse in this area than we are here.
The legal aspects are trying to change this, but with centuries and millinia of custom behind the current state of things, I don't see that happening any time soon.

Answer 6

I don't think all men are this way, but its the nature of the male species, something built in from years ago, to want to have the youngest (well okay it should be of childbearing age I mean) to have the healthiest children. It's almost human nature.

However, not all men look at young girls with a twinkle in their eye and think something sexual. I can look at some of them and admire their spunk for life, their energy, and the joy of learning about life anew. I've mentioned this before, and someone thought it was pretty good; females are at their most intrigueing before they realize what life is like, how rough it can be, and true...how 'using' men can be. Then a lot of women get bitter and give up enjoying life and just endure it. But then men as they get older get the same way, too.

Answer 7

well not ALL men are like that but the vast majority are, but I've had my share of guys asking me out and i told them my age and they backed off. (I'm 15) but a lot of times it takes two to have sex you know , but men are always gonna be looking around even if they love you ,Its the testosterone men will always look at something or someone that is sexually provocative , even if its just a glance. I mean you got to admit that too many 13 year olds are dressing like prostitutes and look like they are 20. You should watch the movie "Thirteen", or "she's Too young" or other movies related to those( i recommend both)

Answer 8

In answer to the opening question teen boys want to have sex with teen girls.When and since I have come into my 20's I no longer have the desire for teen girls there immature and still rely on the parents support.
True girls that age want to attract men by wearing super tight jeans and showing off there boobs.So maybe you should be there older sister and tell them so.Make them embarrassed and they'll think a little harder.

Answer 9

Hi. I'm And older dude. When it comes to Fantasy and the real world, I guess we can all be called Pervs. Even Chicks as young as 14 will go with and older dude because she knows what she can get. This World is Weird And cruel. Peace Out.

Answer 10

As a 28 yr old man I would not date a girl below 24. Generalizing all men like that is wrong. Would you like it if someone asked " Why do women only care about how much money a guy has?"
IMO your boyfriend needs help