I have met a guy that I really want to be in a relationship with. He is divorced and has dated since the divorce but has been steady with a woman for a few years and they have a relationship of convenience. He and I are hitting it off but the relationship is new. He only sees the other woman about 2 days a month. He and I live far apart and have only seen each other in person for two visits but talk every day and plan to see each other again. I do not want to force him to break off with the other woman with an ultimatum and have him resent me. I would rather just keep seeing him and let our relationship grow until he knows he wants me and not her. I am planning to move to where he lives within the next year. Presently, we live far apart and so does that other woman. I am more interested in this man than any other man I have ever met and don't want to end things. How should I proceed? Give him space to decide who he wants or tell him it is me or her?
2007-02-03 10:23:56 · 6 answers · asked by time_ready_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you want to win him over than just be flirty or something
2007-02-03 10:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure he isn't using you!!!! Dont rush into anything with a guy you hardly know If your moving to this place, make sure you know that if you move closer and doesn't work what you would do. He doesn't sound like he is interested in a steady relationship except for an occasional convenience trip with a few girls. Get to know him, talk to him about everything, keep your distance, find out if he actually wants you and go from there, dont move to quickly
2007-02-03 10:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi time_ready_love,
First off, I don't go for long-distance relationships. They really don't work out. He's probably got a ton of girls spread out all over the state. It's better if you put your mind to meeting guys in your close vicinity.
You are purposely distancing yourself from local guys so that you can have this (mostly fantasy) relationship with this guy. It's much better to be with a guy as much as you want rather than once every other week type of thing.
If you want to strategize to win him, I guess dress sexy, give him lots of oral, anal and what ever you think he wants when ever you are there, and he'll always be thinking of you, instead of that other girl.
--Rick
2007-02-03 10:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum and he'll be gone.
I don't think he is looking for anything exclusive.
2007-02-03 10:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel then let him choose. If he dosen't choose you, move on.
2007-02-03 10:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by sardonicwit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a dump on his face
2007-02-03 10:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋