It's almost like i don't even get a chance to say anything. I just ge rejected.
2007-02-03 10:22:45 · 4 answers · asked by iceman_102@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably the way you're going about it. Most girls are smart enough to know that you like them just by the way you act around them, and the way you seem to enjoy their company. You shouldn't be telling these girls that you like them or anything like that . . . just ask them on dates and see how they react to that specific approach. Go up to a girl, chat with her, get her number, and call her for a date after a while. I'd bet you go right up to girls you barely know and tell them that you like them. That makes it even more creepy for you to just dump your feelings on them. Stick with asking her out on dates until you've REALLY got her hooked on you, because she already knows that you like her just by the fact that you're asking her on dates. Telling her all about how you feel in early stages of the relationship will make her lose respect for you. Also, learn the signs of rejection ("I see you like a brother," "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" etc.) and know when to give up on a girl (basically when you get rejected . . . persisting will only make you lose your dignity). And don't give up because you've been rejected a few times. I estimate that the average rejection rate for normal guys is 90%. Good luck!
2007-02-03 10:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a natural reaction of a lady to a sudden change in her point of view. Perhaps she has been used to you just being "one of the ordinary guys" that she mingles with; now the sudden change in your approach and intention of being more than just a friend to her may have caused her mind to be "boggled up" and therefore she gets locked into some trance-like state and becomes speechless for a period of time. Perhaps you should try a more appropriate style of approach, you may have some inefficiency in delivering your message to her.
2007-02-03 18:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Arcana I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Maybe you've just met girls who reflect on what you just said before speaking... And then reject you. I'd keep trying though, and don't immiediatly ask for them once you meet them- get to know them first.
2007-02-03 18:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you approaching them?
2007-02-03 18:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋