One of my friends ended our friendship because she thought I was gay. (I'm not, by the way.) Now she won't even talk to me! (It's been close to 6 months since it happened.) How do I get her to talk to me?
2007-02-03 10:17:16 · 5 answers · asked by Darcie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's a pity that we live in such a closed-minded world...
It's obvious from your description that this friends means a lot to you since you're still broken about this 6 months later. I wonder what methods you have already used in order to speak to her, but if a face-to-face confrontation has failed, maybe she just isn't ready to own up to her prejudice. However, it is also very possible that her stance on homosexuality is so strong that she will never move beyond this, despite you saying that your sexuality is not in question.
Perhaps you can write her a letter if emails and telephone calls have also fallen short. But there is only so much you should have to endure for the sake of her friendship. There are plenty of people who would accept you regardless of such trivial things that turn out to be false.
You have many options in this situation, just be sure that you do what you think is right. Good luck.
2007-02-03 11:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by D H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ended your riendship cause she thought you were gay then she wasnt your true friend in the first place. Let it go, why would you want to be friends with someone that would judge you like that without and facts and then just leave.
2007-02-03 10:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she ended your friendship because of that then i wouldnt want to be her friend anymore!
2007-02-03 11:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a b i t c h and you don't need her blow her off and make new a true friends!
2007-02-03 12:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? She's not nice. Move on.
2007-02-03 10:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋