Ok, here's the new issue. There is a girl that hangs out at a bar I hang out at, and she seems to have made a game out of snapping up whatever guy I've been spending time with. It could even just be one conversation, she makes of point of sleeping with them, making out with them, or dating them and flaunting it in my face. I recently really hit it off well with a guy that she's been trying to date for the past few months. I really like this guy, and I'm finding out that she's been asking a mutual friends questions about our relationship. Should I say something to her? Should I just ignore it and hope nothing comes of it, or should I just drop the guy and not go back to the bar? I'm not about to "compete" and he dosen't seem to be interested in her when I'm around. What should I do?
2007-02-03 10:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by sardonicwit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her about it, and tell her to lay off it. If he doesn't like her and he likes you, she shouldn't be even bothering the two of you. I wouldn't reccomend telling the guy about it though, unless she's directly bothering him- although it would seem like you're just trying to protect him, he'll think he's more then capable of deciding who he wants to love or not.
2007-02-03 10:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the guy you want, what do you have to lose? If he goes for the floozy, you're better off without him. Seriously, I've known soooo many chicks like the one you're describing and they're pathetic, sad little human beings. She's so busy trying to prove to herself and everyone else that she can whoever she wants that she'll never end up with someone who makes her happy. Any straight guy will go for a sure thing, she must've missed that memo...
2007-02-03 10:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around. If you want to flaunt your new relationship in her face, then do so. Otherwise, ignore her. Her only power over you is your reaction to her. Once you leave, she will win. It actually sounds pretty positive so I wouldnt leave when the battle has just begun. Stick it out.
2007-02-03 10:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off this girl is nothing but a tramp..I would just ignore her..and sence you have a man now maybe you shouldnt go to a bar with your man, go to a pub and grill unless you two like to dance then keep going to the bar..who cares what this girl says...shes just jealous...Good luck between you and this guy!!!
2007-02-03 10:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. If this guy is worth it, he'll ignore her advances and keep spending time with you. Though if I were you, I'd take my guy and head to another bar.
2007-02-03 10:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. If your new guy goes for it, let him. But if you start dating him, find a new bar to go to with him
2007-02-03 10:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't seem to be interested in her, then ignore her. If it comes to where he becomes your man and she's still tryin to get him, then you're gonna have to step to her and put her in check. Sounds like she needs her jaw cracked, but that's just me--don't do that just yet.
2007-02-03 10:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gossip sucks dick. Lol. But do NOT sink to her level. That will just make you seem more guilty of what she is saying. Just (if she has a fb or something) post on her wall "It is sad to see that you have to make shitty rumors about me to get yourself attention. Oh but thanks for taking time out of your day just to talk about me, It is very flattering. But next time you talk about me, make sure you actually know the facts! Kay? Thanks byee (: "
2016-05-24 00:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ethel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋