Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

2007-02-02 00:56:16 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when you feel things are beginning to get you down?

2007-02-02 00:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After a wild weekend of stripclubbing for a bachelors party, my fiance came back home and told me tiny tid bits of his trip. In conclusion, he had a lot of fun (go figure!) I was just wondering, after seeing a bevvy of hot naked women rubbing on him (which I wish someone could draw the line for me also of what point that would constitute cheating), do men always think back and fantazise about what happened at the club? Or is it really just one night of fantasy world and then back to reality?

2007-02-02 00:54:49 · 23 answers · asked by M 3 in Singles & Dating

whats been the best time of your life so far mines was meeting my second wife and having the wonderful daughter that we have

2007-02-02 00:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by DAVID C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to have calla lilies dyed or sprayed the same color
as my bridesmaid's dresses. One florist said it can't be done and another will do it. I was wondering if anyone has had any dyed calla lilies in their bouquet and how they looked.

Thank you for your help.

2007-02-02 00:52:47 · 9 answers · asked by Cynthia 2 in Weddings

Ok I am 17 as is my bf and we have been friends sense we were about 10 and our relation was going perfect we have been seeing eachother sense about November and dating sense late December and in the last month or so things just stated to get really sexual and I am not complaining its nice but it seems that our relationship is turing into a hormone fest And its not a bad thing every once in a while but not every time we see eachother because before that we use to sit and talk and just spend time together and I miss that so about 3 days ago I told him how I was felling he said he understood and he was ok with that because I was right but sense then he hasn't called and when I call him he tells me hes tired and has to go and we both have busy schedules and we both knew it going into this relationship but I just wish I knew what was going on in his head I am going to go see him tonight and hopefully he can tell me how hes feeling but I am just not sure anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-02 00:51:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well me and this guy I've been seeing for 5 years have been havin some trust issues. Lately, I think he may be seeing another girl, he deletes his calls, e-mails, text messages, voice mail, and doesn't talk much on questions I ask. Today he said he needed to stay at work late because he had something to work on. This is the first time he's done this, and he offered me to follow him if I wanted, and he swore up and down on it.

Should I trust him, or what? He said we can do something when he gets home and we made plans the rest of the weekend, but what do I do?

2007-02-02 00:51:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 00:51:01 · 1 answers · asked by ibarrettol2 1 in Weddings

My best friend, Megan, Invited me to her sister's birthday party. (Jessica is also one of my great friends). Jessica said I didn't have to get her a gift, but I want to give her some money. Should I put 15 or 20 dollars in the card?
(Megan and I are 12, almost 13 and Jessica is turning 14)
Thank you so much!

2007-02-02 00:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he tell my friend that she is the love of his life.

2007-02-02 00:50:41 · 2 answers · asked by young at heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 00:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Family

My fiance has an ex girlfriend that lives in Las Vegas. He recently took a trip there for a bachelors party, and I found out that he had called her to pick him up from the airport and they lunched together (so he says....I found out because I saw his cel phone had dialed calls to her) He insists he didn't cheat (I guess I don't feel like he did), but I don't know why he called her when they don't talk at all normally. He told me he didn't want to tell me because I would be upset, but I feel upset to think that when he told me that he was taking a taxi to go have lunch with his friends, he was in fact being picked up by her and lunching with her! He never even apologized when I confronted him....... I think I am overreacting?? What do you think?

2007-02-02 00:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by M 3 in Singles & Dating

this is the problem:
there is a guy which i really like,he is a good looking guy, but he never do nice stuff and evrey one in the school knows that, and there is another guy who really like me ,he is nice , sweet but he is not a good looking guy .
these 2 guys asked me to go out with them in the same day!!!
and i said yes to them and now i dont know to do !?
PLzZ help me .

2007-02-02 00:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by MiSsMe 1 in Singles & Dating

He ran away cos he's in money trouble with some dealers, how do I convince him it's better to come home and face it asap, rather than make it worse by staying away. The dealer is a big fat man and not hard at all.

2007-02-02 00:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

married at 21child on way his reason for marrying her dindt want his child having a childhood like his, she didnt want to marry him but did it anyway...

moving on 2 kids now constant arguing he doesnt tke her out as she causes trouble,she is nasty to him slags his family constantly puts him out then after a few weeks uses the kids as emotional blackmail i.e. do you realise what your donig to your children , he goes back,, this goes on constant,,

moving on kids grown up working , him and her still fighting she says go out that door and your not getting back in, he says put me out again and I wont be back im sick of this, she thinks he is bluffing puts him out. result seperated for a year and a half..

he goes back as now the kids are grown up she cant use them so uses the house.. 6yrs on and its still goin gon she puts him out then uses some excuse to bring him back, vicious circle couple of months go by he is out again....

could you live like this they dont love each other..

2007-02-02 00:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it their style or could it be they're really into it.

2007-02-02 00:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by lilkitt 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 00:46:56 · 4 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

It's a Superbowl/housewarming party. It's a guy that hubby works with. He's dating the boss's daughter. Both are around 22 yrs. old. Hubby isn't really good friends with the guy where they would normally hang out outside of work. But they get along alright at work. So what should he bring to the party as a housewarming gift? Remember, the girlfriend is the daughter of the owner of the construction company hubby works for. And he doesn't want it to seem cheap, inappropriate or like he's trying too hard.

2007-02-02 00:46:54 · 12 answers · asked by fiestyredhead 6 in Friends

i live with my financee in his parents house, we have a two year old son, my fiancee's brother and his gf also live in the same house with their 2 year old and 5month baby. The problem is his parents are not coping but they have to support my fiancee's brother, gf, and two brats becasue he refuses to work. Not to mention pay his car, insurance and partying money every weekend. when they go out they take the 5month old and leave the 2yr old at home and granny tells me to watch her. the thing is the brothers are fighting coz the their parents support him and when we ask for help the get rejected. i just want to move out. i cant even discipline my son and i get reprimanded. my fiancee earns R20 000pm and i R3000 i tell him all the time there are ppl out there earning less and they can afford it. i think he has got it too easy he doesnt see what i go thru. i raise our son and he plays ps2/fishes.and he's not here mon - wed. and all he pays his parents is R500pm!!!! and by the way he's 30

2007-02-02 00:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by Shannon 1982 2 in Family

we have a lodger who is my friend. it's mostly fine accept for one thing. she leaves skid mark in the toilet all the time. how do i tell her with out being really insensitive? it's my house so it's not like it's a equal share. why should I have to clean it all the time. should i skirt around the issue and hopes she gets the hint or should i be blunt at the risk of embarassing her?

2007-02-02 00:44:59 · 18 answers · asked by Georgia W 2 in Friends

My (newly-ex) boyfriend has been extensively using porn sites - since long before we were together. He told me he had stopped using them since "falling in love with me" (yeah, right!), but I've found it's a lie. I don't mind so much that he wants to view the images (although it's not a pleasant thought - aren't I good enough?), but why on earth does he lie so much, even when I can clearly see what he's been doing? The problem is: if he's lying about this, I think he's trying to hide more sinister stuff and I simply can't feel I trust him.

2007-02-02 00:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by snoopingdog 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 00:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by tom tumb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I did ask him out to the Movies awhile ago.

He didn't run away, he actually invited me for coffee, and we had a fun time together.

When I was studying with him another day, he really asked sincerely what I was doing for Winter Break, and when he was asking, his voice was really a little nervous, like he wanted to tell me something.

Also... when we communicate, he always stares into my eyes. He has given me rides back to my home on various occasion. He always doesn't mind studying with me and such.

Does he like me or what?

2007-02-02 00:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by Femme 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced almost 4 years and i am remarried, my ex husband does not take care of the children very well (we have 4), they are always getting hurt, come home hungry and dirty, he doesnt do homework with them, etc. they visit him on tues. and thurs. from 4:30 - 7:30 and every other weekend from Fri. @ 5 till sun. @ 5. My oldest son is 12 and hasnt been to his dads in months, he wants to live with me full time - i recently took my ex back to court and asked to have tues and thurs visitation eliminated and he had the nerve to ask for joint custody! so now it will be going in front of the judge. he never cared before but now that he has a gf he wants joint custody and is pretending to be good daddy. the gf recently moved in with him, she is in her 40's, never been married and has no children. a few months ago she was trying to prove her sis as an unfit mother and tried to get custody of her niece - her sis moved out of town, i think ex is being pushed by gf to get custody .......

2007-02-02 00:40:52 · 4 answers · asked by anitaeric2004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is looking for a wedding photographer in the North West (she's in Lancashire but the wedding is in Cheshire, so someone within or around this area). She likes the more relaxed type of photographs and wants something modern but classy. Any suggestions/recommendations?

2007-02-02 00:40:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'd love some perspectives...from men and women on this one.

Last night, my husband said some hurtful things. Not horrible, or mean. But they were hurtful. I'm not angry with him, I'm just hurt. And I can't seem to bring myself to discuss it with him just yet. I'm still processing.

I realize there is no guidebook, or rule book - but how long do I have the right to internalize? I'm not punishing him or sniping at him. I'm just hurt. And really, just want to be alone.

Your thoughts?

2007-02-02 00:39:52 · 9 answers · asked by Super Ruper 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-02 00:39:15 · 13 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 00:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What next for us???
So, lots of people agree on here from my previous question that a guy I know fancies me. Had great responses from you all. Please read the question if it helps. I really like him too and my question is how can I subtly let him know I like him without being over the top? It's so easy to think afterwards I should have done or said something but we are both very nervous! I have paid a few timely compliments and I always laugh and smile and give great eye contact. How can I encourage him to admit he likes me? What should I be asking him? It's Valentine's Day coming up so it might be an opportunity for him. Any ideas?

2007-02-02 00:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 00:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 in Singles & Dating