After a wild weekend of stripclubbing for a bachelors party, my fiance came back home and told me tiny tid bits of his trip. In conclusion, he had a lot of fun (go figure!) I was just wondering, after seeing a bevvy of hot naked women rubbing on him (which I wish someone could draw the line for me also of what point that would constitute cheating), do men always think back and fantazise about what happened at the club? Or is it really just one night of fantasy world and then back to reality?
2007-02-02 00:54:49 · 23 answers · asked by M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its probably different for all kinds of different guys but I think the Majority don't spend their time thinking about what happend. I mean even though the girls get naked guys don't think about things beyond the club. I mean no guy is dumb enough to take a stip club experience serious. the girls who work at them are Saleswomen.....nothing more. Guys know that they just tell you what you want to hear to get your money. So i wouldn't really stress it. He is marrying you.
2007-02-02 00:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it would not count number if he watches the game or the ladies, that is a strip club and he harm your emotions. It hurts because of what it grow to be, and on your head your probable questioning they're youthful and hotter and also you do not decide on him to be tempted contained in the first position. regardless of the indisputable fact that the reality is, the club probable had better females over the hill, and if it did not he probable thinks they're to youthful. the position as you're best and precisely what he needs. I say, have him make it as a lot as you via making him positioned on a educate for you. Or tease him about him not liking it because you've been planning to positioned on a educate for him, yet there is not any element now. It makes you unhappy, yet except he makes it a habit i'd not hassle. the shown reality that his friends have the opt to make it a secret skill they have subject matters not your husband.
2016-12-03 08:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fantasize about getting all those one dollar bills back in my wallet. Men who visit strip clubs once every year are pretty normal and they are probably NOT fantasizing by the time they get home. Usually they are doing damage control. If your squeeze is going to these places every month.....lose the freak. Strip clubs are a great place for male bonding (bachelor party) and they can sometimes energize a mans lobedo. Frequent visits to these places is pretty much like gambling or drug addiction. Call me if he keeps this crap up.
2007-02-02 01:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the need of having to go to these places but men do. I think it may make them see what they have at home. But if they are put in situations like that and do anything yep that is cheating!! It would drive me insane knowing my husband was out doing the strip club scene. I tried it with my ex and let him go with his friends well I find him later in the motel with 2 of the girls and it had been going on for months. So don't let it be a habit that one time OK but not anymore. Men have no business in these places when they have committed themselves. If they want that then they don't need to be married. I tried to be trusting and it blew up in my face. I am now with a man who is older has all of that out of his system loves me and knows I'll kill him otherwise! Kidding!! I think!
2007-02-02 01:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by holliemay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question to answer because everyone is different. My experiences may be totally opposed to his POV.
But, the ladies that work the nightlife have a kind of routine they do.
They play a role- they seduce the man into thinking he is everything they ever wanted. They do this for two reasons:
a) that's what most men's fantasy really is when you take away everything else (the looks, the clothes, the style, etc.), &
b) it helps them have more "regular" customers.
The question you should be asking yourself is if your fiance is as gullible as you think...
2007-02-02 01:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they think back and fantasize they are idiots.
I (as an admitted man) personally abhor strip clubs. I have been twice, both for other people's bachelor parties, and i will never understand the allure.
If your fiance thinks back to the night when he spent all of his money NOT to have sex with a naked woman... than he has some serious issues.
2007-02-02 01:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Undergroundmann 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's probably not a specific girl that he is thinking about but more of the whole dirty girl thing (women acting animalistic) that turns him on. You know how to get him thinking of you again? Do a striptease for him! When a man sees a woman he loves acting a little bit dirty it will turn him on more than any random girl giving him a lap dance because he knows you are attracted to him and not the dollar bills he's sticking in their garters! Also, why not go with him one time (you may like it and if you don't, don't go back)?
2007-02-02 01:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion it is fun to them but i feel as if they do bring what they've experience back home and fantasize that their wife or girlfriend is going to be the same way or try to get them to do some of those same things that they've experienced. I also feel to look and not touch is one thing but to let someone touch you and your doing the same and you're in a relationship to me that's very disrespectful and if strip clubs become a habit then there's a problem.
2007-02-02 01:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's usually just one night of partying and then back to reality, but If he's aware that you're pretty uncomfortable with it and loves you to death, he wouldn't want to be caught dead in a strip club. when you make a marriage commitment to anyone you're saying "all i want is YOU for the rest of my life." if he wouldn't want to you to get rubbed up on by oiled up naked men then he should have the decency to not get rubbed up by naked women. going to a strip club isn't cheating but its really insensitive and humiliating(to the person left at home).
2007-02-02 01:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by sarah s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys go there knowing that most strippers are "out of their league" so yes,, it's all about the fantasy. The only reason strippers associate with us is because we are paying them. When he gets to you the fantasy disappears and he focuses on you because you are the one who is actually fulfilling the sexual activity he desires. I say thank you for being a good sport about it and from where I stand, no penetration equals no cheating.
2007-02-02 01:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋