this is the problem:
there is a guy which i really like,he is a good looking guy, but he never do nice stuff and evrey one in the school knows that, and there is another guy who really like me ,he is nice , sweet but he is not a good looking guy .
these 2 guys asked me to go out with them in the same day!!!
and i said yes to them and now i dont know to do !?
PLzZ help me .
2007-02-02 00:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by MiSsMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My father once said to me, "Show me the most beautiful woman in the world, and i will show you her boyfriend who is tired of having sex with her." Physical attraction and beauty always fades. So in the end you have to go with the personality that you like the best.
But you need to be honest with yourself. The fact that you know the "good looking" one is a jerk, and you still do not know what to do... shows that you care much more about looks than personality.
Just admit to yourself that you are shollow and you will be much happier.
2007-02-02 00:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Undergroundmann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who you really like, maybe he would do nice stuff for you since you are his special girl, despite him not known for doing nice stuff. Of course, it is good to be loved by someone who really like you, rather than the other way around, but since the guy you really like also asked you out, obviously, he also likes you a lot as well. Doesn't matter about good looking or not, but give the one you really like a chance, simply because he's the one who has your heart.
You do need to apologise to the one other than the one you choose to be with. If you choose to reject the nice sweet guy who really likes you, please make sure he doesn't think it's because of looks that you choose the other guy over him. Best way is probably to admit you already fancied the other guy heaps for a while, so despite him being so nice and sweet, and that you are flattered to be asked out, you had to choose the other guy.
Good luck!
2007-02-02 08:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do thie right thing here.
One guy is great looking but a dick (excuse the language)
The other is sweet and nice, but not that good looking.
Do you want to be with a good looking guy who treats you bad or a sweet, respectable guy who with time if you let him get close to you will become more attractive to you everyday????
2007-02-02 08:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. Just because someone is good looking, doesn't make them a good person. Go with the one you like more, even if he is unpopular or not as good looking.
And remember that you have plenty of time later to get serious with someone, so you can always tell one of them that something came up and you're busy that day, but you'd like to reschedule.
2007-02-02 08:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by LovesToCook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah these are great solutions to get the nerd beat up. You should date the guy who is better looking. You can't polish a turd. If the mean guy is nice to you, then so what? Who honestly has dated an ugly person? Get Real!! Liars.
2007-02-02 08:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by navy_hobo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the nice looking but not so nice guy that something cropped up and that if he can make it on a certain day instead. think you should go out with the nice chap although he is not that good looking
2007-02-02 08:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually how it works is the ugly ones are better guys and the good looking guys are ###holes and have no personality sooooo i would say choose a date for both of them on different nights and decide who you are going to be more compatable with
2007-02-02 09:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kell bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your with someone that isn't nice then he will not treat you nice. It makes a good looking person ugly! If your with someone who is less attractive that is genuine and real it makes them HANDSOME in your eyes. And what you think is what matters not what everyone else thinks.
2007-02-02 08:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can either be honest and tell them both that you are not interested in both of them (if your not!) or you can just lie your butt off and tell the guy that you really do not want to go out with that you have a family emergency so you cant go out with him.
2007-02-02 08:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by KittenKisses R Us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now your going to have to give them both a chance, just because that guys cute doesn't mean anything, he could mean to you.....you never know.....
"never judge a book by its cover"
2007-02-02 08:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by drjayz_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋