married at 21child on way his reason for marrying her dindt want his child having a childhood like his, she didnt want to marry him but did it anyway...
moving on 2 kids now constant arguing he doesnt tke her out as she causes trouble,she is nasty to him slags his family constantly puts him out then after a few weeks uses the kids as emotional blackmail i.e. do you realise what your donig to your children , he goes back,, this goes on constant,,
moving on kids grown up working , him and her still fighting she says go out that door and your not getting back in, he says put me out again and I wont be back im sick of this, she thinks he is bluffing puts him out. result seperated for a year and a half..
he goes back as now the kids are grown up she cant use them so uses the house.. 6yrs on and its still goin gon she puts him out then uses some excuse to bring him back, vicious circle couple of months go by he is out again....
could you live like this they dont love each other..
2007-02-02 00:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This has went on over 30yrs.. even the kids use emotional blackmail on him the daughter uses his granchild.. they had a good teacher mind their mother is a nasty peice of wok I used to be friendly with them.. I was talking to him last summer still the same old thing I ve heard he is home at the moment for hiw long whp knows.....
I couldnt live like that and I certajnly woulnt want my kids to either they are my priority in life ... seems hers where not
2007-02-02 06:56:29 · update #1
Sence they wasted so many years at not loving, and now that the kids are all grown up, I think it's time they both found new lives. They were there to make the responsbility they made come to a close, so it's time they both got to enjoy this one life God has granted them.
Time for both to shut the door in each others faces and say: Good Riddens.
2007-02-02 00:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would u live that way if it's all about the kids then look at it from their point of veiw, what example r u setting 4 your kids. When u marry it's suppose 2 b 4 better or worst but that's not the case all the time. Note: children should not live that way and neither should u. So if there is no love & no respect sorry 2 say there is no hope just a life of pain. So the question really is do u want 2 spend your life this way & put your children through this pain???? Think about. Good luck no matter what u choose 2 do.
2007-02-02 11:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sad story and not unlike thousands of marriages or mine for that matter. My marriage has been pretty bad for about 3 years. Although we are in counselling now and that helps some. I can't imagine living my whole life like this.
2007-02-02 08:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Karen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No If it was me i would have been gone along time ago, I would not deal with it, life is to short to be wasting my time in a loveless marriage..When there is far more better things to do in life besides argue and fight.
2007-02-02 09:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I couldn't live that way. But clearly, they can. It is a great example of dysfunctional people in a dysfunctional relationship. But somehow, they have clearly made it work for themselves.
2007-02-02 08:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people truly enjoy drama in their lives. That's the only excuse for it, I think!
2007-02-02 09:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they need to end it before they kill each other...seriously! Too many people stay together until that boling point is reached and they dont know how to get out of it.
2007-02-02 08:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dysfunctional family, co-dependent people. Someone has to see a divorce lawyer and end it forever.
2007-02-02 08:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, once the kids were grown, I'd make a new life for myself....they've been doing this for so long they don't know how to do anything else
2007-02-02 08:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow
did either of you think of your kids and how stupid you 2 looked in their eyes
do you realize what you 2 did to your kids
i would of never let it go that long
2007-02-02 08:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋