What next for us???
So, lots of people agree on here from my previous question that a guy I know fancies me. Had great responses from you all. Please read the question if it helps. I really like him too and my question is how can I subtly let him know I like him without being over the top? It's so easy to think afterwards I should have done or said something but we are both very nervous! I have paid a few timely compliments and I always laugh and smile and give great eye contact. How can I encourage him to admit he likes me? What should I be asking him? It's Valentine's Day coming up so it might be an opportunity for him. Any ideas?
2007-02-02 00:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STEP 1: Use body language to let a man know that you like him romantically. Hold his gaze with your eyes, or flash a dazzling smile in his direction.
STEP 2: Express intense interest by focusing all of your attention on him. Appeal to his ego and make him feel as though he's the most important man in the world.
STEP 3: Send signals of your romantic interest in him by flirting.
STEP 4: Create an opportunity to be alone together - nothing as serious as dinner, because if the evening doesn't go as planned, you will have to sit through the entire meal wondering why you let yourself get into this situation.
STEP 5: Be lighthearted about it. Tell him that you think you're interested in him romantically - tell him why, and just leave it at that. Now it's his move.
STEP 6: Wait until the right moment to talk about your romantic interest in him.
STEP 7: Remember that either way, you will learn from this experience. If he returns your affection, it could be the start of a great romance; if not, it's better to know now rather than pining over Mr. Wrong, when Mr. Right is out there somewhere
A touch of humor can go a long way. Keep your tone light while letting him know that your message is sincere.
Avoid the possibility of creating an embarrassing moment in public for yourself ' and for him. Express your feelings in private just in case the feelings are not mutual.
2007-02-02 02:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn all you can about him from other sources, like talking to anyone who knows him. If that is not possible, then you need to be asking him questions like:
What does he likes to do?
What was the last movie he saw?
Does he like to dance?
What is his favorite food?
Who does he like in the Super Bowl?
It is not rocket science, here. Simply ask a guy what he likes and he will tell you.
Don't be afraid to ask him out, either!
2007-02-02 00:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become interested in what he's doing. Just joke that you two should go out, just to test his response. Just ask him to go to lunch with you or something. You will see if there is interest pretty fast.
2007-02-02 00:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm. u know for sure he fancies you? i guess you can drop hints everywhere, but if the guy does not pick the hints and make the move, you just have to either decide to let it go or ask him face to face directly.
2007-02-02 00:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not have to tell you he likes you nor do you have to tell him you like him ---- talk to each other -- it will become apparent how you feel --- body language and the fact that you will both try to keep the conversation going --- persevere it will get easier ---- best wishes
2007-02-02 00:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him..do something cute..like maybe give him a teddy bear or something with i note that so i like u. do u like me and a yes box and no box and maybe box..
2007-02-02 00:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt, baby, flirt!!
2007-02-02 00:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by o o g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋