Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

I'm hurting from the loss of a loved one and my girlfriend feeling neglected. I feel her frustration and I hope my pain will end soon. Right now I just need her to hold me in her arms and not be too hard on my emotions. I just need time. My heart is numb and has no feeling. I just hope that while I'm healing, she can have a little patience.

2007-02-02 02:01:59 · 48 answers · asked by Ivan Drago 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I posted on here before about this, but months later this is still going on. I dated this girl a while back, and we broke up (bad break up - she dumped me in the end - i think we were both glad to be away from each other when it happened - very ugly). We never spoke afterwards, but when I would see her in school she would just stare at me.

I don't see her as much anymore, but it started again earlier this week. Blank stares at school when I saw her, and last night when I was leaving the mall I saw a girl who looked like her so I looked over. It was like she sensed it was me, and looked up at me right away. The same expressionless, blank stare. No aggression, but no delight. It makes me so uncomfortable that I turn away very quickly and just keep walking. She was with a guy (probably new bf) and I just walked out of the mall while she stood there stareing.

What is going on? Why does she keep stareing at me? It has been a long time since things ended between us.

2007-02-02 02:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by Johnny 5isalive 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me how u guys expect ur girl to behave when they r in a public place with u and when they are dating you????

2007-02-02 02:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by jenenia 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend because somebody told me that he was going out with someone else.he said he was not.(by the way, this somebody lies ALOT!!!)Who do I believe?

2007-02-02 02:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsey L 1 in Friends

I like a guy who works with me,we spend very nice moments at work when we are sometimes alone,I think he likes me too, he knows ecatly how I feel but the problem is he will have to leave my town the next year.So,we can talk very open until I talk about my feelings for him.I send him a couple of messages and when we talked on the phone he absolutely made no comments about them..I felt really stupid.Why is he doing this?

2007-02-02 02:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't give my girlfriend an orgasm and it's really bothering me. I have tried a lot of different positions, oral/diff techniques, romantic settings, music, dirty talk, and nothing seems to work. She says it's ok and that we'll work on it. But dang... i dont feel like a man if I can't please her.

2007-02-02 01:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by TheWanderer 2 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone recommend a great and creative wedding photographer in Montreal? If possible, please include their websites

2007-02-02 01:59:42 · 3 answers · asked by B2B2008 5 in Weddings

assume the girl and the guy are both single and straight

2007-02-02 01:59:20 · 12 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 01:59:05 · 18 answers · asked by srkam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help

2007-02-02 01:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Licia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always been self concious about myself and this is something my fiance knows about. One day we were joking around and I said something about myself being hot and he said "No, you're just cute" So this morning I brought it up again and he said "What is the big deal about not being hot" Yet, he thinks other woman are hot. Than, he tried to tease me and be all over me saying "Oh come here you hot thing" So I asked him if that's what people do to hot woman and he said "yeah" So now I have to wonder if he isn't attracted to me. No, I'm not the best looking thing in the world, but I would like for my fiance to find me a little hot...no matter what I do he says I'm not...I'm just cute

2007-02-02 01:58:27 · 18 answers · asked by hokeygurl019 3 in Singles & Dating

I've learned that there are so many men that like it when they can control me and tell me what to do, but I've never started a relationship whith them because I don't need a daddy. I am better off standing my ground or Am I being too strong headed and need to submit and commit. Do you really like a quite passive woman when you start a relationship. Go on Be honest.

2007-02-02 01:58:23 · 19 answers · asked by sadiebabe81 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with my new girlfriend. Valentine's Day is coming up and she has already put a deposit on a very expensive watch for me. She was checking to see whether I liked it and showed me a picture of it. It is an awesome watch and I like it. My GF is living with her parents , because of financial trouble after a divorce. She has just finished paying off her debts and is looking for a house ( to rent or own ). I am not a real fan of hallmark holidays like sweetest day and Valentine's day, but I do enjoy the extra little romance that does come with it. I'm considering telling her to get her money back and save it. I know that this would hurt her feeling, but I would feel guilty as ever wearing around her house or apartment on my wrist. I also wonder if this is her way of trying to buy my affection. So, Should I ask her to take it back or should I accept it graciously or is this an attempt to lock me in with guilt? I will be there for her no matter what happens.

2007-02-02 01:58:13 · 10 answers · asked by Lilbear 2 in Singles & Dating

he's a really smart talented guy..but it seems like he has this streak of bad luck...really! it amazes me sometimes how things can screw up for him

but anyways, he just started an events label..and he wants to have music showcases, gigs etc...

but he needs sponsorship etc..coz he needs a venue, equipment, publicity materials etc..plus he insists on paying the bands because he feels that they should be rewarded

i can see his dedication..he works day and night to make it work..but there's a financial problem..an event as such costs a ton...

things are slowly working out, like he got a venue for free, and he got an NGO supporting the event...but the rest is still a question (publicity materials etc)

i'd really love to help him out...any suggestions how? i dont earn millions to sponsor everything for him..but i'd really like to see this event a success

2007-02-02 01:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by candycane 2 in Friends

would you get engaged with a foreign girl if she lived in your country? do you think it's a good idea or you prefer to be traditionalist?

2007-02-02 01:56:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 01:55:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-02 01:55:43 · 16 answers · asked by kishore e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have waited for 9 years looking for my love.I found her and know that I love her with every fiber even though she isnt perfect to others I think she is wonderful.A auburn haired ballerina ,28 yrs old,a school teacher,in El Paso txwe dated for 3 months and then after a visit home she dumped me out of the blue.She was supposed to marry a guy 6 months ago and I wonder if he contacted her and she dumped me to go back to him.I treated her with love and kindness and the excuse she used to break up sounded flimsy.I want to wait for her as Iknow I love her,am I crazy.What are the chances she would return after a while or have I lost her to someone who treated her horribly and dumped her.I have never felt this about another woman ,ever,and am torn apart every day thinking of her.I have no desires for another.

2007-02-02 01:52:52 · 14 answers · asked by freckles6771 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 01:52:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The relationship covered 9 yrs. Lived together for 7 and married for 2. Everything was split and she was even given the house. There were no children involved, no abuse of any kind and she was capable of working and was working at the time of the breakup.

2007-02-02 01:51:38 · 27 answers · asked by xusbnd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And makes me yell "Have Mercy!" when I get......there?

2007-02-02 01:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by Work is for Busters 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am interested in a girl in my class but she is difficult to approach since she's allways on her cell phone up to the beginning of the lecuture and on as soon as the class ends. How should I approach her or maybe she's in love with her cell phone?

2007-02-02 01:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by joeymac 2 in Singles & Dating

FOR EXAMPLE:CAN A 14 YEAR OLD GO WITH A 18 YEAR OLD

2007-02-02 01:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by VANILLA CARMAL 1 in Friends

Ok there is this boy on my bus he is 3 years older than me and I think he like-likes me.
When I sit in front of him, he always talks to me and makes me laugh plus he always strokes the back of my head from time to time we always say hi and bye to each other do you think he likes me and do you think I should ask him out

2007-02-02 01:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by brittany g 1 in Singles & Dating

...it's been ages since I had one and I'm gagging for one!! LOL!

2007-02-02 01:49:43 · 27 answers · asked by long_luscious_lashes 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you still watch porn if you were dating a porn star look alike who would do any sexual act that you wanted?

2007-02-02 01:49:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a Christian belief and don't want sex before I get married. So what should I do if I don't want to lose him or God?

2007-02-02 01:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this guy that is fun to be around. We chat and work together well. I just dont know how to be friends away from work. Both of us dont have a lot of friends and I think we could be lifelong buddies. I dont want to date him, but really just friends.

We could I do that is not crazy or pushy to help this friendship grow?

2007-02-02 01:48:20 · 4 answers · asked by porsha226 4 in Friends

2007-02-02 01:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by !paige! 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a shy guy in work who i think he likes me but cant be sure as hes shy also and doesnt seem to ever have a gf, The thing is i really felt from him that he liked me but now im not so sure or even if its me not sending strong enough signals that i like him due to me having a bad patch with my self estem/confidence. I have been on two work dos and made my best to look nice to draw his attention but that hasnt really worked as hes always been surrounded by the guys. So i backed off but now when i go and talk to him which isnt very often as i finish the convo he says something to keep me talking so i cant make up my mind. Its like hes been trying to get a dvd off his mate to lend me and he came up to me and said im sorry i havent been able to get it. If he didnt like me why go out of his way to tell me that? The signals from him are the obvious ones remembering stuff,showing an interest,eye contact but i just dont know as hes not a great initator

2007-02-02 01:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating