I have waited for 9 years looking for my love.I found her and know that I love her with every fiber even though she isnt perfect to others I think she is wonderful.A auburn haired ballerina ,28 yrs old,a school teacher,in El Paso txwe dated for 3 months and then after a visit home she dumped me out of the blue.She was supposed to marry a guy 6 months ago and I wonder if he contacted her and she dumped me to go back to him.I treated her with love and kindness and the excuse she used to break up sounded flimsy.I want to wait for her as Iknow I love her,am I crazy.What are the chances she would return after a while or have I lost her to someone who treated her horribly and dumped her.I have never felt this about another woman ,ever,and am torn apart every day thinking of her.I have no desires for another.
2007-02-02 01:52:52 · 14 answers · asked by freckles6771 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have fallen in love with a beautiful ballerina,who teaches 2nd grade and lives in El Paso Tx .We broke up over a month ago and I still love her as if I saw her yesterday.She said she had only wanted to date and didnt figure I would fall like I did.I wonder if she is just not ready,confused about her feelings or maybe not wanting to get hurt again as she broke up with her fiancee 6 months ago.She is 28 so you would think she is not into games and I think she really liked me but was scared of having her heart hurt again.I know I love her and want to wait for her,is that crazy?She is everything I desire in a life companion after I have looked for 10 years waiting for that special someone.I am reminded of her every day and every where I turn I see memories of her auburn hair,beautiful blue eyes,and strength.How can i get her to realize I am the love she wants and needs. Do you think she even thinks about our time together and would have the courage to call me if she thinks about it.
2007-02-09 19:02:23 · update #1
I am sorry its happened to you. ITs very her loss and it was wrong of her do this. I think its time for you to move on to make her realize how much she made a big time mistake to lose you. All you have to keep going to look for someone that fell in love with you. Its no point for you to wait.
2007-02-02 01:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet r u from. I just can't understand y would u want 2 wait 4 someone who dumped u just like that. Move on u will find ur true love out there u can not act like that is it. The world does not revolve around this woman. U have 2 think about it is she really worth it. Don't u deserve better. Live life 2 the fullest because it doesn't last 4 ever. I am pretty much sure that u r a very sweet guy and i know that there is someone out there 2 make u very happy. Good luck. If u and her were meant 2 b then she will come back but 4 now u need 2 move on because she already has.
2007-02-02 02:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should at least try and contact her. If you can't, then try and move on. Many years ago, I broke up with a boyfriend I really like alot to be with my x whom I thought at the time I loved. It lasted another 6 months and we broke up and I lost the other boy for good. He was very angry with me for breaking up with him (we were only 17 at the time). I am now 33 and married(someone totally different) and have a child and look back and sometimes wonder what would or could of happened. But it comes down to the choices you make at the time. She may regret her decision later, but whether u are still there or not is up to you. You can't stop your life for one person! She might not even me "the one" for you. It can be tuff but u will soon get over the heartache and probably have many more in your life time!
2007-02-09 12:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jassie's mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know what will happen. Sometimes love is meant to be, and sometimes it's not. I broke up with my current fiancee for a while during our 7 years together and ended up right back in his arms. We're now perfectly happy (yes, even with the imperfections in our relationship!) but of course, you have to understand that not everyone experiences a wonderful reunion. If the feelings she harbors for you are not mutual, then there's nothing you can do about it. You cannot stop living your life, and should do everything you can to live a happy life, with or without her. This does not mean you should go out seeking someone else, but perhaps find ways to make your own life more meaningful. Good luck with your situation!
2007-02-02 02:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by keonli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of contact have you had with her since the break up? I know you have waited a long time for love, but it seems like this girl is a little unstable, or your relationship atleast was. She didn't give you a real explanation for the break up and you just don't do that to someone you really have deep feelings for. She could've provided you with a better one once she got herself together, but she didn't. If she was planning on marrying somone else, and hasn't really had contact with you then this is a sign that she has moved on. You should do the same.
2007-02-02 02:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is soo wrong, if i were you i'd split. Thier is no use in waiting for someone who is only going to consider you thier 2nd choice. Maybe your to good for her, you sound really in love with her, but things happen for a reason and well one day you'll find someone. Try not to think of her to much although it may be difficult, i should know. you seem like she's the only one but lets be realistic do you always wanna wonder, is she going to leave me? if she did it one time she WILL do it again. it hurts inside to face the truth and the only thing you can do is deal with it. look, go out, enjoy yourself. talk to other people you'll see that thier is someone with the same qualities as her, maybe even beter, maybe someone who respects you. It's obvious she dosen't, not to be harsh but you will be okay, just try to forget maybe it was for the best, better now then later i say, and maybe thier is someone better who loves, repects, cares, for you. i say keep looking but don't waste your time on her. she'll do it again, trust me, i've lived it and it hurts but time heals everything. maybe not completly but with the love of another person it will, because then you have positive feedback, that's called "love".
2007-02-02 02:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by marilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u're probably MAD. There is no assurance that she's coming bck to u nd even if she does, she gonna dumo u for someone else again. If her values are such that she would do that to you once, then believe me she will do it again. If she knows that u're waiting 4 her, she gonna take u for granted. Its not wrong loving a person but is wrong to be stupid. Move on with ur life.
Gudluck
2007-02-02 02:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there and it feels as if all the odds are against you but all you must do is follow your heart and i know that is difficult but if you feel she is totally and whole heartedly worth it.then wait for her but dont make her mind up for her just let her make up her own mind so that you know you gave her the right to make up her own mind.and if she comes back you know you guys were meant to be.and if not then well life goes on you always move on to bigger and better never forget that.
2007-02-02 02:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get in contact with the girl (if you can) and tell her...if you cant contact her, and you dont know -- find out somehow
either way, if you love her, you'll bend over backwards and bite your foot to get in touch with her
2007-02-02 01:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by mrimtoocoolforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,you're not wrong to wait for the woman you love to come back..unless,you already know that she doesn't loves you or she didn't love you..both of you should talk about it..and if she returns to you...all i can say is..NICE ONE! just pray and believe..but if she's really not the girl for you then look for another girl..she's not the only girl in this world...right???
2007-02-02 02:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by florence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋