Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

My officemate's sister is getting married so we always swap stories. She just had her sister shower and the grooms side of the family started off by taking 2 or 3 favors to start...... so some people, mostly her family didn't get a favor. Then they drank as much liquor as they could and it was brunch!! Then to top it off they tried to steal the frames off the table that had the table numbers on them. They stopped them before they did it because they were owned by the restaurant!! She said she was positive their purse were filled with bread breakfast products too!!!
Soo funny!! Anyone else have any funny wedding stories??

2007-01-31 01:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im 29 and he is 23. He used to be my student and we started YMing recently and it was really cool. We talked about everything including drugs and sex and the sex part.. well it was steamy, he said he had a hard on I told him to unload (after we talked). The next day we had a nasty argument because I think he thought I was suggestng sex but I wasnt and he felt shy. He also sounded pissed off and said our conversation was going nowhere and senseless. Anyway, he said "The other night I didnt unload, i released the beast. I shouldn't have. Tonight, I will not touch my thing." I asked him what he meant cuz sorry I didnt get that... I know Im slow... I got pissed off anyway he said he is sorry i took it differently... damn! what is the kid trying to tell me???? I told him I wanna see him. He wouldnt let me. Then I texted him and emailed him once and he didnt reply... what should I do???

2007-01-31 01:35:26 · 1 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Singles & Dating

What is is that you find attractive???
I look almost exactly like my avator, would you find that attractive???

2007-01-31 01:32:55 · 16 answers · asked by Roxxy 2 in Singles & Dating

with someone you shouldnt have fallen in love with?

2007-01-31 01:32:18 · 41 answers · asked by ginger 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

because i do...i've been feeling like this alot lately, my friend graduated school early and i really miss her and I also lost another good friend, i really miss him too, we could talk about anything...since I moved...things just havent been the same with me...now i have this fear of not being able to keep friends for that long or loosing them and its starting to kind of scare me...maybe I just worry to much ? I guess that's my problem ? will things get better soon ? or stay this way? do u or have ever felt the way I do ?

2007-01-31 01:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Friends

2007-01-31 01:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are planning to cook the food for our dinner total # of people will be 12. Any ideas of a good yet affordable meal to make?

2007-01-31 01:30:05 · 14 answers · asked by littlefoot 2 in Weddings

i like this guy for quite some time and we've only exchanged mails for around half a year..not on a regular basis though cause the both of us were really busy. and i got really tired of communicating through emails..so i dropped him my number and told him to msg me when he's free. honestly speaking,i wasn't expecting anything.i thought he'll say "ok" or something like that. but he gave me his number as well!should i be happy that he gave me his number?i know since he gave me his number as well,he doesn't mind keeping in touch with me but shouldn't he give me his no. earlier on instead of waiting till i give mine?

2007-01-31 01:28:32 · 8 answers · asked by Larissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Why my ex girl tempting me?
when i asked yahoo answers is it wrong to flirt with ex girl (actually it was me who had deep love for her,but she had an infatuation to me earlier)all of them said its wrong.but how many of you guys dont stroke thinking of other girls when u have a lover?i mean not seein any porns,but thnking real gals that u meet.so y cant i flirt with my ex girl,thoug i sincerely love my girl i have now.
when the thought of she bending down b4 me and me seeing her inside a little and she offering me choclate cream on her fingers and she takinmg it away when my lips was near to it and i stared at he wet succulent lips,i cant resist but dial her no. and stroke myself.
at that time the thought of having a lover now doesnt stop me from stroking.is it wrong.suchj thoughtrs are so irresistable,rite?

2007-01-31 01:28:27 · 1 answers · asked by jasmine maria 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is divorcing her husband. He is a really good guy and I never saw her happier than when she was with him, so it is sad.

Anyway she feels I am being judgemental and unsuportive. I would like to know what others think.

She: Let her husband get a vasectomy 4 weeks before she told him they were getting a divorce even though she has been preparing with the help of her lawyers for over a year.
I think this isn't fair to do.

She got an abortion because "I didn't want four children" (She has two, the third would have been the one she got rid of, and the fourth of course is her husband. (She is now getting divorced apparantly because he wasn't supportive enough of her after she had her abortion) I consider this to be a "spite-bortion" is this fair? I'm pretty pro-choice, but surely you can't have an abortion just to spite your husband or to make a point in an argument?

Any way am I way offf base here? Should I be more supportive of my sister's life choices?

2007-01-31 01:27:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you have an argument with your significant other. I mean, a full blowout: name calling, yelling, etc. If one person storms out the house (in the middle of the argument) and is gone for upwards of 6 - 8 hours, but the other person stayed at the house, Should...

1. the person who stayed behind at the house call the other person after about 3 or 4 hours and tell them to come home

2. the person who left, call the house after 3 or 4 hours and tell the other person either they are coming home or they are not coming home. (they just want to stay out of the house for awhile longer maybe they are still mad, it doesn't really matter)

Now, the thing to keep in mind, the argument was about nothing, it was completly pointless. I have took the side that the person who left should be the one that calls first. Not necessarily to apologize but just to say that they are okay.

2007-01-31 01:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by Army Gal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 01:27:13 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy_brown_eyes08 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I should have given more details. My mother did not raise my sisters and I. Since allowing her back into our lives at the age of 10 she has terrorized us. She has stolen my identity, tried to have my sister and I arrested, she is a drug user, a felon, lied about having cancer so we could support her financially and further more she is mentally unstable. We have forgiven her for everything in the past and tried to move on, but she does not quit. Recently I moved to the state where she and the rest of my family lives and had to move back after a few months, because she started to set her sights on my 15 year old daughter. My sisters and I want no association with her, legally and emotionally, because when she does wrong to someone (oh and she does) they come after us. I know this sounds extreme, but what else can we do?

2007-01-31 01:26:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl kisses on the first date or comes onto you early in the relationship

2007-01-31 01:26:04 · 8 answers · asked by amazing 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy on yahoo personals and we've been dating for about 2 months now.Anyway he told me that as soon as we met he stopped emailing other women on the personal sites.Should i believe him????????

2007-01-31 01:26:00 · 11 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1 in Singles & Dating

i dated a girl for about a year and then the past couples of months have been rough, being on and off.. it was killing me to "date", but not be ""together".. recenetly, after questioning why she wanted to kiss me and cuddle, but was getting texts from random guys, she finally just said this just isn't working out.. of course i put a little pressure on her and she backs away.. kind of knew that was gonna happen..

anyway.. i love this girl so much, probably always will, and unfortuantly have made her the priority in my life.. i feel so empty and alone not having her.. i know it takes awhile to get over someone, but i need her to need me.. i'm at work and i can't think about anything else.. please can i get some feedback.. maybe help ease my mind...

2007-01-31 01:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy that loves dressing like a girl and going out dressed like thais, I'm tottally passable but i was wondering if there was any hope of finding a girl that would accept me like this.

2007-01-31 01:25:28 · 2 answers · asked by song gurl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 01:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by doc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am really worrid bout a m8t coz ppl say they will jump him and beat him up coz sum rumour is going about saying he is bi wen i no he aint. also i cant stop thinking bout wot will happen i need sum help to say wot i can.

2007-01-31 01:24:24 · 15 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Friends

2007-01-31 01:24:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a guy (26) and my friend is a girl (21). We are just friends, but she knows I like her best friend!

She has been ignoring me, lately. ...but talking to me when I come talk to her.

She says she will call, but doesn't and will not reply to e-mails. She says everything is OK, but I sense that something is wrong!

She is dating a guy, but that's never hurt our friendship, before. She trys to divert me from her friend, but still says I should talk to the girl more. I am confused.

Why would she be acting so funny!

2007-01-31 01:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to stop drinking but i cannot bacause thats how i get to forget the abuse.i cannot talk to any one except my brother in law. i have not even told my bestfiend or boyfriend about the drinking.i just want to get rid of the painful memories.i really need your help before i become an alcoholic

2007-01-31 01:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by meow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-31 01:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by bb48 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I moved in together he bought a house under his name since my credit is bad. I pay for half of all the expenses. During a conversation last week he mentioned that if something happend to him, the house goes to his kids. He said he would put something in writing for them to allow me to stay there until my kids are all grown. Does this seem fair or am I wrong? If anything since I pay half of the bills I should be entitled to half of the house?

2007-01-31 01:23:52 · 10 answers · asked by ANNY G 1 in Weddings

I have never lied to woman or any people for the most part in my life. When it comes to some things being better "left unsaid" I can try to avoid a topic.

When I have told the truth I have been punished. In one case, divorced.

By being open and honest with my girlfriend of late I am finding it only gets you in the doghouse sometimes.

You ladies are teaching men to lie! Which I would have never considered in the past. Your not supposed to be punished for telling the truth.. but sadly I am starting to learn "Why men lie".. :(

Your thoughts?

2007-01-31 01:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

well we are some what on the verge of going out i dont want to do too much i just want him to know that i appreciate him being my friend / crush

2007-01-31 01:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by Ms.Larkin 1 in Singles & Dating

My birthday is saturday the 3rd of january,and the best gift i could ever wish for would be finding my best friend we were best friends in grade school and beyond,i lost contact with her about 5 years ago,our lives were going in different directions and life just kinda happened, seperating us.but i miss her terribly im at a point in my life where im settled im happy im doing good things and the only thing missing is her-loleatha stallworth.i have spent literally hours on this computer searching and searching to no evale any suggestion would be apreiciated thanks

2007-01-31 01:21:27 · 7 answers · asked by my space 3 in Friends

My husband and I are now finding out the whole story. We have only been married for a year and we had been living next door to them on their property. It has been a nightmare and apparently one my husband has been living all of his life. He has been diagnosed as bipolar, but I think that she is the one that has made him beleive he is sick, like a brainwashing or something. And any woman that is in his life, she lets them have a honeymoon period where she is real nice and then she slowly works on his mind to chase them away. While at the same time she is threatening the woman behind his back and then denies that it is ever done, til the situation between the couple becomes violent and then laughs and jokes if he hurts the woman. He has learned this behavior all his life. He is just figuring out how she has brainwashed him and made him feel that he is sick. Do you think he can ever get past this pain?

2007-01-31 01:20:48 · 6 answers · asked by ladybug 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 01:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Friends

I am woman aged 37, in love with a man 3 yrs younger to me. We love each other but worry, his family and society will not approve our marriage as its still taboo for hindu's to approve such marriage.

2007-01-31 01:19:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships