i am really worrid bout a m8t coz ppl say they will jump him and beat him up coz sum rumour is going about saying he is bi wen i no he aint. also i cant stop thinking bout wot will happen i need sum help to say wot i can.
2007-01-31 01:24:24 · 15 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seems you have problems of your own to work out. Like your spelling and grammar.
2007-01-31 01:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So many stories I've read about gay and bi men getting beaten to death. The main reason is because those that are doing the beating are fighting an inner battle within themselves about their sexuality. I would go to your friend, tell him of the situation, ask him to be on his guard at all times, being with friends rather than alone might protect him from harm but realistically no one can be with another 24/7. I feel for your friend and wish him the best of luck. Short of moving away (running away) I don't think anything can protect him if those rumors turn out to be true
2007-01-31 02:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend then stick up for him. Bashers will come and go, that's just life. Even if he were bi, which you say he is not. It is none of their business. It is good that he has a friend like you. Try not to worry. Bullies are usually all mouth. Alert an adult to help squash the rumors or at least intervene for his safety. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 01:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone about it right away before somebody gets hurt even though it's just a rumor. I don't want to see a person getting beat up or getting hurt just because of his/her sexual orientation. Hope you will be able to work it out.
2007-01-31 01:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mike D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh...just stay with your friend as much as you can. I am a little confused about the question BUT if I got you right...your friend should get a girlfriend so people will shut up. They shouldnt be involved anyway so what if he is?? Just tell him to go out in public with some girls...go on dates...than maybe people will realize he is not and they will shut up!!
2007-01-31 01:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are serious threats against your friend, you need to get adults involved, like a teacher or parent. If it's simply rumors and people running their mouths (which happens often), just ignore it. Bullies love knowing they are hurting others; if you & your friend seem unaffected by their taunts, it will stop being fun & they'll find someone else to bother.
2007-01-31 01:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had the same problem with my m8's in africa((south africa)) and you have just gotta watch out cuz the people will hurt him cuz of what they think, ummm can he fite for him self? perhaps you could organise a group of people who can help fite with him? if not does he have an older brother or sister that could fite for or with him? if not then hes screwed, find some one that can help get an adult that can help him cuz if u dont they will beat the shizzi-nizzi out of him!!
2007-01-31 01:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by i mis all my m8s in south africa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak english!
2007-01-31 01:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by BTH L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems you have problems of your own to work out. Like your spelling and grammar.
2007-01-31 01:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, fist and fore most,. not asking him to change himself, but treat himself as a human. noone will ever respect you if you never give respect to yourself. second, judged as bi or not, he's HUMAN for godsake... he has rights... rights to defend, rights to speak out and rights he has to fight for himself..
2007-01-31 01:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ä?³? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋