because i do...i've been feeling like this alot lately, my friend graduated school early and i really miss her and I also lost another good friend, i really miss him too, we could talk about anything...since I moved...things just havent been the same with me...now i have this fear of not being able to keep friends for that long or loosing them and its starting to kind of scare me...maybe I just worry to much ? I guess that's my problem ? will things get better soon ? or stay this way? do u or have ever felt the way I do ?
2007-01-31 01:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you are feeling is normal but as you get older you will realize that this is a part of life and growing up. Sometimes these things happen unintentionally and other times people just grow apart.
I wish I was prepared for it when it happened. I am 27 years old and most of my friends are married or are getting married ( two getting married this year). And as much as we are still friends, I just have to embrace the fact that things will never be the same. I just have to find other friends now who are single.........who happen to be younger than me.
2007-01-31 01:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unforunately our lives sometimes go different ways. Thank God for the internet though!!! Make it a point to stay in touch with them or to have evenings together. You can email, IM, anything. You can also talk on the phone and plan regular get-togethers. It happens and none of us like it. When I graduated college, all of my friends went different ways throughout the country. We don't get to see each other often, but we stay in touch as often as possible. The one thing that I started with 6 of them was a journal. You get the journal for two weeks. You write whatever you want. Everyone's address is on the inside cover. After you are done, you mail it to the next person on the list. That person has it for 2 weeks, then they mail it. Great way to keep everyone connected and what a momento!! I also have one just between my best friend I that we exchange every few months. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 01:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by GiMo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my best friend ever when I moved, we wrote each other for a while (no e-mail in those days) but soon lost contact. I found her again a couple of months ago through the Internet. We e-mail each other every now and again but its not the same friendship we had. We live far apart and I know if we visit we will probably hug and laugh together but I don't think it will ever be the same. We have all grown up.
2007-01-31 01:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of losing the ones we love is just normal. Personally, my greatest fear is to lose this girl I am deeply in love with. I cannot imagine my life without her. I can't imagine if I have not known her. I can't imagine if I am not blessed to meet such a wonderful girl.
WIll things get better soon? Only you can answer that..
2007-01-31 01:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think it's a well-founded fear. My closest friendships have deteriorated when distance is added. We don't hate each other, but it's hard to stay involved in someone's life when you're apart. Just try to stay in touch, but defintely consider making new friends. Good luck.
2007-01-31 01:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu worry too much. besides, good friends dont lelt distance mess htings up. I live in the Us and my Best friends since Kinder garden still wait for me at the airport everytime I go visit. Jus tmake sure u keep your part of staying in touch, if they dont respond back then they r not worth it.
2007-01-31 01:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will turn out the way way you make them. Go out and make some new friends, enjoy the time you have don't turn every
day into a rainy one.
2007-01-31 01:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my friend is moving in a few months an hour away and I know we won't be able to hang out as much any more and I am scared its going to break our friendship up....
2007-01-31 01:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did felt the same way you didi when I had to moved...felt like we never keep in touch again..
to avoid what I did is just keep in touch with him..let him know that you still care about him...
2007-01-31 01:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋