I am a guy (26) and my friend is a girl (21). We are just friends, but she knows I like her best friend!
She has been ignoring me, lately. ...but talking to me when I come talk to her.
She says she will call, but doesn't and will not reply to e-mails. She says everything is OK, but I sense that something is wrong!
She is dating a guy, but that's never hurt our friendship, before. She trys to divert me from her friend, but still says I should talk to the girl more. I am confused.
Why would she be acting so funny!
2007-01-31 01:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems pretty clear, as another female, that your friend likes you as more than a friend. She is steering you away from the other girl because she has feelings for you and maybe she doesnt know how to deal with them yet. If you really want the other girl then go around your friend to get to her. If you feel more for your friend than you let on then its time to bring it out into the open. Either way good luck.
2007-01-31 01:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by funloving_selfassured_redhead 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She sounds to be confused also at her surprised feelings she has felt for you and is struggling with this because she already has a boyfriend and does not want to betray him. Hey, you are probably a nice guy! It probably is just a passing phase. Give her time to work this out on her own and soon enough your friendship with her will be back on track again. Best wishes to you on this one!
2007-01-31 01:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You best bet, found someone that is less confusing and move on.(Not your friends best friend) It may take some time but you will find a girl that feels the same way you do about her, and yes all girls are confusing mainly because guys are a little more simple minded. Forget about theses girls and move on.
2007-01-31 01:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dantheman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's thinking dugh I wish he'd get a clue and see that I really like him. I think she really likes you but is affraid of hurting her current guy she's with. That's why she's trying to put you with her friend but also at the same time keep you from her cuz she wants you if things don't work out with her current guy friend. Get it. See even some women can be "players". Not that she is but be careful there buddy. I hope it all works out.
2007-01-31 01:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and she is jealous. She doesn't like the fact that you like her friend. The only solution I can think of is to talk to her and let her know how you feel about her. If she knows that you only like her as a friend and nothing else then maybe she'll back off. If she still doesn't back off then going after her friend may cost you your friendship with her. Think about and TALK. Hope I helped.
2007-01-31 01:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by angleyez_18 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well then i would be mad at you to if you liked my bff cuz even though that girl says that you to r just friends underneath it all she probably likes you more then just a friend.
i know what she is doin cuz i am going through that same thing rite now except the other girl is my cuz. she dont like this kid but he likes her and the only problem is that i like the guy that likes her. now do you see why your bf dont like you likin her best friend or even if that other chic was her sister.
2007-01-31 01:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sumtyms, de fact det she's attached wont keep her from liking sumone else.
and if she does like you, it kinda explains evrything ryt??
*she tells you to talk to her friend, to show det she's a gd fren.
*she diverts you away from her friend, bcos she wants u for herself
*she ignores you, bcos she's not suppose to like you! and u being there, makes her like you more.
*she talking to you only when u come to her, its probly she being polite and ure too irresistable for her.
gd luck man((:
2007-01-31 01:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i read it first, it sounded to me that she likes you. and then i read the bottom part "She is dating a guy, but that's never hurt our friendship, before." and i must say that that confused. so mybe she likes you but i reali dunno, sorry. i would ask her if there is bothering her if i were you!
hope all goes well
xxx
2007-01-31 02:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by [alagaesia] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby
she don't like to be friend with you and she had find a better friend than you
2007-01-31 01:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by 1145 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pretty simple she likes you herself and just don't know how to tell you. you should ask her what her deal is.
2007-01-31 01:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋