i dated a girl for about a year and then the past couples of months have been rough, being on and off.. it was killing me to "date", but not be ""together".. recenetly, after questioning why she wanted to kiss me and cuddle, but was getting texts from random guys, she finally just said this just isn't working out.. of course i put a little pressure on her and she backs away.. kind of knew that was gonna happen..
anyway.. i love this girl so much, probably always will, and unfortuantly have made her the priority in my life.. i feel so empty and alone not having her.. i know it takes awhile to get over someone, but i need her to need me.. i'm at work and i can't think about anything else.. please can i get some feedback.. maybe help ease my mind...
2007-01-31 01:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in the same boat. been in a relationship for over a year and she started losing interest in me when she started working at her new job as she met loads of new friends. Eventually she broke up with me. Its been about a month now and I still feel really upset by it.
Id say try and take your mind of it by going out with your friends. Take one day at a time. If you found her then you'll find someone else eventually. Try not to have contact with her as ths will make it harder for you to get over.
hope this helps
2007-01-31 01:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand everything you're saying because I'm going through the same thing. It really does take time to heal but I know its hard to hear that over and over again. I would suggest making plans with friends as often as possible. Go out and have a good time with people so you won't be stuck feeling bad or thinking about her. It helps to talk about it with friends and it will help you move ahead faster. Just know that there is another girl out there who will make you forget all about this one and you'll wish you knew her forever because she's so awesome. Don't give up and get down, you'll make it!!! Good luck!!!
2007-01-31 01:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you need to give her some time. She may not want to be in a relationship anymore. You'll have to deal with that if that's the case. The best way for you to cope is to go out with friends, read, or whatever you hobby may be can take your mind off of things. Meanwhile, don't contact her. You need time to get yourself together and make yourself a priority.
2007-01-31 01:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately must of us have to go through this. I know I am dealing with this now. All you can do is completely cut off everything with her, including talking! At first you will feel like you need her and can't be without her but eventually that will fade, I promise! Remember that love is supposed to be something that makes you happier, not sad and something you have to work THIS hard at! Wait for the person who will love you as much as you love them! and if you settle for this girl you will never find true happiness and true love! good luck!
2007-01-31 01:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, just move on there is plenty of women out there if you are prepared to look. Chances are if this girl doesn't want a relationship then she is looking for more than what u have on offer, nothing wrong with that but my last girl that put me through the same stuff, well i left and went overseas and it opened up my eyes.
2007-01-31 01:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for now u need to just try not to think about her I know its hard to do but u two do need some time apart. obviously she doesn't know what she wants and only time will help her figure that out. So go find u someone ok and just forget about her for now.
2007-01-31 01:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
homie i know exactly how you feel.. i went throught the same thing a few months ago. i'll tell you its not easy, specially when she was the only thing in your life. but i tell you if its meant to be it will be sometimes you really just have to tell your self shes moved on i have to do the same.. she abiously felt the same but along the way things changed in her.. dont beat your self it only prolongs the healing.. try just having fun around your boys and homegirls.. try to meat new people going out dancin, not drinking, dancing helps.. keep your head up lil homie i know you can do it..
2007-01-31 01:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SUGGEST YOU TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF AND STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. TRY TO KEEP YOUR MIND ON OTHER THINGS. DONT TRY TO OVER THINK WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. GET OUT THERE AND MEET NEW PEOPLE AND TALK ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. WITH TIME YOU'LL STOP HURTING SO MUCH.
2007-01-31 01:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by TS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋