Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

Unsure about this. Previous family weddings paid for by us, parents there was no limit on guests. This daughter wants no more that 80 at meal as her partner has a very small number coming.It is the trend here to send invites out in batches as in if you receive regrets a few weeks later send to others. I personally feel people know they are obviously 2nd choice Lots of cousins are on our lists but only 1 is in a relationship. At my last daughter's wedding they replied saying they were coming on their own. These are my husband's sisters families whom I get on with but not the same as your own siblings. Would it be rude to
explain beforehand saying if they wished to bring a guest they were more than welcome but because of numbers this time I felt it would be a bit late when their replies were received to send invites out? We are talking over 20 people here so it would mean about 10 couples we would have liked to have been invited from the beginning It's akward with limited nos.

2007-01-31 02:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Ms Mat Urity 6 in Weddings

If you get married in a state that allows gay marriage but afterwards you move to another state where it is illegal, does that mean that you have to divorce?

2007-01-31 02:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 02:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Friends

maybe more than you think they should be...;0)

2007-01-31 02:20:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 02:19:50 · 6 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 02:19:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend wrote me a letter telling me that he was abused by his dad and luckily his parents divorced 2years ago and that's when it stopped.When I read this,I felt sick to stomach,I feel so sorry for him,what should I do or say??

2007-01-31 02:18:55 · 16 answers · asked by krie 2 in Friends

I have a friend who has been with a guy for about 3 years now. The first 6 months of their relationship right after they met was just a hookup. They didn't go out on dates, talked/emailed once or twice a week, and hooked up once a week or so. Now, they are in a serious, committed, relationship. They just fell in love. They both did what they needed but realized they now only want to be with eachother. I am very happy for them, but our other friends talk crap about their relationship. Anyone else had an experience like this, since many think it can't happen?

2007-01-31 02:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by Calli 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this popular guy that every girl likes. I don't think that I'm pretty, but everyone keeps telling me that i am. Even this one popularish guy sai dthat i was pretty. I don't think that I have a chance w/ him, but should I ask him out anyway?

2007-01-31 02:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

I souldnt actually say "friend" because she is not. You see I have known her for like 4 years and her mother and my mother run our school together. I go to church with them, i go to homeschool meetings/trips with them...you get my point? she is always there. But ever since boys started paying attention to her her head has grown 6 six sizes...she just got..vain. She has NO qualities a friend should have...I cant deal with her anymore! SHe is just not nice. But I am always around her! What should I do because any time i come in contact with her, she ruins my day...help!
-thanks

2007-01-31 02:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by ameeaiken31304 2 in Friends

that everytime she spent the night at my house my brother al;ways tired to get her to come to his room. he was 14 and we were 11 and he made her lay down naked and he told her she had something he needed and was going to give her something special in return she said he layed on her and stuck a large pole in her body for a while and made her leak white stuff after they were done? could it be true?
i have noticed they spend time while i am playing by myself because she says he has something to give him but she didn't want to and he will take our bikes and give them to the kids at school?

2007-01-31 02:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by curiousbynature 1 in Friends

2007-01-31 02:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

OK, let me first state that my girlfriend has Bi Polar, I am only stating this because I have heard and I'd like to see from some other people if they know it true or not, that sometimes.. a person with bi polar suffer from "mania" for several weeks to months, making them not act like themselves and make un-wise decisions..

Now I will tell you what is going on, recently my girlfriend's brother has came to live with her, and her mother. Her brother has been into heavy drugs, and has been telling my gf how cool they are and that she ought to try them out, thankfully she still her self a bit and have said No, im good.. However.. now ever since her brother and his friends who are complete losers come to the house, they have been influencing her, she acts like a totally different person around them, it somewhat makes me mad that she cannot just be herself. Ontop of that, I am not saying ganja is horrible, however she is now mentally addicted to it.. wants it every single day.

2007-01-31 02:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plain and simple as that. Problem is every time I find someone that I have an interest in I come out of it with nothing but feeling worse than before. She's in a couple of my college classes and I say something to her usually every day just to get a laugh really cuz that's all I really got going for me in the conversation department. haha. I never really get it out right when I'm interested in someone. It always becomes a disaster and just ends up in me being the guy friend or telling me o you're a nice guy. Yeah well you know how that saying goes. Basically, I'm a flop with this. I got stood up a couple years ago for junior prom. She wanted to go with me but then changed her mind pretty close to it and left me hanging. So yeah, you can see where I'm coming from on this.

2007-01-31 02:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by GoneForGood 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am 35 years old and have a 68 year old mother that is mentally ill. I need help!!!!! I have reached a point where I just can't take her emotional abuse anymore, she is always angry and nasty. When I establish boundries and hang up when she statrs attacking me she then calls me constantly and leaves these nasty messages. They she starts with the I wish I were dead, I should just run away...blah blah. I will give you just a small snipit of her abuse towards me...I was recently at a local store doing my shopping and my cell phone was in my purse on vibrate...when I realized it was rining, i ansewered it and she had alredy been sent to voice maill...well knowing I wuld suffer her rather I immedately called her back...mind you before she even had a chance to leave a message. She didn't even say hello to me she just very nastly said what is the matter with you people, why don't you ever answer your phones. Any advice as to how to hanlde this?

2007-01-31 02:13:51 · 23 answers · asked by monique w 1 in Family

2007-01-31 02:12:48 · 18 answers · asked by Jackie M B 1 in Friends

1. HOUSE SEX when you just got together and are having sex all over the house, room, kitchen, bathroom...
2. BEDROOM SEX after a while, you just have sex in the bedroom...
3. HALL SEX after the years pass, you just pass each other in the hall and say "fukc you!"...
4. COURTROOM SEX...you screw each other in front of a lot of people...judge included!

2007-01-31 02:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

Very curious about this as I'm guessing it's a pretty high ocurrence.

2007-01-31 02:11:03 · 8 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 02:10:47 · 31 answers · asked by Paul Frehley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know some guys r very verbal about it but not all, so how do u know??

2007-01-31 02:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by XcharX 3 in Singles & Dating

We had a baby 8 months ago and I desperately wanted to stay home w/ her but our finances would not allow it. I am ok most of the time but every once in a while I get really upset and throw it in my Husbands face that he does not make enough money. I feel awful about it b/c I know he wants to do better for us. How can I make this stop????

2007-01-31 02:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by shanzy02 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you go a long period without being asked out or hit on??

2007-01-31 02:08:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WEll my boyfriend and i have not been together for too long not even a year and we seem to be fighting and everytime we fight i have a tendency of packing up his clothes i love him i really do but he pisses me off the other day we were talking about something that had to do with his father and i said i love you father to death as if he was my own he has opened my eyes alot in tons of different situations and i love him for that so my boyfriend said something like fine then y dont you just let him open up your @$$ that hurt for him to even say that to me so that night i slept on the couch and the next morning he left at 9 am i was mad so i left around 10 and got home @12 in the afternoon when he came home it was 8pm and i was waiting there the whole day but when he gets there he goes straight to the bathroom and starts shaving his face he got a nice outfit together and got the clothes and left i said fine u want to leave all of your stuff will be packed he didnt get there till 3 am

2007-01-31 02:07:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but i still love here . and can't forget her . and belive that in thise life time we will be togethere . here name is n................................................................................................................. so fr's what i will do to impress her ?

2007-01-31 02:07:10 · 5 answers · asked by abhi 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for three years and he has and always has had a high sex drive whereas mine is very low and pretty much always has. When we make love it is wonderful and he knows how to please me the only thing is I wish I had a bigger desire to just do it! Once we start I'm fine its just getting me to really want it. We do tons of foreplay and like I say he pleases me I just have no desire to have sex and would rather sleep because I've been up with the baby all night. My husband still is very attractive to me so that is not an issue and Like I say its always been like this but I really want to change it. Any suggestions on how to raise my libido?

2007-01-31 02:06:55 · 10 answers · asked by LKJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 02:06:46 · 6 answers · asked by anime_junkie_77 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law has a phobia with bathrooms. She is deafly afraid to go into the bathroom by herself. Last weekend she was visiting my husband and I. We had to leave out for a couple of hours to do some shopping for the kids. When I got back home and walked into my kitchen, the smell was out of this world. There was doo doo plops and traces of urine in my kitchen sink!! I was mortified. She had even used my dish cloth to wipe her stankin butt!!
When I asked her what in the world was she thinking, she said that she really had to use the bathroom but couldn't hold it in any longer. Since she is afraid of the bathroom she thought that it would be ok with my husband and I if she used our kitchen sink as the toilet!! I was heated!
My husband didn't think that it was a big deal. He just said that we shouldn't leave her alone for such a long period of time. Why should it be ok for mother in law to use my kitchen sink as a toilet??

2007-01-31 02:06:35 · 15 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Family

We have been together for 3 years & through a lot of ups and downs. Now we have been living together for 1 year and things have been great. He is a nice guy & would do aything for me, but I am just not sure how I feel anymore. He stopped showing me any attention, or even affection we basically live in seperate worlds!! I have told him how I feel about this several times and nothing changes!! HELP!

2007-01-31 02:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a wonderful guy and we're getting married this fall. However, when we first started dating, he had just been dumped by a girl he loved very much bc she wanted another guy and had been cheating. A month and a half into it, he put things on hold for awhile to check and see if he still had feelings for her. I was devastated. She contacted him, wanting to meet and when they did, she proceeded to re-tell him in detail how she cheated on him and they got in a huge argument and that was that. She just wanted to manipulate him. We have been together ever since, over a year now, and we are very happy and I trust him 100%. Recently, the ex felt the need to email me and remind me that I was his "second choice" but that he did love me now. Now it is all I think about, and I feel really crappy bc I really was his second choice. If she had been nice to him when they met, he probably wouldve chosen her over me bc she held his past and he loved her so much. How can I get over this?

2007-01-31 02:06:00 · 21 answers · asked by HayleyD 3 in Singles & Dating

Based on what I have learned about marriage from being a comedian (making marriage jokes and taking to people after shows) and just my general interest in the husband/wife interaction, I have been writing a book on the subject. The question is will it get shot down because I have no formal training?

2007-01-31 02:05:37 · 1 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce