We have been together for 3 years & through a lot of ups and downs. Now we have been living together for 1 year and things have been great. He is a nice guy & would do aything for me, but I am just not sure how I feel anymore. He stopped showing me any attention, or even affection we basically live in seperate worlds!! I have told him how I feel about this several times and nothing changes!! HELP!
2007-01-31 02:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you told him how you feel and he blows it off and doesnt do anything then i guess thats how he feels about it...theres your answer maybe if you leave it will make him think and he will try to do something dont give inlet him prove it to you
2007-01-31 02:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help. You are experiencing the same thing that most every couple goes through. Years ago it was called "The Seven Year Itch" only with the fast pace of today, it happens a lot sooner. If you can get through it and ease your mind, you can settle into a common life style. You're young, that easy enough to see so you're still wanting the flair and excitement that you had when you were still dating. Talk to him and bring back some of that flair, go out and do things to spice up your lives. It will do the both of you a world of good.
2007-01-31 02:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need time away from him to analyze your feelings. Unless you are both trying to keep the relationship new, by doing new things together, it's going to get boring. Try a vacation apart and see what happens! Good Luck!
2007-01-31 02:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take some time apart from each other and think about what you want from the relationship. Also think about how you feel towards one another. You will either miss him like crazy or find yourself going "I don't want to be with him anymore". You need to do what's best for you at this point.
2007-01-31 02:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both probably have different priorities now! I know that you've been together for a while but if you're not feeling him anymore you have to move on!
2007-01-31 02:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋