if you go a long period without being asked out or hit on??
2007-01-31 02:08:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
I have better things to worry about
Confidence is in the eye of the beholder
2007-01-31 02:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe....especially when I was younger. But at some point a person realizes that their own belief in themselves is enough to validate them and that being asked out is not the measure of whether or not they are attractive. Sometimes the stronger and more independent a woman is the less she will be asked out b/c guys like to manipulate the women with low self esteem. Most guys can't deal w/a female that is viewed as being on 'equal footing'.
2007-01-31 10:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know your hot whether or not your being hit on or asked out. Maybe women intimidated by your intelligence or style. Be confident, and don't let that get you down. They shouldn't have a great impact on your self-esteem. Being sought after can boost your self-esteem, but it shouldn't lower it.
2007-01-31 10:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. You need to have enough belief in yourself that something of that sort wouldn't bother you in the least. If YOU believe you are attractive and worthwhile, then others will believe that too. It all comes from within.
You will have a miserable life if you base your worth on acceptance from other people. Accept yourself and put what other people think very far down on the list of things that are important.
If you have a hard time doing that, then just imagine that you're not getting asked out because guys/girls think you're TOO attractive and are afraid of rejection from you. :-)
2007-01-31 10:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Often I will change my body language to avoid being hit on. I'm secure in who I am, I don't look for men to validate that for me.
2007-02-01 00:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by hrh_gracee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it gave me a chance to be alone and not worry about the pressures of dating or it did before i got married, now i never get hit on (sigh)
2007-01-31 10:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may make a person feel unwanted or not worthy of anyones attention.
2007-01-31 10:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would you think that? Sometimes it's best stress wise because you don't have to worry about him cheating on you.
2007-01-31 10:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sometimes women dont want to be bothered and its good for us anyway when that stuff dont happen ona regular
2007-01-31 10:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..perhaps u r just too good for others!maybe they're just nervous to approach u!have fun...life is beautiful!
2007-01-31 10:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋