Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

my husband does not want me to talk to one of my guys bestfriend because he ask me out in the pass but i said no and that was that well i told him i would not talk to him anymore but yesterday he saw that i emailed him and I said MY FRIEND was sexy but i was just playing because thats how we used to get along and my hubby got mad AND HE DOES NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO ME. AM I WRONG WHAT SHOULD I DO HELP PLEASE????

2007-01-30 05:39:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i keep reading the text my ex sent last friday nite at 3am and it had real feelings in it saying he cares and miss us all
i no i shoulnt keep reading it but im missing him more and more this time i fink it coz i no it def over but i stil feel he will wont me back do u fink he will we have broken up 4 times b 4 and he ends up missing me thing is i miss him and wont him back this time the last splits wen he dump me i did not care and did not wont him back now that i do wont him back seems he jus cares what shal i do i no to move on but ?! i miss hugs etc

2007-01-30 05:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I am in love with a person and we r planning to get married. we live in 2 different countries. however when i tell him about something that bothers me in him and ask him not to do it, he says he wont and says he is sorry but in the end does it again. the thing that bothers me is when i call him, he doesnt answer me coz he puts his mobile on silent when he sleeps and he doesnt call back. i told him that i get worried about him when he doesnt reply and told him to at least msg me or call back.
we do chat always and he always comes online after like 30 mins or 1 hr after i call.
it really hurts me when he doesnt call back. what should i do?

2007-01-30 05:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to go to BRAZIL

2007-01-30 05:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by Emperatriz S 3 in Weddings

As I began to discover that I liked a good friend, I told her we needed to talk. I admitted liking her a lot but only wanting a friendship right now. She agreed to enjoy a "nice friendship", but I still had feelings afterward. I have now talked to her four times telling my feelings for her, but she has never told me how she feels until she is clear about how I feel. All four times I thought it best that we remain friends, and she agreed. Is she hiding how she feels because she is unsure of me? Is she playing with me?

2007-01-30 05:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my husband went through a bad patch, he made mistakes and so did i which we have learnt from and are now happy. But udring the bad time, 7 months ago, he spoke to a girl from work on the phone for a week. it broke my heart, and i am still trying to forget it. he has always been devoted to me and for a time we were nasty to each other but we have always loved each other.

my heart and mind feel as though they are broken and sometimes i cant take these overwelming feelings anymore. we put 100% into our marriage and he cut all contact with his friends and this girl. I guess it woke me up to the fact that i loved him very much and that i didnt want to live without him, but i get images of him talking on the phone and it hurts so badly that i cant breathe. how can i forget this and get on with my life? i guess i cant forgive myself for letting my marriage get to that stage and i hate myself for it. today i though that i should just end it all.

2007-01-30 05:38:34 · 10 answers · asked by english_latina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I try every day to do my best. I give 110 % all of the time. I am nice most of the time, and can be mean when I have to. I did 4 years in the Army, but all of this started before I joined. I think it's because I look funny or what. I don't understand. Even my own family thinks I'm nuts. Why so much pressure?

2007-01-30 05:38:28 · 3 answers · asked by lvillejj 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I realy like her she is 13 and i cnat tell u her name because she canread this. My friend asked her if she like me but she sayd she doesnt know.so what does that mean yes or no?

2007-01-30 05:38:14 · 5 answers · asked by Mexicano4life13 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 05:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently got out of a long relationship that resulted in a baby, you might be able to refer back to my earlier question on :"how do i get over things" and i would like to know how to start dating, the ehing is i have never thought highly on dating but im sure it is something i would enjoy doing if i were more familiar with it

2007-01-30 05:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Greenknight87 2 in Singles & Dating

does my dad have the right to press charges on a guy that i invited into my room at 12:00am? and do my parents have the right to get a restrianing order against him. When nothing even happened?

2007-01-30 05:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yes, I have, since I am quick learner. I learned my first lessons about chick when I was sixteen. Not to fall in relationship, emotions, love and dramas with em coz that will take happiness out of ur life. Best way is to get a tap and get out. What have you learned?

2007-01-30 05:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 05:34:48 · 32 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Singles & Dating

how should i get a girlfriend?i need some advice...i dont want to try dating websites....should i try to find one on here?

2007-01-30 05:34:22 · 14 answers · asked by jacob l 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be roommates and best friends with this woman. We are both the same age (mid-20s), and at the time I thought she was a great person. However, after a year of living together, I started to realize she's really just selfish and manipulative. She's the popular girl from HS who always knows how to get what she wants and doesn't care who she has to trash to do it.

After she suddenly decided to move out from our apt. and move in with her boyfriend of about 2 months, and left me scrambling to find a new roomie, she and her new "best friend" trashed me as badly as they could in a very public manner. I cut her out of my life completely, and was a better person for it. She kept sending me e-mails, trying to act like we could be friends again, but I didn't bite.

The problem now is, we have one mutual friend who is a very close friend of mine for years. Through this friend, I'm still hearing about her manipulations, and she's using this mutual friend to get to me. What to do?

2007-01-30 05:34:18 · 20 answers · asked by Sophie832 3 in Friends

she 3 yr and she screams LOUD if she does not get what she wants, Shes always mean other kids she will not listen to anybodie and 4 sum reason she does not want to wear clothes , i need to know what good thing i could do to help her listen to us,

2007-01-30 05:33:56 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

there is this girl I like and I think she still likes me, we kissed few times...no sex....everything was going good but than she told me she is not ready for relationship yet. we both are freshly out of long terms relation ships and she is still actually in final stages of divorce....and that was her husband that left her

we do hangout every once in a while, go to restaurants, movies etc
question is
lately when we go to the movies and she sits next to me and her legs are crossed in the way that her upper leg is pointing towards me and she touches my knee with her foot very very gently....not just by accident she keeps the contact for minutes at a time or until I move my legs. but at the same time she keeps her hands close to her so I can't hold her hand maybe she is just to shy to extend her hand?..is this some kind of a sign? Also when I look at her she would glance back but quickly turn away...
and she always gives me hugs and kiss on a cheek, but lately every once in a while she would place her hand on my chest and gently slides it down to where my stomach begins...this happens quick is this how you hug your friends or is there little more to it?
What should I do next time she hug me like that?
Is she having second thoughts about not being ready just yet....its been over two months since she told me that and I was very cool about it, acted like I wasn't disappointed which I was a little, and never brought it up again

2007-01-30 05:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and i in band all we talk about is sex, he is always takin his foot and rubbing mine. He is always flirting and touching me (chest)(arms)(face). So, how can i get him back? but he has a girlfriend.

2007-01-30 05:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by Tweetz 2 in Singles & Dating

Like what free dating sites or websites can I use to meet new guys in the Pittsburgh PA area.

2007-01-30 05:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I really like but I dont know if he likes me because he plays around alot so I dont know when he is playing or telling the truth usually I call him and then he calls me its rare for him to call me out of the blue but when i am with him and i tell him that am going to leave he says no stay but hes never said he likes me and also I have asked him before that what he thinks of me and he just changes the subject please help me i need help

2007-01-30 05:31:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since I broke up with this guy. He has been following me around everywere. Hasnt touched me. It is just creepy. I just want to tell him that i dont like him and he needs to leave me a lone. I really dont want to break his feelings but I dont like him anymore. Help me find a way so I can tell him not to following me around? thank you so much.

2007-01-30 05:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by KMC!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

personally, i think it's extremely selfish on her behalf: by the time her kids are eighteen, she'll be eighty five...you could say "well as long as she's a good mother, then it doesn't matter", but even if she's the best in the world, she's not gonna live for most of their lives, so it's practically guaranteeing they won't have a mother by the time they hit 20..i know she lied about her age, but how can a clinic let it happen? shouldn't there be a birth certificate or some sort of document involved? i think IVF is a great thing, but nature has its laws and maybe exceding them a bit is fine, but 67...that's just wrong (in my opinion). their mum is probably going to be older than most of their friends' grandmothers! what are your thoughts? also, anyone who can fight my argument to try and change my mind is very welcome.

2007-01-30 05:28:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-30 05:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are going to act out a fantasy of hers. It involves me being a burglar and pretending to break in. She wants me to bind ang gag her with duct tape, then we do the deed. Is this "simulated rape" fantasy common amongst women? Have any of you experianced this?

2007-01-30 05:27:39 · 41 answers · asked by Jack Bauer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Honestly, this thought has entered my mind many times.

2007-01-30 05:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been married for 4 months and me and my husband are having some problems in the bedroom...he has no problem "getting it up" but halfway through it seems he can't stay hard. I can't help but wonder if he's already bored with me, or if there's some other issue. Ive tried different positions, cutting back on how often we have it, all sorts of things. I don't want to ask because its such a sensitive subject to men, but is there anything I can do to help?

2007-01-30 05:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by hopek2006 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 05:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has been acting up at school and when his parents asked him why he said that he did because he felt that his dad loved me more than him. My boyfriend reassured him that that would never happen, but it breaks my heart that he feels that way. My boyfriend has him on the weekends and I'm concerned that I won't be able to spend anytime with both of them, now that I know that his son is so sensitive to our relationship. I don't know what to do.

2007-01-30 05:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Ailama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 05:24:22 · 12 answers · asked by s.a.b 1 in Family

I have had a problem with our life in the bedroom Its not my wife its me dI have to watch porn to get in the mood the problem is its the males on the porn that turns me on I have also found myself going on gay websites I need to talk to my wife because I am actually considering trying this with a contact I have made I love my wife dearly but for the last 10 yrs I have had this problem So question is DO I TELL MY WIFE? DO I TRY THE RELATION TO SEE IF I REALLY WANT THIS BEFORE I HURT HER? or DO I JUST LEAVE HER? DO I KEEP ON WITH THE PORN AND LIVE IN AN UNSATIFIED LIFE WITH MY WIFE?

2007-01-30 05:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by goforit 1 in Marriage & Divorce