2007-01-30 05:24:22 · 12 answers · asked by s.a.b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 18 and moved in mith my boyfriend without my parents consent. We have lived with eachother for about a year and trust me its hard... especially if you need to actually establish the house (i.e. get food, towels, furniture ect.) If he already lives on his own than it might be a bit easier. Just remember your parents have been there for you longer but they will always forgive you...even if it takes a long time. Just show them that your mature about it and that you dont just want to rebel
2007-01-30 05:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by sarabarashhs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this same type of thing right now. My situation was a bit more complicated though since my boyfriend was then 26 and I was only 17 and my parents reported him to the police so I moved out to my grandma's house. I am going to stay there until I graduate from high school. But if you really want to do this since I know exactly how you feel, make sure you know that your parents will always be there when nobody else is. Is your boyfriend suppotive? Does he have a job? If you answer yes to these two questions then you are well on your way. If you are still in school, just make a big, huge promise to yourself that you will still graduate!!!!!!
2007-01-30 06:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i accept as true with the guy up there that suggested there is much greater to this tale than you're telling us. is your boyfriend a douche? have you ever finished different stuff that has disillusioned your mothers and fathers, and the shifting element substitute into merely the straw that broke the camel's back? are you pregnant? additionally, why are you even thinking of marriage at 18? i've got faith such as you at the instant are not thinking authentic and for some ordinary reason you're so *~in love~* with this dude which you think of something and each little thing concerning him is what's authentic. reality is, you're in basic terms 18, you have not have been given any concept what's authentic or incorrect at this factor. you're too youthful. and that may not inevitably a foul element...maximum 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds do not probable be conscious of what they wanna do with themselves. you're in all threat gonna sense sorry approximately all of this in some years, and prefer you listened on your mothers and fathers. yet sturdy success inclusive of your delusional aspirations for now.
2016-10-16 07:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved out at 18 without my parents consent. I still had to finish up my senior year. I was selfish at the time and it bit me in the rear-end. Though I am very happy and still with the same person, and married at 19. It has been a real struggle. My sister whom is still home and is 23, is able to really enjoy things. Not that I haven't nor that I don't. It is just that she doesn't have to worry about the next pay check. She just keeps saving and in the future she can be more founded. Be warned, moving out may make you feel free, but you will find that when the bills come with your name on it, it will feel more like a prison at 18. But if your OK with that. But be very cauteous and careful of your decision, don't be impulsive and really discuss with not only your parents but the boyfriend. Things will change, believe me. I mean I am a Christian and I really don't recommend you moving in withou being married. I did, and it caused me alot of stress, but now I am very happy, and we built our own home, but not without 7-8yrs of struggle. Goodluck!
2007-01-30 06:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's ok but I strongly urge you to wait. If you wont wait please think about why your parents don't want you to do it. Would it kill you to wait for 6 months? Are you still in school? I was 18 and in a rush to move out of my parents house once too. It was the biggest mistake of my life and it has taken 12 years to earn back my parents respect. When I was 18 it didnt matter to me, but now that I'm a mom, with kids of my own it means alot to hear that my parents are proud of me and what I've accomplished. So just think before you go ahead and move out. You may decide that now is not the time for it,
2007-01-30 06:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good idea to make sure you leave on good terms if you do. I did that and I left on bad terms with my parents. I just took off and didn't even tell them where I was going. Fornately when I needed it they let me move back in with them but if you don't leave on good terms, if something happens and you need a place to stay they may not give you one.
2007-01-30 05:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just move in with your boyfriend, you don't want to show your parents that you are just rebelling. be mature, talk to them and tell them what you plan on doing, they don't need to agree, you're just letting them know.
be responsible and mature. be aware that it can be very hard, and hopefully your parents might even help you guys out with establishing the house and stuff.
good luck :)
2007-01-30 05:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by in love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once your 18 your parents can't stop you, but they can with hold all your belonging except some of your cloths if they really want to cause problems for you
2007-01-30 05:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep... but you may want to do this in a more mature way then just see you im leaving. You want them to treat you like an adult act like one and be responsible and respectful to them.
2007-01-30 05:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are old enough to make your own decisions, but whatever
you do, don't disrespect your parents.
2007-01-30 05:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by pipnparts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋