Best way: Don't look. I was a single mom and wasnt looking AT ALL. But I enjoyed playing games like gin and cribbage on yahoo. I have met alot of great people playing games, the best being my husband. We met playing cribbage 4 years ago.
So, dont look! What is meant to be will be.
2007-01-30 05:42:23
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answered by an88mikewife 5
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Don't know of any good free ones, but Match.com, Yahoo! Personals are both good, plus there are a couple of Christian ones, like Christian Cafe I think is one of them. My suggestion would be to simply put up the free ads on those websites so if someone sees you they can contact you, but don't necessarily get a full-blown membership. I know at least Yahoo will allow you to have a full profile without paying, you just have to pay to contact others.
So I'd definitely get the word out there that you're available, but wouldn't focus in on that. Try to think about the things that are important to you. Is faith important to you? Find a big church in the area and join their single's ministry if they have one. Is it important that he's just a really caring guy? Try to join a volunteer organization you really care about, like feeding the homeless, or helping with a pet shelter. I know that as a single mom you don't have any time for outside activities, but these would be a much better way to meet good quality people than on the web, not that it can't happen, it's just not as likely.
Finally, as time allows, try to hang out more with your favorite friends, ask them if you can tag along when they go out with their other friends that you may not know, build on your friends' network and you might find someone worthwhile.
One final thought. Don't forget about MySpace. Sure there are a lot of creeps out there, but no one puts as much time into their personals ad as they do in their myspace page, you'll have the best chances of knowing more about the person upfront, before you even meet. Plus, you can start with your friends and their friends and work it from there, at least you'll know some of the same people.
P.S. Don't forget to stay positive and stay confident. While it may be true that some guys would rather start a relationship without kids, that doesn't eliminate THAT many of us. As long as you believe that you have plenty to offer (without getting cocky of course, just know what you're worth) and that a guy should WANT to get together with you, it's much more likely that other people around you, including a potential mate, will look at this the same way. Think of your kid as a bonus rather than luggage. Your future mate will have a kid who's still young enough that they will learn from him and he can truly be their dad, but also he will have skipped some of the diaper-changing phase. Take care.
2007-01-30 13:53:56
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answered by yishor 4
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