Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

i just want to know where to draw the line between obsession, like , and love.

2007-01-30 04:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by MRS. VAZQUEZ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be a guest book person for a wedding, what will I be doing? I know the bride will go over this stuff with me, I just want to have a little heads up on it before time...

2007-01-30 04:49:18 · 4 answers · asked by kbull 1 in Weddings

I went out friday night for only 1 hour and 5 minutes
with my mum and her partner
my mum's partners son is who like loads
i was only at the pub for 45 minsutes when he turned up
me and my mum went in the next pub 20 minutes after he went in there didnt say nothing to me he went to his dad at the bar
so when i went to go home i said bye to his dads
then he said yea see yu later mellissa
He could of not say anything to me .
I only there for 1 hour and 5 minutes
sorry about my grammer

Do you think i should of stayed there longer
then i did and spoken to him

i have kissed him before
i am 21 he is 25

2007-01-30 04:48:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but he actually means to kiss his butt!

2007-01-30 04:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you feel is more important in marriage and why? What is the difference between sex and intimacy in a relationship? Do you feel that intimacy lasts longer then sex or does sex last longer then intimacy..... I want to see input and feedback on this subject... Thanks in advance everyone:) What would you rather have more of in your marriage sex or intimacy?

2007-01-30 04:47:07 · 17 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boys' father and I are divorced and they live with him. For all other reasons except for the emotional abuse, it is best for them to live with him. However, he yells at them and reduces them to tears, then calls them ugly and crude names because they are crying. They are ages 10 and 9. We have shared custody so neither of us pays child support. Talking to their father would bring his wrath down upon them and they would never trust me to talk to me about their feelings again. This is a very frail situation. Any suggestions out there? Thank you.

2007-01-30 04:46:48 · 34 answers · asked by Laura S 1 in Family

Leading a celebrity life.... whats the best way to go about it?

2007-01-30 04:46:21 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Spirit♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 04:46:17 · 20 answers · asked by Danny D 2 in Friends

Whats the most beautiful word/words you can think of to describe your spouse?
example--Awesome, wonderful,amazing.......

2007-01-30 04:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by Tracy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend is a stripper and really loves me. I think I love her but I have my reservations because she had prostituted herself in the past. She says she has changed and really wants to be with me. While she is open for a new or different job, she is disappointed in the amount of money she will be making. I would have to pay her bills. She also has an addiction to Vicodin. We are going to therapy, and I have her seeing my therapist to help her with her issues. I am relatively happy when I am around her, but when she is not with me, I am sometimes consumed with her problems and how to help her. I know I am good to her and I am a good influence. I have sent in people to her club to spy and they tell me that she is a good girl. She doesn't have a college education and does not stimulate me intellectually. I am not one to give up but I want to know if I should. It would devastate her and she would go back to her old ways I'm sure. That is a burden I don't want to accept.

2007-01-30 04:45:47 · 23 answers · asked by bluhat55 2 in Singles & Dating

when people want to know your business and tear you down?

2007-01-30 04:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Friends

Recently I have started dating two different girls. Both are 26 turning 27 soon and both have current long-distance boyfriends.

Both girls say they are somewhat unhappy with their current relationships but are scared to completely breakup with their boyfriends unless they have a sure alternative.

The fear comes from the fact that they are getting older and would like to get married + children and they don't want to go through the lengthy cycle of dating, finding someone new etc.

Both seem to be interested in me but we are in the very early stage of dating so they have not brought up my long term goals.

One of the girls is on a "trial-seperation" from her boyfriend and he knows that I am sleeping with his girlfriend. The other one has not told her boyfriend.

Is it weird of me to feel weird about this situation? Do a lot of women find themselves in this situation of having the age pressure? How should this effect whether I should choose to continue dating either of them?

2007-01-30 04:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Rushed60 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 04:44:41 · 37 answers · asked by Danny D 2 in Friends

It's this guy I had a crush on for a while and I finally got up enough nerve to inform him of this. Our relationship has open up within the past couple of weeks. We both are into church. He stresses that he's not looking to get into a relationship with anyone which is fine because I just got out of a relationship this past November but we have a great deal of respect for one another. After telling him about my secret crush I had on him and with the conversation we've had so far, I can so we are definitely friends. This is the key future point..if time permits this guy would definitely be my husband (-:

2007-01-30 04:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by Icey W 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother left me, he suppose to take me to school. I called his phone and he said, "You should've wake yourself up, I'm not your mom, I gotta class so bye". My mom on the other is yelling at me because she thinks I'm always late and that's why he left me.

Well, I wouldn't been so late since I gave him my cell phone. My cell phone had an alarm in it so it use to wake me up. I hate this house, my brother does wrong things and my mom is like "Well, he is a guy." And then, I do little things, my mom is yelling at me like crazy. My mom respects my brother so much because he works, he is going to help her pay the bills.

Anyways, I want to move out. I want to live with my aunty, I know she'll be so happy to see me, She'll be glad to take me to school. On the other hand, I know for sure that my mom is going to ask me to come back. My mom is going to see who was helping her clean the house, and when she gets off from work, who was putting food on her table? ME

2007-01-30 04:44:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4790597

Do you think it's too big? Going over board? Or a great present?

2007-01-30 04:43:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to decide on what color I want my flowers and bride maids dresses and cake decor and etc.
BUt I don't know how...each time i like a different one...
How did you decide or do you know a way i can decide?

THanks!

2007-01-30 04:42:51 · 17 answers · asked by Cutie77 3 in Weddings

see u guys no wat my problm is alredy now th thin is i got a respons xplainin that hes juss lukn 4 sex....well u no he was tryn 2 gimme a hikey on our 1st d8 but wn i tol him 2 stp he did,imedatly n said sry nvr tlkd bout sleepn w/me n is vry respctful of th fact that i wanna stay a vrgn till i get married....nvr tried 2 do ANYTHING, i mean im th 1 who always gos in 4 th kiss!!!he cares bout me, nvr makes me wait ethr!

2007-01-30 04:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 17 years old we are having a baby in june and very much in love he inlines for fun and rides bmx he loves to play video games and i dont really know what else

2007-01-30 04:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If ne female interested in contract marriage contact me. I am ready for the deal. Genuine persons only, No time waters plz

2007-01-30 04:41:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be ex has a lawyer, there is a final hearing scheduled in March. They told me that I need to get my witness list together. I am so scared. I cannot afford a lawyer. State legal aid won't help, I've called everywhere for a pro bono lawyer. I'm at a standstill. I don't know where to go next. It seems like he is just winning at everything. I'm in AZ. ANY help would be appreciated.

2007-01-30 04:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by arizonakellie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend of mine who i use to talk to a long time ago.. he kept something of mine and i kept something of his..so when i asked for my stuff back he told me he lost it and it really meant a whole lot to me.. so i told him the other day that i wouldnt give his back well i told him i lost his stuff too.. he didnt believe me.. which i didnt care.. we got into it and i told him not to text or call my phone anymore.. i really cursed him out...

2007-01-30 04:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by Mz. Robbinson 1 in Singles & Dating

i'll like to get over being shy, I hate it. I alway feel alone and I get so nerves when speaking to someone, its like feeling embrassed to speak and I want to over-come it does anyone have any tips for me?

2007-01-30 04:40:51 · 1 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

When a female is much younger (10 - 30 Yrs) than the male in a relationship, why is there always so much negative input from people outside the relationship concerning the sincerity of that relationship? And why is the criticism 10 fold when the young female is a teen? What % of these types of relationships do you think are sincere?

2007-01-30 04:39:46 · 4 answers · asked by Patrick M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 04:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if you could put a% on it what would it be ?

2007-01-30 04:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help, my loser fiance has not had a job all month. I go home to find him with his friends (smoking weed, making music, and playing video games). He never cleans up, never cooks, he doesn't do much. I work 55+ hrs/wk to go home to this crap! Anyway- rent is due on 2/4 and he has no money! Also, bills are behind and he has a $500 car note that is late (I cosigned). His "solution" is to call a cash advance place (the ones you see on TV, they say they don't check your credit) to pay for rent and his car... which is about $1,000 or a little more. Will a cash loan place loan someone with no JOB and BAD credit this type of $$? I hope not, I hope we get evicited so I can move back home w/ my parents. He "says" he loves me and he is going to change, but his actions do not reflect. How should I act when I go home and find him there w/ his freinds? He has made no effort to even look for a job. I'm so stressed out here and so unhappy! Anyone have any advice for me? We've been 2gether 5 yrs.

2007-01-30 04:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

he said he was leavin on the 6 of january and i havent talked to him but my cousin seen him with his ex-girlfriend passing out baby shower invitions and he like jus really left for fort benning last monday and all alone i was sittin home wait for a letter from him.... i finally got one yesterday and i've already writen him back and trust me there wasnt anythin to good to say....... the letter is 3 pages i'm so confused HOW CAN HE LIE TO ME TO MY FACE!!!OVA AND OVA AGAIN

2007-01-30 04:36:46 · 26 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, So I talked to my Aunt and she said that I can go to live with her because they have a big enough house. She said this because I asked her. I really want to live with her because she helps me in school and with problems that noone here cares about. I asked my dad last night and he said no after that I said please a few times and he completely flipped he came in the room and started throwing stuff and calling me mental and retarded and then he called mom and told her everything and she said no and said that if I go down she will report me missing and I will be placed in a group home. And of course I would never come down without permission.I just don't understand what the big deal. My dad wouldn't even sit down to listen to what I had to say. He wouldn't even listen to why I wanted to come be with you.Then my mom was all like well, I asked a friend if she can tutor you and funny thing is she tutors in everything but math. What is that gunna help! beacuse that's my worst subjet..

2007-01-30 04:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family

I used to think being successful at being single meant having a girlfriend . A psychologist told me "That's part of it, but that's not all there is to it !" . What else is there to being successful at being single ? How would YOU measure being successful at being single ?

2007-01-30 04:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating