when people want to know your business and tear you down?
2007-01-30 04:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
STOP talking to them!!!!!!!
Hello, thats the way to not let them bring you down.
2007-01-30 06:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pay them no mind. If they can't help a situation I'm in, I don't tell them anything. Get away from those people that are possibly making you miserable. They mainly want to be in your business because they have none of their own. They tear you down because you allow it. Stop enabling this behavior by distancing yourself from those people.
2007-01-30 13:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend who did/is currently trying to do this. Ignore them COMPLETELY. Do not answer their calls, texts, etc ANYTHING. If you have to say something, pause for a second so you can think of the best thing possible instead of just blurting out the first random thing when you blow up at them. Be mature and you will win
2007-01-30 12:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply tell them to mind their business. I find that providing any information about yourself to anyone. That they will use it against you in the worse way. I've been there. Really, the only person you can trust is yourself. I hope this a help!
2007-01-30 12:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them. nobody can make u do or say something that u dont want to say/do. its all ur choice. if their being mean to u, just walk away. they may call u a coward, but ur not. ur more mature than them if all they do is wanna throw a fist. people who talk or walk, are way more mature than people who wanna get the S*hit beat outa them
2007-01-30 12:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment that your life is more interesting than theirs is...Ignore whatever they say...don't let them know they are getting to you,otherwise it feeds their fire. Smile and mean it. Always take the high road and you'll be just fine.
2007-01-30 14:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by IBelieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Ignore them and don't let them (by not giving them the time of day). I also use the phrase "none of your business" alot...
2007-01-30 13:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the the one you worship who's good and kind and loves you regardless about them in your prayers and to please take care of them. He'll do just that.
2007-01-30 13:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋