i just want to know where to draw the line between obsession, like , and love.
2007-01-30 04:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by MRS. VAZQUEZ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is impossible to desribe true love.
2007-01-30 05:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first like them, then you love them, then you become obessed with them, and they get crowded and feel smothered, and turn to thier nature which is wanting something that they can not have. So then they roll out, leaving your heart all smashed and leaving you in a state of confusion.
So you go out and meet someone else. Turns out you actually like them, then you fall in love again, and you want to wake up with them and go to sleep with them, and soon enough the obsession thing kicks back in and guess what? That's right, they feel smothered again and blow out leaving you really going crazy now because that was another 5 years of your life. So now you're getting older and the biological clock is ticking. You meet someone else and then all of a sudden you put these big guards up, telling yourself that you're not going to fall in love. You're just in it for the sex. That's all they want anyway, right? Wrong you get to know that woman and she's as old or older than you. She's got kids of her own and you love the way she is with them. I mean she really shows off her mothering skills. She's trying to make you bite the hook, you keep on holding back and holding back until one night after a 2 hour session of passion, you screw up and tell her those 3 magic words. But just saying "I love you is not enough". So you break it down for her and it's so sincere that a tear comes from your eye when you tell her "Baby, I can't hold it back any longer! You know I love you! You've had to feel this emotion, it's just oozing out of my pores. I wake up thinking about you. I'm at work and sometimes can't concentrate because I'm thinking about the last time we were together, fantisizing about the next time we will be together. From your fingertips to your toes, I love you! I love the way you smile. I love the way you laugh. I love the way you look at me with those eyes of yours, it seems like I see forever, when I look into your eyes. I didn't want this to happen. It just happened. You keep going and say "Now you have several options. You can tuck your tail and run, like every other woman that's touched my heart. Or you can take a step back and look at me, and realize that what you've always wanted is right here! Right now! You're looking at a man with the largest heart in the world. And he's saying to you, "here, take this heart and hold it tight!" "Now think about this very carefully. The last thing I want to do is make you rush into any decision. I don't want you to say this is what I want, this is who I want, unless you feel it! If you don't feel it, that's ok. Just please don't screw up this feeling I have for you and go telling me that things are going too fast. I'm telling you right now, they are going only as fast as you want them to.
So I say to you love is the feeling you get when you can't live without the other person. Every breath you take you want to smell them. Every happy thought you have, reminds you of them in some way. Love becomes obsesssion. But the problem is, love does not come to everyone at the same time.
Just hope you are ready when it comes your way!
2007-01-30 14:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love remains with you forever and can reveal itself with tears of joy or pain in an instant for the memory of it. it causes you to dream of a life together against all odds. some of the real lucky ones will live their remaining days with this person. some will have that last ounce of hope they meet their true beloved in heaven.
2007-01-30 12:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone have their own meaning
for me it is
when that man /or partner is holding while you are in pain
cry with you when you loss your baby
tell the emergency doc please save her and I will pay or give you anything
when that man who screaming that god does not exit the day before all the sudden calling his name to please spare you
and later thanking him with the admitance that he truly exits
is when that man massage your feet & legs every 30 minute because you just have blood transfusion
you know he loves when he hired a laywer to help you fight for your children
he loves when he told your son who wants to go to college that no need to worried (because his father refuse to pay) I will make sure that you go to school because you are mine as well
I can go on but it will take to long
but Most of all he loves you when put you in the tub wash you while are bleeding because you are miscarring your baby
OBSESSION
is when your X or anyone who claim to love you refuses to see you happy
or when he passes everyday in front of your house
I can go one also
But again TRUE LOVE IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE
2007-01-30 13:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love is not having to ask about it on yahoo answers...
2007-01-30 12:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no one knows, if we do, things would be a lot easier
2007-01-30 12:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋