he said he was leavin on the 6 of january and i havent talked to him but my cousin seen him with his ex-girlfriend passing out baby shower invitions and he like jus really left for fort benning last monday and all alone i was sittin home wait for a letter from him.... i finally got one yesterday and i've already writen him back and trust me there wasnt anythin to good to say....... the letter is 3 pages i'm so confused HOW CAN HE LIE TO ME TO MY FACE!!!OVA AND OVA AGAIN
2007-01-30 04:36:46 · 26 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he lie to you over and over? Because each time he does and you find out, you STILL allow him in your life. He has proven to be a liar, and you have proven to be foolish. There's no law that says you have to keep taking him back. STOP it..
2007-01-30 04:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well basically because he's realized that you haven't exactly caught him up in a lie and he sees that you really trusted him and sometimes that could be really bad. but don't feel bad because the lord don't like ugly and he will pay for his lying or go through something similar to what he put you through but alway remember just take it as a lesson learned and move on with your life , life is too short to live in the past and maybe take a break to reevaluate yourself so you can return back on the dating scene with a stronger frame of mind and handle your self better
2007-01-30 04:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as the old saying goes he's having his cake and eating it too. You need to move on and do your thing, soung like he has a family coming on the side. Be happy you are not the one getting ready to have his baby and going through the baby drama. He wants a family and a woman, never settle for less and be the other woman be THE WOMAN(the only one) who wants to share, sharing means some has to suffer will it be you?
PUSH ON GIRL
2007-01-30 05:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone like this in your life that is going to hurt you over and over again. No one is worth it that much. You should really figure out what you want in life and dump him. There are other fish in the sea and you will find the right one for you.
2007-01-30 04:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question. .......why the hell can't people take the time to type normal conversation into these things. What the hell is OVA and OVA. Don't people go to school anymore?
2007-01-30 04:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by northernguy40s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do it all the time. if he didn't want to be with you, then that is his loss. you may never know, he could be just handing out baby shower invitations for one of his friends.but if he did lie, then he doesn't deserve to be with you. there are many more guys that are better than that and you can do better than him.
2007-01-30 04:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by rissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it wasnt him. maybe ur cousin got confused. I get mixed up with people all the time. just talk to him about it and trust him. if u really trust him, you'll trust him for this. sorry i know its confusing, but if u really trust him, show it. talk to him, words speak better than actions
2007-01-30 04:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is because you are letting him, if you know you should at least confront him because he is taking you as as an oaf. I think it might be time to move on, it might be hard but you know just have him explain and ask him why hurt you and not just tell you the truth, you know if he loved you he shouldnt want to hurt you, im sorry and good luck
2007-01-30 04:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"but my cousin seen him with his ex-girlfriend passing out baby shower invitions " His baby?
He's a liar, what do you want with him? Do yourself a favor, and dump him.
2007-01-30 04:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all rumors go around it might have been some one else but if you know for a fact that it was him with prof to your eyes then i would dump him and find some one that will treat you better and some one who is honest you deserve the BEST!!!
2007-01-30 04:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by cold skiing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋