Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

The other night my boyfriend of 1 month is out my room talking to my parents in the living room. (I am 20 and living at home, he is 23 living with his dad, step mom and 2 teenage brothers) when curiousity got the best of me, and I started going through his cell phone's recent text messgaes. He had about 20 messgaes all from earlier that same day before he had gotten to my house that evening. I read the first one and I was shocked to read "So you know I have only been with one guy before right?" I about died but I couldn't stop myself from reading text after text of increasing sexual nature of what these two guys would like to do to each to each to each other. He'll casually say if a guy is good looking but it never seemed sexual. But he is always all over me and were already moving in together next month and maybe getting married. When I confronted him he said his 16 year old brother is gay but doesn't want anyone to know, so he uses his cell to secretly text this guy. Is he lying?

2007-01-30 04:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 27, jobless now but soon i'll get a simple entry level job. Do American girls generally think people my age with entry level jobs are pretty much losers? Are they willing to think outside the box and accept people even if their carreer life has failed?

I've heard radio and tv and have even overheard American people my age talking about how they 've worked here and there and they have Administrative jobs...then i look at myself and i'm nothing

2007-01-30 04:16:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

besides looks.....

2007-01-30 04:16:05 · 17 answers · asked by roobeng.indahouse 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 04:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by suri 1 in Friends

2007-01-30 04:14:08 · 13 answers · asked by thinkpp 2 in Family

2007-01-30 04:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by prego2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband came home from the shop and there was a major sparkle flake on his cheek.
when I asked him about it he said "OH, don't be stupid!"

2007-01-30 04:12:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know the legal age that a child can be left at home alone ?

2007-01-30 04:12:41 · 1 answers · asked by Angela R 1 in Family

2007-01-30 04:12:20 · 2 answers · asked by 4everluv 1 in Friends

I picked my cousin to be my maid of honor because she was the person I had known the longest. She is horrible! She won't do anything to help me and when I call to talk to her about the wedding she won't answer and won't return my calls. A bridesmaid offered to help do the shower without her but Im worried...How should I handle this??

2007-01-30 04:11:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been cheated on more than 50 times.. i give up

2007-01-30 04:10:58 · 4 answers · asked by Sxoxo 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 04:10:29 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with her today. Now everything I see reminds me of her. It's driving me mad. She was always so nice to me but that 'spark' wasn't there for me anymore you know. I feel so bad.

2007-01-30 04:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law has lived with us since we have been married (2 years). Ever since I have had our son, she has no concept of personal space! Its almost as if she has made my son her personal project. She has no regard for the fact that my husband and I are new parents and would like to experience this as such. I think I am about to lose my mind. She washes his clothes, buys his food, constantly wants to hold and rock him regardless of what he and I are in the middle of. Sometimes I think I am being petty but it upsets me so much. He is my first child and I want to do those things for him. I dont know how to approach my husband about my feelings. I know this will truly hurt him. Suggestions please!!!!

2007-01-30 04:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by Doris A 2 in Family

HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE? Even the ones who dont even bother with the kids... let alone dont live with them for more then 6 month out of the year.

Do they honestly think that amount of support pays for more then 50% of the childs living expenses? Can they not add or are they just looking for some money? Can someone out there PLEASE tell me how some people think its their right JUST because they pay child support?

2007-01-30 04:07:48 · 3 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if anyone knew if there are wedding video editors out there who can edit a video (DVD) that has already been completed. I got my wedding video back the other day and I hate it. I paid SOO much money and got crap :(
It's way too long (3 hrs +) and it lacks special effects. If anyone knows of a place where they can do that in Ontario, Canada that would be great. Only serious answers please.

2007-01-30 04:05:27 · 2 answers · asked by Julez81 2 in Weddings

2007-01-30 04:05:23 · 1 answers · asked by Nijin K 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not the type that wants to be the center of attention. So the thought of going to a bar and having to take shots in front of a large group of people is not my idea of a good time. Plus I have 2 girls in my wedding that are pregnant, which I could have us all go eat and then go our seperate ways. I need suggestions of some fun things we can do. Please help!

2007-01-30 04:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is to claim one child, she claims the other, as read in the divorce agreement. He is a *** and does whatever he wants, and blames her for his problems. What can I (we) do to nail his *** to the wall. Isn't that fraud?

2007-01-30 04:04:19 · 2 answers · asked by rob_hallock 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 04:04:15 · 12 answers · asked by Alia 1 in Singles & Dating

well.my boyfriend kevin of 2months is starting to show me love of some what.but there goes my Ex -Martez he saw me and then he started to talk about how i broken his heart how did i move on that quick so i kind of took him back. then my best friend of 2 yrs Tank is starting 2 like me i think he kiss on me he says that he love me at one point then turn his back and say he was just playin , i feel kind of bad for all 3 of them so CAN YOU HELLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.

2007-01-30 04:04:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We are really into each other, we like being together and spending time together (we haven't had sex), his family loves me and I love them, my family likes him and he like them, just my family is a little over protective of me, they go by the rules and want me to finish school and then get married, I say that’s not a bad idea but the problem is that I will finish school when I’m like 26 and him when he's like 28 we thinks that’s to far away because then we have to wait till he’s done with school to start thinking about marriage, so if we get married at that age, we will have to have kids like almost soon because we want kids but we want to be married for like at least 4 yrs then think about kids, we have done a lot of thinking we know its not just we get a ring and there. We know there’s a lot of responsibility like buying a house, paying rent, buying stuff to survive, pay for school. So when should we get married?

2007-01-30 04:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by yadira 1 in Family

Donna wants a Coach bag and I do all my shopping at Wal Mart. Can I get one there?

2007-01-30 04:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some serious advice. Its going on 2 yrs of being broke up with the man I planned on marrying.We broke up over the dumbest stuff and he dated other girls and I dated other guys just because I was angry at him.I know that was imature. It seems like I not ever getting over him. I begged him for months and months to take me back even going to his work and begging him and he just kept turning me down. So I let go and quit well a few months had passed and we ran into each other one night and we talked and it seemed like my prayers were being answered and everything was great the feelings were there still he even said so. The next morning we had plans to hang out and he said he couldn't and said that it wouldnt work. Its been about a year since that happened.
Its been 2 yrs since we broke up and Im still missing him Im so depressed I dont know what to do he wont talk to me. I regret this every single day I want him back I know in my heart that I love him and it can work. But how do I

2007-01-30 04:02:49 · 7 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We are really into each other, we like being together and spending time together (we haven't had sex), his family loves me and I love them, my family likes him and he like them, just my family is a little over protective of me, they go by the rules and want me to finish school and then get married, I say that’s not a bad idea but the problem is that I will finish school when I’m like 26 and him when he's like 28 we thinks that’s to far away because then we have to wait till he’s done with school to start thinking about marriage, so if we get married at that age, we will have to have kids like almost soon because we want kids but we want to be married for like at least 4 yrs then think about kids, we have done a lot of thinking we know its not just we get a ring and there. We know there’s a lot of responsibility like buying a house, paying rent, buying stuff to survive, pay for school. So when should we get married?

2007-01-30 04:02:07 · 3 answers · asked by yadira 1 in Weddings

2007-01-30 03:58:24 · 4 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We are really into each other, we like being together and spending time together (we haven't had sex), his family loves me and I love them, my family likes him and he like them, just my family is a little over protective of me, they go by the rules and want me to finish school and then get married, I say that’s not a bad idea but the problem is that I will finish school when I’m like 26 and him when he's like 28 we thinks that’s to far away because then we have to wait till hes done with school to start thinking about marriage, so if we get married at that age, we will have to have kids like almost soon because we want kids but we want to be married for like at least 4 yrs then think about kids, we have done a lot of thinking we know its not just we get a ring and there. We know there’s a lot of responsibility like buying a house, paying rent, buying stuff to survive, pay for school. So when should we get married?

2007-01-30 03:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by yadira 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what thoughts go through your mind...do you think its your fault or do you just blame him and resign yourself to getting what you can, when you can?

2007-01-30 03:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how often can we have it?

2007-01-30 03:54:28 · 4 answers · asked by to hot to handle 1 in Singles & Dating

they both go to school with me and we do encounter our self arrown the halls but one of the is asking me to hold her hand while i walk her to class and im afraid the other one may see me and reject me

2007-01-30 03:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by Alexis A 1 in Singles & Dating