Do american girls with a good career ever consider guys with low paying entry level jobs worth it?

Question

I'm 27, jobless now but soon i'll get a simple entry level job. Do American girls generally think people my age with entry level jobs are pretty much losers? Are they willing to think outside the box and accept people even if their carreer life has failed?

I've heard radio and tv and have even overheard American people my age talking about how they 've worked here and there and they have Administrative jobs...then i look at myself and i'm nothing

Answer 1

Isn’t it a sad state of human affairs when our culture is dominated by the reality tv want-to-be princesses who whine and cry because their Toga Themed sweet sixteen dress is as unflattering in reality as their personality?

The unfortunate downside is that now there is this cultural acceptance of this selfish and very gross attitude that money = love. It leaves very little room to compete when you are just a decent and ordinary guy.

Perhaps my answer will serve as a little platform to rage out against these shallow superficial twits.

There is nothing unattractive about a man who works hard from the ground level. In fact, in the long run he is a better person for it; having struggled and succeeded, perhaps even failed only to pick himself up again succeed later.

With that you should be proud of your entry levelness. You should be proud of your employment and that you are of the mindset that good things in life aren’t deserved, they are earned.

Last, I bet that there are more “less glamorous jobs” then yours then there are more glamorous out there, as we forget that the world is a very big place and what appears ordinary to some is extraordinary to others. Reread that sentence if you don’t get it the first time.

let the twits get theirs when they realize that, like objects, they are just as replaceable as the material things they crave because it is people like us, who earn every single privilege we have that value what should be held in the highest esteem.. the people that love us…

Good luck..

Answer 2

When I'm meeting a new guy it depends a lot more on things like intelligence and values and humor than income. I also look for someone who loves their job. I'd rather date a janitor in an elementary school who goes to work every day happy and proud to be doing something as important as helping to create a healthy environment for kids than a Stock Broker who hates every second but makes mountains of money.

I do think, in general, women want a man with similar ambitions.

Answer 3

Sorry - but as a successful American woman I've worked very hard to get where I am now. I personally would not consider dating a guy that did not have the drive to get more than an entry level job by the time he had reached your age unless he was changing careers and making a new start for all the right reasons.

Answer 4

Personally I look for a guy who has ambition and drive. He might have a entry level positon now, but if he's doing something to improve himself, like going to school and is not just content to stay in the entry level job. As long as he has a positive goal and he's working towards achieving it, then I'd give him a shot.

Answer 5

I can tell you honestly, yes. My daughter married such a man as yourself. She has a Masters in Education. Works for the U.S. government and she is very happy with this fellow. And with her help he has started school for aviation mechanic, so that he can have a career on what he likes also.
They have been married for about 2 years, and I must say very happily. By the way almost your same age. She is 33 and he is 34 years old. They have already bought a condo, and 2 houses that they rent. Anything is possible is the two people involved love each other and have God as their leader.

Answer 6

Hey Bro-you're not nothing so don't put yourself down
As for girls only interested in guys with the status cash and flash car?
Forget them cause they're not the type of girl worth chasing after.
The best girls are those who want you for who you are not what you are or what you've got.
So don't bother about them.There's a great girl out there FOR YOU
but....one word of caution-she aint going to be that interested if you think you're a loser.How can you expect her to think you're the guy if your own self esteem is so low
You're starting the new job soon and bro there'll be no stopping you

Answer 7

not all of us americans are like that a good amount of us are but the rest of us are pretty much in the same situation...take my step-dad for example he has been out of work for almost a year and has just gone back to work and doesnt really enjoy his job but what ever pays the bills...me as an american girl i just want a guy with a decent job he doenst have make the best money as long as i connect with him on a personal level and we are comfortable together...im not goin to it here and say that money sint important b/c it is but that shouldnt make your relationship.

Answer 8

Girls go for all types of men. The common link that the real relationships have is a balance of honesty respect and responsibility. If you make enough money to care for more than yourself and have no IRS problems, then just treat her the way she should be treated - like an equal to you. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Go back to school....even if you go part time you'll still be done eventually and get the job that you want that ISN'T entry level. It will look like you care about your future and are actually trying to better your life.

Answer 10

I think the average American girl is attracted to a man who is proud of his accomplishments in life. It's not very easy for a man who does not make enough money to support a family to be proud.