Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, of course I said yes, since I liked him.
Then I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. Yesterday, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking hihim if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hello. He emailed me back saying that I was too weird to be his friend and that we just continue ignoring each other for both his and my sake and that i was wrong for wanting to hook up with him since he already has a gf. Why?

2007-01-30 03:26:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been happily married now for 9 months! We do have our differences though. I would like to just keep my wedding dress just to have it. However, He is not a big fan of clutter. He would like for me to do something with the dress instead of just putting it into a box. So what can I do with my dress? I do not want to sell it I would like to keep it in one form or another.

2007-01-30 03:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by stephanie_m_dennis 1 in Weddings

im pregnant my boyfriend is in the army training he will be going to irland in 6 weeks i have a morgage up in manchester im 20 we have both spoke about if we get married and i go down and live with him while he is training but still keep my morgage so when he goes away i come home till he gets back does anyone live with somone thats in the army or has and what is it like i heard you get a house given to you thanks x

2007-01-30 03:23:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my family but it is getting to much for me to handle i feel i would be able to take care of myself better if i didn't have to live with my family. Me and my mother have not been getting along for about 8 months and i know many would say "your going through your teenage years" but there is so much more than that going on. My mom usually takes everything out on me. My sis is young so i understand the mom's little angel bit, and my brother is 17 but he practically lives with his g.f. Things get worse day by day. My mom is depressed all the time, and it's not the same as i was younger. I feel so overwhelmed when i am at my house, and i hate the life that i have to live right now. It is draining me.
I have had the same job since may, i have my own car, I maintain a 3.5 gpa or better i play sports, and i would be able to afford my own apartment I feel that emancipating myself would be the best thing for me to do, but i dont' know how to tell my mom or how to get it started. HELP!

2007-01-30 03:22:20 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica! 1 in Family

I dont want to be, so I don't talk what should I do

2007-01-30 03:18:06 · 1 answers · asked by ChristFirst00 2 in Singles & Dating

My man of 18 months left because he said he couldnt bear the responsiblity of bringing up my 4 year old child, because she isnt his and he is too old (he's 41).....how come some men are ok with other mens children and some aren't. He has 2 children of his own which he sees regularly.

2007-01-30 03:17:36 · 3 answers · asked by Lucky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for almost 3 yrs - And never taken a summer vacation alone w/ my husband. My mother in law lives in Lebanon, stays in Paris every summer. She says she can not be alone, travel alone and demands my husband to stay with her. When we visit her, we have to follow her where ever she wants to go - go home when she wants - go to sleep when she goes to sleep. Otherwise she gets mad. The first year of our marriage I really didn't believe how serious this could be. Second year of our marriage her husband passed away. So out of kindness I stayed with her in Paris the entire summer and she treated me badly. I took her to US to stay with us for 3 months as my husband wished. She was rude - He was rude. we didn't have one hour for our self. We almost got divorce. Last summer I was pregnant and I refused to go. My husband wants me to tell him what I want to do: Stay in US with baby Or go with him for 3 weeks. And be alone with MIL for a week while he attends seminars

2007-01-30 03:17:03 · 2 answers · asked by kati 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I are still co-habitating a residence and I recently decided that sharing a house with him was just not working since the breakup. I got an apartment for now and have been slowly moving my stuff out, he found out about the apartment and has been threatening me. He abuses me mentally and verbally and has recently gone so far as to throw things at me and raise his hand like he is going to hit me and says all the time that if I say another word to him he is going to shut me up for good. What can I do to get away from him safely? I have never been treated so badly by anyone and I am honestly scared of him and his family....Help me with some advice please!

2007-01-30 03:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by BOBBIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As I began to discover that I liked a good friend, I told her we needed to talk. I admitted liking her a lot but only wanting a friendship right now. She agreed to enjoy a "nice friendship", but I still had feelings afterward. I have now talked to her four times telling my feelings for her, but she has never told me how she feels until she is clear about how I feel. All four times I thought it best that we remain friends, and she agreed. Is she hiding how she feels because she is unsure of me? Is she playing with me?

2007-01-30 03:13:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THIS IS THE DUMBEST I REPEAT THE DUMBEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD LIKE THE GUY YOU GAVE YOUR NUMBER TO AT THE CLUB OR THE GROCERY STORE CANT BE CRAZY.
PEOPLE EXCHANGE NUMBERS AND GO ON DATES THE FOLLOWING NITE
OR EVEN THE SAME NITE AND ITS ALL GOOD HOW DOES THAT WORK

2007-01-30 03:13:18 · 1 answers · asked by Rashon X 2 in Singles & Dating

I know what mine is, and the definition of most women. I want to see what the other side says.

2007-01-30 03:12:20 · 2 answers · asked by Erin 7 in Singles & Dating

of mailing people you dont know on here,wary or take a chance?

2007-01-30 03:10:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Note: My son's father and I have shared parenting.

2007-01-30 03:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by Supa' 2 in Family

any suggestions for a really romantic night ???

2007-01-30 03:07:29 · 1 answers · asked by nemofish 4 in Singles & Dating

I dont want her to get upset and have future problems? Any Ideas

2007-01-30 03:05:01 · 3 answers · asked by n33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

listen never had anal sx in my life due to fear/pain.need ta ask if it really hurts as i,ve heard,if it,s the same as regular sx-what,s the difference.I have 3sisters but i,m afraid ta ask them.let,s just say i,m very curiouse about all the fuzz about it.

2007-01-30 03:04:45 · 2 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

And what a hell do black girls want a porn job for, what about being doctors, lawyers, pilots, nurses,excutives, what is wrong with the black

2007-01-30 03:02:32 · 8 answers · asked by detroit w 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my gf last night we were 4days from ten months she is 19 and i am 18 but we were in love i just want the best for her and i dont think its me but it hurts so bad.... what can i do?

2007-01-30 03:02:01 · 1 answers · asked by eggbcn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 03:00:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend feels I need so much more and deserve so much better than him. Is he trying to tell me it's time for me to move on?

( He feels that way because we have had a few arguments and he felt he hurt my feelings. Also, he let me down once -a major disappointment . He said he was not used to letting peope down especially when it was someone as important as me. )

2007-01-30 02:59:09 · 1 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

There are two of my close friends (girls) ....... both of them seem to like me nd even give certain of signs of love .... what do i do ? io seem to like both of them equally. ....both are nice to me ..... how do i choose


P.S. ---- Recently i have been betrayed by my gf nd need someone else to overcome it .... i hav to decide ....plzz help

2007-01-30 02:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by Parjanya Roy 2 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in August. We had planned for a big wedding. But the closer it gets the more I want a little private ceremony with few friends and family, with a big reception afterwards. How can we word the invites so people know its just for the reception. And will people be offended if we dont invite them to the wedding?

2007-01-30 02:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by that.one.girl 1 in Weddings

i have a grilfriend will are been 4 pass 2yr i have passion 4 her any time i told her i love she get so sad what can i do ? because i love her very much and i want mis her

2007-01-30 02:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i was talking to this girl for a while, for like 3 months and on new years eve we started going out, so before we started to go out, everything was perfect we talk everyday and text every minute.

But since new yr eve we have only seen each otha 1 time and talked on the phone 2. have i mention that we have never kissed.

I dot know if we are done or what, shes not calling me im not calling her, and i dont even know how it happened just out of nowhere one day when to 2,3 yet i check her myspace and she still has me as her top friend.

I called 1 time her brother picked up sayin shell call u back, she never did, although she always did that in the past too.

?????????

2007-01-30 02:53:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at one time i and mate got drunk and at midnight went outside ran into the grass and laid there awhile completely naked.thank god the neighbors wern,t watching-or so i think.I cut drinking after that cause felt embarassed next day when he told me what we did.

2007-01-30 02:50:58 · 1 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 02:48:41 · 4 answers · asked by cam 1 in Weddings

We both started at the same time and the first day we aint really say anything to each other then we worked together yesterday and he kinda talked to me alil bit. I wanna know if he has a girlfriend, and if he is even interested in me. I used to work at McDonalds and he would come in there almost everyday to get some food but I don't think he remembers me, and plus I used to talk to one of his friends (but we no longer talk and me and the guy I like was never introduced), can anybody help me out. I am interested in him, but I don't want to waste my time if he already has a girl or isn't interested so what do I do. How do I find out if he has a girl and how do I find out if he's even noticing me? Well he did talk to me alil and help me get my locker open at work, so he notices but I still need help. Thanks

2007-01-30 02:46:03 · 1 answers · asked by cosmetologistbeauty 2 in Singles & Dating

It's one of my favorite words. I love it when girls say it. I have a hard time getting my girlfriend to say it. She doesn't like it that men don't have a cutesy name for their underwear but women do.

My absolutely favorite thing in the world is when we are done being intimate. I love it when she asks if she could please put back on her panties. I also like it when she uses the word panties in public because it makes her feel naughty and she blushes.

But I have a hard time getting her to play like that.

2007-01-30 02:45:09 · 54 answers · asked by Mike K 2 in Singles & Dating

My sweetie always address me when he calls " Is this the most beautiful woman in the world". The only guy ever to say this to me. So I am trying to distinguish the difference between real love, lust or peasants.

2007-01-30 02:44:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 02:43:10 · 1 answers · asked by mountain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships