I broke up with her today. Now everything I see reminds me of her. It's driving me mad. She was always so nice to me but that 'spark' wasn't there for me anymore you know. I feel so bad.
2007-01-30 04:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just try to move on
2007-01-30 04:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you just need some space from eachother, don't think its the end of the world cos you have split up, things arnt concrete, things have a habbit of working themselves out, sure it hurts, just let things be for a while, let the emotion go, give yourself time to heal and see things for what they really are. Perhaps doing something that keeps you busy, like a hobby going out on the town with the boys, stuff like that will take your mind off her for a bit. Breakups are always difficult, but its just a normal reaction, just try to be kind to her as a friend for the moment... depending on how things are a few weeks or months down the line, both of you might feel different who knows...
2007-01-30 14:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by greatdane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you men.
Its maybe cause you have been to gether for a while and the spark does fade a little but you need to spark it back up. Phone her and talk about things, if its hurting you so much you should try and sort things out as it must mean you love/like her a lot and she means some thing to you.
YOU NEED YOUR HEAD BANGED
2007-01-30 12:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, go and get her back.
If you're just feeling sorry for yourself, you'll get over it.
If you're having 2nd thoughts, think about the reasons you finished with her.
If you can see yourself talking to her over the breakfast table in 40 years, go and get her back.
But remember, the spark may not have been there for her either and she may be secretly relieved that you dumped her before she dumped you.
And also remember, this too will pass.
2007-01-30 12:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by appleblossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend about a week(definately not more than a fortnight) wallowing in self pity, getting rediculously drunk and crying in public- then pull yourself together and get over it. Good Luck. XX
2007-01-30 12:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ha-ha Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and fix that lack of spark.
Why are things to be so disposable this days.
Can you imagine how she feels?
Totally destroyed and feeling its because she doesnt have a spark, and that you found a girl with a spark
2007-01-30 12:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by monis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if youve got a good thing hold onto it, create a spark.
2007-01-30 13:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by shoegalxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bECAUSE YOU LOVE HER , DUMB F@CK.
wHY ARE MEN SO THICK!!! YOU HAVE REACHED THE COMFORTABLE STAGE!
IT LOOKS LIKE SHE IS LOVELY AND LOVES YOU SO MUCH THAT SHE DOESN'T PUT HER FOOR WRONG.
THEREFORE YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY AND THE EXCITEMENT HAS GONE.
SUPRISE SUPRISE. IT ALWAYS DOES IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.
SO I SHOULD THINK WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE YOU START NAGGING FOR HER BACK OR USING HER!!!
2007-01-30 12:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cry a lot!! always helps, then make a move on her mum!!
2007-01-30 12:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by caesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over it
2007-01-30 12:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋