The other night my boyfriend of 1 month is out my room talking to my parents in the living room. (I am 20 and living at home, he is 23 living with his dad, step mom and 2 teenage brothers) when curiousity got the best of me, and I started going through his cell phone's recent text messgaes. He had about 20 messgaes all from earlier that same day before he had gotten to my house that evening. I read the first one and I was shocked to read "So you know I have only been with one guy before right?" I about died but I couldn't stop myself from reading text after text of increasing sexual nature of what these two guys would like to do to each to each to each other. He'll casually say if a guy is good looking but it never seemed sexual. But he is always all over me and were already moving in together next month and maybe getting married. When I confronted him he said his 16 year old brother is gay but doesn't want anyone to know, so he uses his cell to secretly text this guy. Is he lying?
2007-01-30 04:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so I already mentioned that he sometimes comments on other guys being good looking but he does casually and only in passing. He is the one that suggested we move in together and he is already talking about marrage. If he was gay he wouldn't want us to move in together right? Plus like I said he is always all over me but he seems to have an..um.. butt fetish? Can I say that on yahoo? He has had some pretty strange requests (that I won't say) but I just thought he was adventurous. I am a cute girl and I refuse to believe I am dating a gay guy. Also, I have met his younger brother and he doesn't strike me as gay (but hey- what do I know right?) and I think he has girlfriend. And the night after this fight he said he thinks we should break up because his feelings for me are fading. then the next day he "took it back" and everything has been fine since then. I would feel alot better if I could talk to his brother to confirm it, but he won't let me because he said he'll get upset I know.
2007-01-30 05:13:16 · update #1
From what I have read from you so far there is only one conclusion to come to. A four syllable word my lady.
Bisexual
I'm sorry to tell you but straight men don't text othet guys on the phone and brag about reaming or being reamed by other men. It doesn't happen. I'm sorry love. I hate women that snoop around and dig for s**t but in this case I am glad you did. Dump him and find the honest man that you deserve. Sorry again
2007-01-30 04:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK maybe he put a guy's name for a girl so he can cover up for something.
2007-01-30 04:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by rashidr_1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he owns any maddona albums or shinia twain ones??? if so uv got a gay
2007-01-30 04:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by mr_makey111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes both sexes and you better get away now!
2007-01-30 04:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by prettywomen512 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lie, he's gay !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! go with your gut instinct, sounds like you already know the answer !!!!!
2007-01-30 04:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hopefully not
2007-01-30 04:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋