Okay, So I talked to my Aunt and she said that I can go to live with her because they have a big enough house. She said this because I asked her. I really want to live with her because she helps me in school and with problems that noone here cares about. I asked my dad last night and he said no after that I said please a few times and he completely flipped he came in the room and started throwing stuff and calling me mental and retarded and then he called mom and told her everything and she said no and said that if I go down she will report me missing and I will be placed in a group home. And of course I would never come down without permission.I just don't understand what the big deal. My dad wouldn't even sit down to listen to what I had to say. He wouldn't even listen to why I wanted to come be with you.Then my mom was all like well, I asked a friend if she can tutor you and funny thing is she tutors in everything but math. What is that gunna help! beacuse that's my worst subjet..
2007-01-30 04:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My parents have both abused me and I really don't feel loved my them. I have an older sister and when she comes home from college and she starts with me I am the one to get in trouble fior it. I ge blamed for eveything. My parents don't live together. I live with my dad and I don't think my mom should have any say in what happens in my life.
2007-01-30 04:51:11 · update #1
My mom and aunt haven't talked in years because my mother is stubborn
2007-01-30 05:01:35 · update #2
Tell your dad to listen to you, they are your family and your Aunt is your family and their family too. If you need to, force them! Your parents don't sound like very nice people if they didn't let you do that. Or maybe your parents care about you and they want you to stay to give them company and if you have no brothers or sisters, and if you left your mum and dad would be alone I don't think it would be such a good idea.
2007-01-30 04:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by ollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe your parents have their feelings hurt and don't know how to show it in a positive way. They might feel like you think they are bad parents and you prefer your aunt. Maybe there is some jealousy. That is the feeling I get from what you wrote. Just let them know you love them and then tell them, a little bit at a time, what is positive about you living with your aunt. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-01-30 04:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to go through the court system if you want to be able to live with your aunt. Also possibly have you aunt talk to your parents about you and the problems you are having since they aren’t willing to sit down and talk with you.
2007-01-30 05:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there afraid that you won't come back if they let you go. Parents don't want to give up there children maybe they feel your aunt can't handle it and you are there's. Your parents love you and know whats best maybe one day you will understand why they didn't let you go now. Best wishes and good luck!
2007-01-30 04:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always try going to the courts and getting a legal document to shove in your parent's face saying that your allowed to live with your aunt.
You can do that, check it out.
2007-01-30 05:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents love you and want you with them. They may be really stressed at the moment. In a few years I think that you will appreciate the fact that they didn`t want to get rid of you.
2007-01-30 04:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Hamish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a parent but i know that parents want their kids to live with them till they're mature enough to move out.. They are your parents, they have responsibilities on you..
2007-01-30 04:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I can't really help you with this because that is your parents decision but I will say that maybe they have a good reason to say no.
2007-01-30 04:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure if the whole story ishere so this is all i can say, you need to talk to your parents and explain to them that the name calling hurts your self esteem and that you feel close to your aunt for________(give them the reason). try talking to them about your issues like you do your aunt and see what happens
2007-01-30 04:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by slynswope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your parents care about you enough not to want you living elsewhere just yet.
2007-01-30 04:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bookatchou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋