As I began to discover that I liked a good friend, I told her we needed to talk. I admitted liking her a lot but only wanting a friendship right now. She agreed to enjoy a "nice friendship", but I still had feelings afterward. I have now talked to her four times telling my feelings for her, but she has never told me how she feels until she is clear about how I feel. All four times I thought it best that we remain friends, and she agreed. Is she hiding how she feels because she is unsure of me? Is she playing with me?
2007-01-30 05:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called playing it safe. You may have to make a more overt move to convince her you are sincere and she will be more willing to take the risk of hurting her feelings. Not much else you can do except wait it out.
2007-01-30 05:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She keeps asking hoping that you will change your mind and want more than friendship....you fool.
Anyone can see through that one.
Why not switch things up and ask her if she would like ot be more than friends, that way you could either agree with her or leave it alone.
I hate it when guys think that they can have a 'friend' wiht all the benefits of a girlfriend, and then leave them high and dry, when it suits them......
I am an angry B!#@* today. so you asked , I answered.
2007-01-30 13:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you keep wanting to just be friends it would make her unsure about you. you should ask her if she can tell you how she feels, if she cant then she may not be the "one"if thats what your looking for. if you like her that much you should try to step up and be willing to be more than friends.
2007-01-30 13:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's playing with you -- I think she's trying to keep from getting hurt.
She doesn't want to put herself out there. She doesn't want to be the one to say "Hey, I want more from you," unless she's sure it's what you want. Basically, she doesn't want to end up getting rejected.
As crappy as it may be for you, if you do decide for sure that you want something more from her, I think you're going to have to be the one to come out and say it.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 13:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your not sure and keep asking her that you want to be just friends then your confusing her your self..maybe shes just waiting for you to tell her straight out.. that you want to be more than friends. give her a choice to.. she needs to be real and up front too..
2007-01-30 13:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋