Ever since I broke up with this guy. He has been following me around everywere. Hasnt touched me. It is just creepy. I just want to tell him that i dont like him and he needs to leave me a lone. I really dont want to break his feelings but I dont like him anymore. Help me find a way so I can tell him not to following me around? thank you so much.
2007-01-30 05:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by KMC!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you care about hurting his feelings? He's being a first class weirdo. Tell him, with witnesses, that you will NEVER go out with him again, that you have noticed him following you and consider it a violation of your privacy and personal space, and that if he doesn't stop, you will seek legal remedy in civil and/or criminal courts.
I will never understand the mindset that makes a woman try so hard to be "nice" at the expense of her own safe and peaceful existence. This man is manipulating you, and you're giving him permission. You don't always have to be nice. I'd rather be a smart ***** than a dead, or even beleagured, princess.
2007-01-30 05:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Karen M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is not the normal actions of a sane person, so you need to be on your guard. Try making it difficult for him to stalk you. Go out the back door, take a vacation. Seeing you is his way of not letting you go. He needs to realise its over. Stalking is a crime and a visit from the cops in my mind would be best for your own safety. Maybe get a lawyer to send him a letter advising him of the crime he is commiting and he will use the full power of the justice system to stop him if he persists. Just make sure you don't make yourself vulnerable to this wierdo.
2007-01-30 14:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest if you have older brothers to let them know about the situation so that they can take care of it. If not well let the police know about the situation it can also be very serious or get to the point that this guy is going to physically hurt you.
2007-01-30 13:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him into your house, and get him into the bathtub with you. Start giving him a handjob, under the water, but then sneak in a knife and cut off his penis. He'll be in too much pain and shock to do anything immediately, so close get out of the tub and lock him in the bathroom from outside. Let him bleed to death in there.
2007-01-30 13:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to just tell him to leave you alone, plain and simple. Yes, his feelings may get hurt for a bit, but he will get over it.
Better to have his feelings hurt a little bit now then for you to have to get a personal protection order (PPO) against him later if he doesn't figure it out on his own.
2007-01-30 13:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful this is stalking.Talk to someone close to you. Dont go out alone bring a friend with you.
2007-01-30 13:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is creepy... was he your bf at one time? you need to at least involve your parents because theres alot of sick people out there. tell your parents about it or a sister , brother, maybe perhaps passing a note to him at school asking him to please stop following you or your going to the cops.
2007-01-30 13:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's a 'super' ex boyfriend? he doesnt mind scaring you or bothering you so why should it worry you to hurt his feelings in this case? just tell him firmly that he's giving you the creepy crawlies!
2007-01-30 13:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try to move at least 100 miles away
sometimes that works to get rid of stalkers
2007-01-30 13:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move out of the state but if its really serious to were he wants to kill u or hurt u u r going to have to report it to the police
2007-01-30 13:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋