I try every day to do my best. I give 110 % all of the time. I am nice most of the time, and can be mean when I have to. I did 4 years in the Army, but all of this started before I joined. I think it's because I look funny or what. I don't understand. Even my own family thinks I'm nuts. Why so much pressure?
2007-01-30 05:38:28 · 3 answers · asked by lvillejj 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie, sometimes people are just plain mean. I don't understand it, but I know from personal experience that sometimes the harder you try to please someone, the meaner they are to you. but you have to remember, that's not your problem, it's theirs! you're doing your very best, and you deserve to be respected and appreciated for your efforts. and don't think that you look funny, because you don't look funny to me. maybe people just don't understand you, or just want to take advantage of you. that happens you know? and it always seems to happen to the nicest people. the best thing you can do is realize that you don't have to bend over backwards to please everyone, and that means your family too. you just be yourself, and respect yourself. keep being the nice guy that you are, but when people start acting like jerks toward you, just walk away and stay away. have confidence in yourself too. find some real friends too. real friends don't expect you to put forth 110% all the time and get nothing in return. trust me, you deserve better! and you're not nuts, you're just stressed out from trying to please everyone all the time! you are a special person and you need to start believing that! when you actually realize that for yourself, that's when things will start getting better for you.
I sincerely wish you the best.
2007-01-30 12:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems like a pretty general question, but maybe it's because you haven't met anyone that truly understands you. But since you mentioned that you served in the Army, I promise I will never hate you. Anyone who serves our country is a good person in my eyes! You really want someone to like you though, find a woman, give her the best O she has ever had and she will love you forever!!!
2007-01-30 13:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by tx girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could benefit from some professional help to bolster your confidence and your perception of how others see you. Good luck.
2007-01-30 13:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋