Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

and the couple that are throwing it are swingers..not really sure what will happen. when i ask all i get is "its gonna be pretty crazy"...should i just relax and go with the flow??? or should i just avoid this thing??? my gf said she would like to go if for nothing else just to watch and see.

2007-01-25 10:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband cheated on me, we separated for 3 months and we are now trying to start anew. we both are going to counselling and stuff, but what bothers me a lot is that now he's become extremely jealous of me. I have never given grounds for him to act like that, but he keeps checking my cell phone, emails and such, and needless to say this situation has me out of my mind. Is this part of the process?

2007-01-25 10:39:33 · 21 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this one girl for over a year and 2 months. Over the last little while, I have lost a lot of trust in her. She has started to break promises and lie to me. When we first started dating and for months after, she had a lot of trouble trusting me and so she asked tons of questions about my past and made me give tons of detail. When ever I asked her, she wouldn't answer with the details I did. Now in light of losing a lot of trust in her, and realizing now that a lot of my questions are still unanswered, I have asked her to let me read a journal only from when we started going out. When I do, she flips out and blows a nut. It ruins my trust even more because she can't give me straight answers as to why she won't let me read it, which makes me believe there are things in there that could be damaging. I've always told her my true feelings, she said her journal has her true feelings, should she let me in so we both know eachothers true feelings?

2007-01-25 10:39:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by you should have signed out 2 in Friends

So i used to like this guy and he was such a butthole to me...we would talk and stuff would happen and then he wouldn't talk to me for a long time...this happened so many times and it hurt. And then i found out i knew his best friend from a long time ago, we started hanging and out and i started to like him....he had a girlfriend at the time. but when i hung out with him one time i told him that i like his friend and everything. then i saw the other guy that is a butthole again and he was a major jerk. so i thought i should get over him. meanwhile my other friend told me he had feelings for him. and had broken up with his girlfriend. after a few days i figured out that i had feelings for him too... but then he thought i was lying and still like his friend but its not true.!!! WAT DO I DO?????

2007-01-25 10:38:48 · 1 answers · asked by Lorena Jayne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking to find nice engagment rings but am not sure of the big names. I'm looking for others manufactuers such as Scott Kay, Tacori, etc

2007-01-25 10:37:55 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Weddings

ok i met this guy thru some friends at a party he asked me 2 dance then i had to go. i found him online and send him a message he messaged me back and we talked for a while and he gave me his number i gave him mine and he asked my to text him i did and he asked me to the movies threw a text and i said yes but after that we just talked and stuff every thing was ok but then i text him and sometimes he will answer me and sometimes he wont i send him messages online an he reads then and wont answer what should i do ??

2007-01-25 10:37:29 · 1 answers · asked by love100 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been gone for a while and it hurts to be away from him.

2007-01-25 10:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems lilke every guy I come across is very athletic, has pictures of himself waterskiing, scubadiving, and the such. He talks about needing someone who can keep up with him. And is always on the go. He loves his job, and has super children, and keeps in great shape and on and on if you see what I mean. I don't find it necessary to boast and brag and make everything sound wonderful. Why can't people be real and act normal and show pictures of themselves in normal situations as I really don't want to see these guys in their swimshorts till I get to know them, and besides how many people spend all their time waterskiing and diving? They make me feel like I have no life just because I prefer less active things and don't find it necessary to be in water all the time. Why does everyone come across as not being able to stand still for a moment? What is so bad about coming home after work and relaxing rather than going for 3 hours to the gym?

2007-01-25 10:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

get him round to the idear of being a dad, im scared to because im only 19 and hes 18 i need him by my side how can i get him to come round? please help!!

2007-01-25 10:36:45 · 22 answers · asked by Charlene G 1 in Singles & Dating

my new bf is very shy! and i am drama queen! i love attention! (opposites attract) but n~e~ways he never really talks to me! I HATE IT! all he does is smile at me and stuff! how can i get him to open up to me♥

2007-01-25 10:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

about 8 months ago i was living in washington state - off myspace i met a guy that lived in the city and state i was about to move to. the day after i moved he came to see me. since then he has told me he does have feelings for me and does like me and wants to try and presue a realitionship with be but wants to get to know me - it took him about 5-6 month to kiss me and about 6-7 months for us to "play". as of today NO SEX has happened - he also has told me he does have other feelings for another girl also. he is a very sweet great looking man that is a real yes i said real gentleman- i asked him today if he would be my valentine and he said he wants to think about it. please dont tell me to grab him and throw him in bed and be agressive - i am a very shy person and am not able to do that. i am as agressive with him as i possibly can be and be comfortable with it. what do i do and what do you think is going on?

2007-01-25 10:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you've been dating a guy since January 4th what should you get him for valentine's day? We're in high school. Do you think a small thing of cologne from Abercrombie or Hollister is a good idea? I'm not getting him a t- shirt from Hollister or anything like that 'cause he's not a prep like me. :]

2007-01-25 10:35:44 · 1 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been together for 4 years i love him very much a few months ago he cheated and i have become paranoid when ever he go's on a night out. I'm always trying to reasure my self. i have tryed to talk to him about it but it always gets into i heated arguement. maybe because of giluit? i'm not sure, i can't help but think about how much he hurt me and it dose'nt seem like he understands how this has effected me. How can i make him see without a big arguement?

2007-01-25 10:35:36 · 18 answers · asked by mish0 1 in Singles & Dating

or is it more strictly on a just sex basis? are men really just out to play women to 'get in their pants'? should a woman ALWAYS go in thinkintg she's being played ?just trying to understand how the wiring works. ;-)

2007-01-25 10:34:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:33:34 · 19 answers · asked by pineconeamanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You enjoy freedom so much that old civlised world cannot even think of it(in a family). so r u happy with ur family/Man?
Think before u give ur verdict.

2007-01-25 10:33:02 · 12 answers · asked by Wondrer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind NEVER calls me. i ALWAYS call him and im starting to think that he really doesn't care about me. we've been going out for 1 week and 4 days today(thursday 25th). i like him and all but there is this little voice in the back of my head saying that i need to watch out beause he talks and CALLS his EX-GIRLFREIND all the time. what should i do????????????
thanx!
XOXOXOXOXO

2007-01-25 10:32:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The father of my child and I broke up about 2 months ago. It was a pretty bad breakup. I mean, I cried, and cried for weeks. He didn't seem to show anykind of emotion towards me; even though I was really really hurt. 3 days after our break up I find out he's with some one else. Now I'm at the point where I really don't care anymore. I continue on with school, I am there for my child(he is too.) And, I am sticking to my new years resolution of losing weight. I have had no contact with him for like 1 month, but all of a sudden he's starting to call me out the blue. Sometimes it's to chit chat, and other times it's to ask me meaningless questions. Then he asks if we can still be friends. I really don't want to be his friend, and I really don't want any kind of contact with him. I am trying to pick myself up and keep it movin, but it's like he's raining on my parade! What do I do? And what is he trying to do? I just don't get it.

2007-01-25 10:32:13 · 17 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im in a new relationship with a woman and I simply adore & lover her. In a previous relationship she had promised her then boyfriend she would take a trip to Mexico with him during February in 2007. Since then we have met and fallen in love. How do I handle this and what your opinion on what she should do?

As some history her and the guy are good friends and have been through alot; he is still in love with her and wants to be back with her. She is adamant that she doesnt want him and is in love with me and shes doing this just because it was a promise before I was in the picture. I suggested that I could go or even pay him back for his expenses as away to not put a strain on thier friendship. And how would she feel if I went with an ex of mine? Im not going to give my opinion because I dont want to sway the opinion of the answers.

2007-01-25 10:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by Curious P 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that they dont understand and never lisen?

2007-01-25 10:31:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old and my family totally dissed me they said they didnt want to be my family anymore because im good and they wish there kids were like me!i dont know wat to do?can someone help me plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!y am i being punished 4 bein good?

2007-01-25 10:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by juggalette 1 in Friends

write now i asked a question about if talking to my ex boyfriend would be a good idea or a bad one. you did not understand......
when i said i broke his heart 3 times i didnt mean that i cheated on him STUPID........
I meant i broke up with him because i didnt know if i liked him or not. I would NEVER cheat on a guy especially 3 freaken times.

2007-01-25 10:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He used to live in Mexico , maybe he is here in USA.

2007-01-25 10:30:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If there is a girl you dont know, and she is engaged to a guy you hate, who also happens to be cheating on her; should you tell the girl and ruin the relationship?!?!

2007-01-25 10:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by BEN 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy in my tech class Ryan. He's really good looking and everything. He's a total sweetheart and i can be my awkward and crazy self around him without him caring. He always laughs with me and jokes around. I got someone to tell him that i like him 2 months ago. He said he liked me too. but he kept on making excuses liek but i thought she was moving and stuff liek that right? Then i hang out with him and his friends a couple of times and everything was good. Then i ask him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and he said he would , and to just call him over the weekend. His phone was off and his friend wouldnt pick up the phone. So i said whatever and then got drunk on my birthday and asked him for a hug and he was helping me all night. Then his phone was always off didnt want to call his friends anymore so i gave up. Now i like him again and he seems more talkitive this time. Then i heard he's still a virgin and he never had a gurlfriend b4..how do i warm up 2 him?

2007-01-25 10:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Still Love you? 1 in Singles & Dating

My winky pokes through my sweat pants when I see girls. How do I stop my winky from doing this in crowds of girls.

2007-01-25 10:29:29 · 36 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Singles & Dating

anybody else when they turned 18 didnt feel like a adult at all just a older teenager?

2007-01-25 10:28:44 · 16 answers · asked by oboyherewego20 1 in Family

2007-01-25 10:28:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im in year eight choosing my electives and we can only choose 2. I'v chosen French already so that is definite, but no its a choice between latin and art for the second one!
I am good at latin and i enjoy it but i enjoy art more! My dad has told me that latin is aluable for getting into certain jobs!
what should i do?

2007-01-25 10:27:46 · 2 answers · asked by ddzaszcxascs 2 in Singles & Dating