My boyfreind NEVER calls me. i ALWAYS call him and im starting to think that he really doesn't care about me. we've been going out for 1 week and 4 days today(thursday 25th). i like him and all but there is this little voice in the back of my head saying that i need to watch out beause he talks and CALLS his EX-GIRLFREIND all the time. what should i do????????????
thanx!
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2007-01-25 10:32:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop calling him.
You are overdoing it.
The less you call, the more he will call.
Call your ex-boyfriend instead.
2007-01-25 10:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Darth Vader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week is a MIGHTY short time to be having suspicions of cheating.
But some key red flags:
1) He says he's going one place, but then when you call him he's somewhere else.
2) He answers calls and leaves the room.
3) He hides his cell phone.
4) He never leaves his cell phone in the room alone with you.
5) He has alot of female 'friends' but you've never met any of them.
6) And of course - he calls his ex-gf all the time but doesn't call YOU!
Hello girl... WAKE the hell up. Stop calling down this man. You're chasing him wayyy too much, wayyy too soon. Chill for a day or two and he'll be intruigued and call YOU.
K.
2007-01-25 10:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ken K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give some more time one week and four days really is not enough time to determine anything in a relationship.
Also, if you are always calling him, when does he get the chance to call you? Back off some and give him a chance to act.
As for the ex don't worry he's with you now not her if he wanted to be with her then he would be, right?
Nothing will ruin your relationship faster than you overreacting, communication is key and if you have any concerns you should talk them over with him. If he can't handle this then you should ask yourself is it worth dating him?
2007-01-25 10:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by beachlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are honey but if I had a new girlfriend I just stated going out with 11 days ago, I'd definately call her more than my ex girl.
I mean, I think it's kinda obvious that this guy doesn't value you at all but what do I know? I don't know him at all nor do I know all the details of the situation so it could be that he actually has to call his ex but, once again, what do I know.
My advice to you is just to be careful sweety!
You can IM me at michael_lee_peters if you want to!
2007-01-25 10:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always listen to the little voice. Womens intuition is always right.
Besides you have only been dating for a week and 4 days. Guys take months before they are even half way committed.
2007-01-25 10:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Georganne S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie I am going to put this as nice as I possibly can, you guys have been going out for a little under two weeks, if he's not cheating break up with him anyway. He's not over his ex, and you need to move on. You should never have to call the person you're involved with. If he asked you out and asked you for your phone number let him call you sweetie, trust me it works better that way. Let him go and move on. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 10:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously, you've been together for a week. Take a chill pill. Maybe you always call before he can get a chance to. He most likely has something called a life. If you think he's cheating on you ask. If you have proof then leave him.
2007-01-25 10:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Maria 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmm a week and 4 days? look if he doesnt call you while the relationship is just beginning and shows no excitement, what makes you think he will in the future? best i can tell you is not to waste your time on this loser cause if he is calling his ex girlfriend then he obiously still wants her and is only using her in the meantime and he might possibly leave you for her if she gives him a chance again...
2007-01-25 10:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you to do what I should have done myself a long time ago look around consider all the facts then you must make an educated decision based upon what you've learned.
(wow! I should really learn to listen to myself.)
however if you truly suspect that he is a lying cheating two-timing bastard then you haffta azk yuor self, "do I love him, really love him?" ifyou cannot honestly answer yourself "yes" then
dump his self and move on, it ain't worth the torment
2007-01-25 10:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You been w this guy 1 week and you already freaking out like this? You need to CHILL OUT, maybe he doesnt call you bc you call him all the time. If you know he talks to his ex then take it slow maybe he is not over her...
2007-01-25 10:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he calls you less or ignors your calls has less time to see you, acts funny, makes excuses for things, has moodswings. there are many ways to tell but you cant always be certain with theses things unless you see it for your self. just trust him and if he does cheat he doesnt love you and theres no way to turn back time so just keep on with your life you'll always find someone better in life
2016-05-23 23:50:49 · answer #11 · answered by Kathryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋