There's this guy in my tech class Ryan. He's really good looking and everything. He's a total sweetheart and i can be my awkward and crazy self around him without him caring. He always laughs with me and jokes around. I got someone to tell him that i like him 2 months ago. He said he liked me too. but he kept on making excuses liek but i thought she was moving and stuff liek that right? Then i hang out with him and his friends a couple of times and everything was good. Then i ask him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and he said he would , and to just call him over the weekend. His phone was off and his friend wouldnt pick up the phone. So i said whatever and then got drunk on my birthday and asked him for a hug and he was helping me all night. Then his phone was always off didnt want to call his friends anymore so i gave up. Now i like him again and he seems more talkitive this time. Then i heard he's still a virgin and he never had a gurlfriend b4..how do i warm up 2 him?
2007-01-25 10:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Still Love you? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a girl that i liked got drunk around me, i dont think i would ever go out wih her. Just ask him if he wants to go out with you and make it so he cant get out of the first date like when you are leaving tech class ask him to go to lunch with you...and if he is a virgin, there must be a reason he is so dont do anything that might suggest you want to have sex with him, start out friendly-date like with him...
2007-01-25 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by willy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend. Talk to him about how he feels and how you feel. You may have to lead the way and teach him what it is to be in a relationship with another person. Go slow, do stuff together and get his phone fixed. Tell him what you like about him and that you like it when he calls you and give you attension. I was shy and once and didn't really know what to do. I think that is what he is feeling too. If you go slow and teach him and help to learn how to treat you and give you attension he should warm up to you. Let him know its ok to make mistakes and talk alot. Most of all have fun. It may now work out but if its not fun its a drag.
2007-01-25 18:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by GO FOR IT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is soo protecting himself from you. Give it a break. Stop getting drunk and needing help from guys you're trying to impress. Be a good friend to him and to others. Do good things for your self. Read a good book, take a long bath, change your hair style, see a movie, go out with your grrlfriends. Laugh. Dance. Eat only very high quality chocolate.
2007-01-25 18:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Arlosmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be his friend and if something happens take your time with everything. He he stay a virgin until marrage respect that
2007-02-02 15:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by storm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's simple....owez hang out with him and u will know what he likes n dislikes...then u will also knows weither u really like him o not...k?
2007-02-02 10:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋