Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

when you confront someone about something, its better to ask than accuse or assume and anytime you do they blow up at you, very angry, upset, cannot talk to you calmly, is that a sign they are hiding something?

2007-01-25 10:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3 in Singles & Dating

What were the circumstances?

2007-01-25 10:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:05:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

an unsightly and strongly strapping man or a flimsy but handsome man? (considering everything else - IQ, social skills, set of attire - is equal.

2007-01-25 10:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Sniper of Goth 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by joey b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 10:03:49 · 33 answers · asked by Araceli H 1 in Friends

we are very good friends and i dont know whats between us, it jus bring us way too closer when we meet up. we always endup hugging, kissing, cuddlling, he would hold me tightly, not sure we i would i talk to him about my feeling, is he jus wating for me to say somthing... what could be our relationship?

2007-01-25 10:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a stepkid that dont give a damn what i say to her if something dont go her way when her dad is at work she calls him and then her mom and her mom calls me cussing this girl is a mess she steals from anyone LIES nonstop about where she is she goes to spend the night at her bf house I NEED HELP with this me and my husband fight over this 24/7 he says i am mean to her since i check up on here all the time i asked her to do supper dishes since my kid cooked what did she do HE PLATE HER SPOOM AND CUP THAT WAS IT....I had to do the rest my husband just lets her run over me she has called me a ***** and everything please tell me some rules that might help....Ps My phone rings at 3 am on a school nite he wont say nothing to her about it so i just get up and i cant go back to sleep pleaseeeee anything would be nice

2007-01-25 10:02:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-25 10:02:08 · 26 answers · asked by joey b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked 3 questions like this all with scattered info. I'm putting it all in here. Here goes...

I asked this before and I got 21 positive answers. I can't believe it because good things don't really happen to me all that much or evere actually. Here is the story...He is always staring at me aimlessly and picks me first for everything. We never really liked eachother as friends. I seriously liked him in 5th grade. But that is it. He is my neighbor and he is always outside when I am. I am a cheerleader and he is a basketball player. I wonder what wil happen next? What should I do? What is going on? I really like him as well! I am too afraid to do anything and I am not allowed to date until I am older. I know that it is a lot, but your help is greatly appreciated.

Also, he is on the top of the food chain I am on the bottom. The only reason that I am a cheerleader is because my friend dared me to do it.

Hold on there is more to come. I just ran out of space.

2007-01-25 10:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told I have a tiny penis! Is 18cm not enough ?!

2007-01-25 10:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get the guys in my grade to like me?, the yall like guys who are skinny, which im not, and im not fat either, and they also like pretty girls, which apparently im not!, please help me!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 10:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by Maddz 2 in Singles & Dating

on the floor most of the time!!!

2007-01-25 10:00:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he dumped me a month or two ago and we got back together. this time i think it's for good. he says he was drinking and dipping behind my back, when i told him i didn't like it. he says he wants me to find a better guy for me. i asked him if it was another girl again and he said that was part of it, but "90 percent" in his words, is because of him going behind my back and me needing a better person than him. please help!!

2007-01-25 10:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 09:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by Ana L 1 in Singles & Dating

a few days ago a girl who was supposed to be my friend told my bf that she still liked him. and she was going out with one of my guy friends. she said that she didn't care that she had been lying to him the entire time. and she had been trying to break us up ever since i started going out with him. but then today he broke up with me right before school through text msging. i couldn't stop crying all day. i liked him A LOT! and she started spreading rumors that they were gonna hang out this weekend. so i asked him. he said that they were. im completely shattered. how do i get over him??

2007-01-25 09:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend told me that she loved me and that I would be fine after she left for college because I am strong.

2007-01-25 09:58:59 · 8 answers · asked by Darcie C 2 in Friends

What does overly conservative when it comes to sex mean

2007-01-25 09:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 09:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by SONU 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a female that has a male friend that I have known for the last 10 years. We use to go bar-hopping together and he always talked to me about women he liked. We have lost touch over the last few years and he has recently come back into my life, with some shocking news. He married his male friend to prevent him from being deported. I have seen the wedding photos and both of the 'grooms' had their female girlfriends at the wedding as witnesses. The question I have is, would a completely straight man do this for a friend? Or are we all just really naive?

2007-01-25 09:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate it. I'm 16 years old and perverted men are always staring at me and asking for my number. I tell them that I'm 16 everytime but some of them still ask me out anyway. It hate it. My mom says its because of my beauty and many men don't think a teen girl is very well developed like me. I feel lonely becasue the guys at school don't seem to notice me. i want someone my own age.

2007-01-25 09:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a mom to 4 kids with the oldest turning 18 Saturday and then she plans on moving out with her boyfriend on February 2nd. I will admit that I am hard and a little strict but love my daughter and the past year I have been trying to make ammends and bite my tongue. It seems that I have been doing all the giving and her the taking and she doesn't seem to want to work on our relationship. I have tried to make counseling appointments for both of us and she says while bobbling her head that "I ain't talkin' to no shrink!" Most of what has been happening is relieved by us avoiding each other. Her boyfriend lives out of state and bought her a cell phone to keep in touch and they are always on it for hours. She sits in the main bathroom where the kids need to go in and brush their teeth and she makes a huge fit and then I tell her not to speak to them that way cause the bthrm is not her personal living space.
She was being loud and it was bdtime for the kids and she had her byfriend on

2007-01-25 09:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by LS 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my ex 2 and a half years ago, and weve been dating long distance since we met, on and off. We usually break up because of something he did, and me being insecure from all the girls i found out he was talking to. To this day, he sticks to his word and says he never cheated on me, and he just did it to fill a void. He was also using drugs, and every alley of his life was crumbling, yet I stood by him. I had enough when I read humiliating emails and I broke up with him and didnt speak to him for 3 months straight. Lately Ive been thinking about him, even though I hve dated guys since then. I loved him so much, it was sick and I miss the feeling of love, although I dont think it could feel the same after this happend. He wants to know if I want to try it again, but I dont trust him. He also said he cant be my friend, its too painful, saying the only way he can have me, is as his lady. What do I do. I want the old feeling back, but NEVER want him to hurt me again. Ladies help me out.

2007-01-25 09:55:35 · 8 answers · asked by Brown Beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

alright check it,.
I just turned 18 today I got a good lookin black suit for my birthday, I like to look stylish, alright Since I turned 18 which its only been one day these girls in their 20s having literally been coming up to me and just talking t these girls reach as high as 28, like their was this chick at my work i was drinking sum juice, I was just standing their soon as she found out it was my 8th birthday she starts talking to me n playing wit her hair. this other chick sitting dwn was just eying me, question is was I always this attractive to the ladies they just chose not to intervene becvause of the uncertainty, i swear all the lqdies who found out it was my 18th birthday today came and just flirted. playe wit their hair all tht none said happy b day they just started talkin so whats up wit this it made me feel pretty good.

2007-01-25 09:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im in the 11th grade and me and my ex has been off and on since like the 7th grade! i got tired of his childish games and moved on! everytime i get a new bf he gets all jealous and always wants me back! sometimes i go back but this year is different! im moving on for good! so my new bf (charles) is at lunch and brandon goes up to him and starts a convo. then after lunch i asked charles what did brandon say to you and he was like nothing! so i went up to brandon and he says i was warning him about u! it really ticked me off! why is he doing this! then the next day he said charles is cool we can chill! i might just be the best man at your wedding! how can i stop him and his jealous problems!

2007-01-25 09:53:49 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

of a girl that is not learning from her mistakes..always giving another chance to people who hurt her ..and they don't appreciate that..is she stupid...do people who hurt us need to have a second chance or not?

2007-01-25 09:53:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all. I am currently in a heartbreaking situation. Here is the deal: About a year and a half ago I met my first love in college. For a year we were together. She was the best thing to ever happen to me. She loved me more than anything on the planet, however I became unsure. I was with her and all my friends were single and in college. I became uncertain, and she let me go(she really loved me). She basically said that I needed to experience other things, and she would wait. Well time went on (broke up 7 months ago), and she finally met some other dude (she said she couldnt wait forever). The thing is, I realize I want her back (and no it is not because of the new guy). I believe she still loves me very much, more than her new guy. Actually she said she doesnt even love him yet(they have been together like 2 months). My question is: will she foget about me? Or will she always remember the love she felt towards me? Thanks for any help.

2007-01-25 09:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by michael b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 09:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 09:53:18 · 30 answers · asked by Peter 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this i like and well i decided to talk to him so he gave me his AIM so we can talk online it was all going very well and i felt good about us talking and getting to know eachother he asked me about myself and i asked him what he likes to do for fun then he started asking me about my love life and if i was interested in anyone at school and i said yeah maybe and hes like do i know him im like i dont know maybe and so the talk was going pretty damn well i was really liking him but then he started asking me how far i have been with a guy and about my last bf and if ive ever had sex i felt kind of confused because he didnt seem like the type of guy to ask those questions so i asked him if he has had sex and he said no so i was like ok good good...so i got the courage to ask him to formal in a message but he never answered it what does this mean he opens doors for me at school and smile as if everythings ok i havnt talked to him since and everytime hes online i feel like crying

2007-01-25 09:52:55 · 1 answers · asked by gigi 3 in Singles & Dating