a few days ago a girl who was supposed to be my friend told my bf that she still liked him. and she was going out with one of my guy friends. she said that she didn't care that she had been lying to him the entire time. and she had been trying to break us up ever since i started going out with him. but then today he broke up with me right before school through text msging. i couldn't stop crying all day. i liked him A LOT! and she started spreading rumors that they were gonna hang out this weekend. so i asked him. he said that they were. im completely shattered. how do i get over him??
2007-01-25 09:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They both sound like self centered ignorant jerks! If I was you I would turn that pain into laughter.Come on think about it.Shes a liar and a cheat, hes being a brainless idiot who is also a cheat.What in the world could they possibly gain from one another??.LOL!! I say they both deserve each others misery.
And you, you can thank god that he pulled you out of this before you were hurt by things going farther with him and then having this happen.
Girl, grab some friends and some popcorn and sit back and enjoy the coming soon attraction."idiot boy falls for selfish girl" And watch them both give themselves what they deserve. Each others worst!!
2007-01-25 10:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your pain. you don't deserve to be treated like that by yr bf or your so called friend. the best advice is to just walk away, hold your head high, smile in public, cry and talk and vent to your best girlfriends but only for an hour a night, eat a pint of ben and jerry's (but no more than that), buy yourself a fantastic pair of shoes or a cute dress, maybe a haircut or a manicure....watch some funny movies...stay away from love stories for awhile...and sad songs...listen to happy energetic music. go for long walks or running...and devote some energy into a creative project.
and remember that you deserve better. and someday you won't be so sad.
2007-01-25 10:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sara K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a fun weekend,and forget about it. Life is all about experiences,and from this one,you'll learn to choose better relationships. Dating is an experience,and from the sound of it,you are to young to be tied down to one guy.
Let a few weeks go by,occupy them with a NEW FRIEND,and some new things to do with them(or that person). After a few weeks,maybe months,you'll find your interest in other guys will be revigorated,and you'll see you are better off without him.
2007-01-25 10:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be sooooooo lots much less complicated and clean in case you 2 weren't living at the same time. IMHO, you're being too paranoid and too controlling. I delete my historical past for all time. i'm a private individual, and that i do no longer like it whilst my dad and mom attempt to verify what i'm staring at on the computing device. it is tense. supply up snooping around, and that i promise you will end irritating approximately it. Be a solid and a funky female pal. end being a freak approximately all of it. you comprehend, you will be able to desire to objective talking by ability of utilising verbal communique with one yet another like general/heathly relationships have.
2016-11-01 07:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by gilbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a taste of his own medicine and ask one of his friends to go out or hang out with you. sounds like they deserve eachother they can hang out be jerks together.
Hang in There.
2007-01-25 10:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by dirt racer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling yourself that you deserve soooooooo much better than that in a boyfriend and in a friend. You'll be just fine in time :)
2007-01-25 10:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with time you will definately get over the jerk, dont let them both see that they got u down. brush your shoulder off, get a makeover not that u need it im sure but maybe a haircut and new clothes will lift your spirits. make his jaw drop, make him regret his mistake.
2007-01-25 10:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up with you by text messaging, he's a wimp and NOT worth your time
trust me.....it just shows that he doesn't have the balls to break up with you the right way........move on and think of it as somethin good
dont waste your time thinkin bout him
2007-01-25 10:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by aldkjasdk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need him, real men wouldn't do that to you, he'll regret it some day & then you can really enjoy that moment as you laugh in his face! hang in there girl you'll find the right guy!
2007-01-25 10:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by happyemt224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yourself that you are not going to let one rotten old boyfriend ruin your life, or control your life and emotions, then snap your fingers and poof it will be all better. keep your chin up
2007-01-25 10:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by i_b_peein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋