is this a sign or what?

Question

when you confront someone about something, its better to ask than accuse or assume and anytime you do they blow up at you, very angry, upset, cannot talk to you calmly, is that a sign they are hiding something?

I said "confronting" not accusing, sometimes just asking, people get carried away and go off the deep end, no matter what, its not always an accusation

Answer 1

It's better to ask them but, sometimes when you're really angry, you just accuse them, it happens. If they blow up like that, yeah, they're guilty or trying to make you look insane for asking a perfectly normal question. They're hiding some stuff, that's for sure.

Answer 2

NO, it's a sign that you accused them of something before having asked them. You are probably always accusing instead of asking. People don't like to be accused of things they have not done. If someone always accused you of something before they even asked you, wouldn't you start to get angry, upset, and blow up at them?

Answer 3

I would say ask them first. Then if they blow up they are hiding something. If you accuse then they might get mad.

Answer 4

It could be they are hiding something or they are just acting out because they really want out of the relationship and feel trapped.

Answer 5

it's always better to ask then assume.
assume = making and a@@ out of u and me

Answer 6

usually..unless you keep asking the same question over and over and over..that could wear on the nerves

Answer 7

Yes, it is or they are just plain weird!

Answer 8

ITS A SIGN THAT THEY NEED HELP

Answer 9

that is vary true

Answer 10

probabley so