Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I just wanted to see how long it took for divorced parents to tell there child about a new relationship. Also how old the child/ren are? My boyfriend has a 10 yr I have been dating him in a serious relationship for a month but have been around for 3 months. We are still friends to his daughter.

2007-01-25 10:15:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 and like this 13 year old girl i'll be 18 this year but not too soon anyway She likes me and I like her Should I go out with her?

2007-01-25 10:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by What's up! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:14:32 · 3 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, I wonder sometime about my 14 year daughter, she lives with her father now. We at one time were together 99% of the time. Now she lives with her father and is able to do whatever she wants. I know he loves her, but he just lets her do whatever she wants. He is a good guy, but his thinkings is somewhere else when it comes to his kids and family. His friends and AA is God to him, and he pushes his kids aside or pushes them off on someone else. It is sad. He gets in a financial bind and its always poor me. and lets our daughter know this. She takes up for him and is real upset with me most of the time. I know I was at one time messed up on drugs and alot, but my kids never went without. I wished you would do a show on kids and fathers and mothers that are divorced. I would really like to know how other kids feel about this.

2007-01-25 10:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by cootosa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy that is 2 years older than me. he didnt know i liked him and we write notes to each other. He has that class after me so he gets the note. But he just found out it was me and he asked me if it was me. I slow danced with him but he still doesnt like me! and dont tell me that he is not interested because i will report you for saying that!

2007-01-25 10:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men want to here a women say "I love you" before they do anything for them?

2007-01-25 10:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he is really popular, he looks at me sometimes and say hi sometimes. how do i know if he likes me or not or if he's just being nice. help am confused. i don't know if he's playing hard to get or maybe i'm going way ahead of myself. i don no

2007-01-25 10:13:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i know if this guy likes me? Some of my friends think he likes me but i dont know!!!!! Can someone tell me how you would know if a guy likes u????

2007-01-25 10:13:08 · 3 answers · asked by Babygrl 1 in Singles & Dating

i just got my dad's email address from my sister when i talked to her today and i decided to email my dad. was it ok to send?

hey dad,



long time no talk. sorry i left again i just can't be in that house. it brings me down. sorry if i've ever disappointed you. i just want to be daddy's little girl again but i think those days are long gone. i hate how everyone in that house talks behind my back like i'm the bad guy. yes, i ranaway but i graduated highschool top of my class, and college. i live on my own and i'm surviving. be proud will you? hope to hear from you someday. i don't agree with the way you raised me but you did the best you could under the circumstances and i respect that. i don't have a phone at the moment so you can't call me. if you want to say anything feel free to email me anytime. i love you and always will... you're my daddy.



love,

Natasha

(pumpkin)

2007-01-25 10:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family

I'm getting married in 7 weeks, and I have feelings for two women. I've been engaged to my fiance for 10 months, and met the other woman about two months ago. I have deep feelings for my fiance, I'd lay down my life for her, and appreciate her very essence. The other woman has blown me away. They are both attractive, intelligent and affectionate. But there personalities are different, personality wise. I have a strong attraction to both. And I can see me spending the rest of my life with either of them. I had to break off things with the other girl recently, before they got too invovled. Needless to say, she was very upset about it, and I was deeply hurt. I realize what I did was very selfish, and I broke things off because I didn't want to hurt her anymore, and could never fully be the man she wanted. I didnt tell her about my fiance either. Should I tell my current fiance about her? Wil things be ok in the future? At this point I've lost one of them...

2007-01-25 10:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 10:12:11 · 26 answers · asked by Bunny Baby 1 in Friends

Im a girl that asked you guys if i should start talking to my ex- boyfriend after i went out with him 3 times and broke his heart all 3 times. Most of you said I should leave him alone, but guess what......
Im going to talk to him again today. He is going to call me but Im so nervous what should I do to calm my nerves? Is talking to him again a good idea or a bad one?

2007-01-25 10:12:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that they all check out other women even if they are in love and in a happy relationship. That they all look at photos of naked women ect.

Is this true, Are ALL MEN the same when it comes to these things?

My man said that he feels insulted by these magazines because he said that he is not that kind of guy.

Are there any guys here who feel the same as him?

2007-01-25 10:11:39 · 23 answers · asked by m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that they all check out other women even if they are in love and in a happy relationship. That they all look at photos of naked women ect.

Is this true, Are ALL MEN the same when it comes to these things?

My man said that he feels insulted by these magazines because he said that he is not that kind of guy.

Are there any guys here who feel the same as him?

2007-01-25 10:11:09 · 8 answers · asked by m 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like one of my guy friends and he used to like me a couple mounths ago but i really dont think he likes me any more so i dont know what to do about that but theres another guy i really liked my other guy friend at the end of last school year and he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend but there was only 1 week of school left and he and i were never gonna see each other during the summer and i liked him a little bit this year to and i kinda get the feelinng that he likes me right now but i have know idea so what should i do about everything?

2007-01-25 10:10:53 · 8 answers · asked by Meredith 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is going out with this girl and does not know if she is cheating or just uesing him to get her ex back
Help!!!!

2007-01-25 10:10:47 · 12 answers · asked by sunkisttyler 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:10:35 · 13 answers · asked by nex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think im a good wife and mother i work full time im not the best house keeper in the world by i try. My husband is very controlling anytime i want to go anywhere with out the kids with me we get into a big argument. I need some me time, im not talking about going to the bars or out all night, just some time to myself once in a while. I try to keep the kids out of his hair whens he tired or needs time to himself . Is it so much for me to ask for some time to myself also. He can go where ever he wants and im fine with it . I cant deal with this anymore. please help!!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 10:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by Notsogreatlife31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Currently i have problem in sex with my bf. I still care and love him but our sex live is not that good and we only make love once in a week. Please help

2007-01-25 10:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by xiao qing 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss my man. Loads....x

2007-01-25 10:09:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl just so yah know, lol.

2007-01-25 10:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my sister's wedding is on february 10th and I STILL don't have a dress! I'm fifteen. And we were sitting there...and I asked my mom if it would be weird if I wore like something just really dressy instead of a dress. And my mom told me to ask my sister cause it's her wedding. So then I asked her when we were just there. And I guess she didn't know if I was joking around or being serious and she looked at me and kinda frowned and while she kept on putting her make up she was like 'Do whatever you want'. Is she mad? Was that mean to say? I would love to wear a dress but what if I don't find one by then?? Would it be okay if I just took dressy pants and formal shirt?

2007-01-25 10:08:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am in love.
my friend kyle is like coaching me on how 2 get this guy i likes number.
but i'm scared haha. i dunno i like chicken out.
i do talk to the guy i like---
but his buddies are always around.
should i go for it?
how??

2007-01-25 10:08:14 · 3 answers · asked by Just Me. 1 in Singles & Dating

tell us your experiences...lol. x

2007-01-25 10:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This for all the ladies, here is the scenerio. Your in love with a man that treats you just the way you should be, with unconditional love, respect, moral support and sometimes financial support, always listens to you and is always there when you need him, he does what ever possible to keep you happy. but here is the catch your already with somebody (not married but living with the father of your kids) he makes good money he keeps a roof over your head and your kids, pays for all the bills but doesn't give the attention that he should to his kids, and the love for him ended years ago all there is is just arguments and disrespect. Here is the question would you leave the father of your kids and go with the man that does love you and your kids even thou he makes way less money then he does but will make every effort to give you and your kids everything he could possibly give you or stay with the man that makes your life miserable but has lots of money?

2007-01-25 10:08:02 · 24 answers · asked by navagator73 2 in Marriage & Divorce

37 and never married before. My wife of 5 yrs has been lying and stealing from me (family) since the first month of marriage The only way she will admit this behavior is if I catch her red handed and even then she denies it or she will admit it, then, will deny it the next time like it never happened thus causing more problems. I think if I just turn a blind eye all will be good (to her). I’ve done that on too much stuff. She can be a sweet heart in many ways (as my family & friends see her)& I think I still love her. I have taken on her two children from her other two marriages as my own. Private school, vacations homework etc..She has been diagnose w/depression (as her mother and her daughter (my step daughter) been to counseling, doctors, medications etc…her behavior has changed very little if not at all. She is aware of her lies and stealing but it only changes how she goes about continuing it. IE abuses my credit cards and then throws away my statements ((so I don’t see them) (&other bills/mail to make it look like the post offices fault). Now hides incoming checks (Lots of this stuff). Counselor #2, Pastor w/ counseling degree, recommended a book titled Adult Children of Alcoholics, applies also to dysfunction raised children that revere to abnormal behavior because that is familiar to them. Pastor gave both of us (many sessions) things to work on I did mine, she actual went in the opposite direction. I don’t think she has cheated on me but I’ve been floored before. Do I need to end it?

2007-01-25 10:08:01 · 28 answers · asked by Concerned Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love.
my friend kyle is like coaching me on how 2 get this guy i likes number.
but i'm scared haha. i dunno i like chicken out.
i do talk to the guy i like
but his buddies are always around.
should i go for it?
how??

2007-01-25 10:07:30 · 9 answers · asked by Just Me. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll try not to be too hard on my mother-law but I want everyone to have all the info possible. I love her & my wife. My mother-in law 62, has depression; Doc says has the emotional maturity of a 20 old(I think he was kind).angry, negative and very difficult. Huge packrat (4 bedroom house full of junk; when visiting we stay in hotel ,no room) she is unaware the harm she is causes to people around her (or doesn't care) can't seem to get anything done, collects medical disability; Seems OK to me. Some say she just lazy and stubborn like her father & since she was a young adult she "didn't want to do the right thing" She can act OK around people if she has too. We have been down the road w/ doctors,Meds for her (again sorry if this sounds harsh). I have been dealing w/ similar problems w/ wife ie.difficult, lying,(lack of trust) My wife and I have been to.counceling(for us).. Nothing is working. Can people just be that way? Will my wife turn into her? Do I need to go in another direction?

2007-01-25 10:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by Concerned Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 10:06:22 · 12 answers · asked by Doug M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 10:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Doug M 1 in Singles & Dating