I keep reading from magazines that all men are the same.?

Question

that they all check out other women even if they are in love and in a happy relationship. That they all look at photos of naked women ect.

Is this true, Are ALL MEN the same when it comes to these things?

My man said that he feels insulted by these magazines because he said that he is not that kind of guy.

Are there any guys here who feel the same as him?

Answer 1

Not ALL men - but probably most. Men are very visual and like looking, even if they wouldn't do anything about it.

I have personally never known any man that didn't check out other women.

Answer 2

Ok - first of all most of these girlie magazines are edited and written by frustrated closet lesbians who wouldnt know a real man if they met one - so you can honeslty ignore any advice in them!!!

Secondly, just like women, men are all individuals and are as different from each other in their mannerisms and habits as you could possibly imagine.

Have you ever thought that they may be looking and saying to themselves - "boy am i lucky I have my partner or wife".

Not ever woman that gets looked at is a target for the sack race.

Relax, appreciate what you have and so what if he looks, he is going home with you isnt he?

And besides its better to be blatant than latent!

I am a male, not into porn in any way or for that matter Page 3 type girls, I do appreciate a good looking woman and someone that stands out with a positive attitude or bright personality.

So to answer your question - NO all men are NOT the same.

And a bit of advice form a total stranger - STOP reading those stupid magazines they are a total waste of money.

Ciao for now.

Answer 3

Ok One Hes lying
I know that hurts and smarts and you may hate me right now but he is not offended unless he had some childhood trauma about being caught by his mummy with a girlie magazine and the lady ended up on the conver to be his aunt
Sordid but i wanted to get the point across

Yes all men look
They are visual beings
But there is no harm in just looking
We look as well
lets face it when a cute guy at the coffee shop hands us that all needed double mocha latte and tells us to have a nice day, unless we are knee high in arrangements for a meeting or work or even juggling a stroller and a cell phone we will atleast stop to admire gods works and maybe even smile

To say just men do it would be doing them an injustice because everyone does and one cannot expect to walk around with their eyes closed and if they do so what... its still natural
By admiring other women your man is not showing how he doesnt love you but just that he is a normal man
When he starts oggling and flirting in front of you without remorse then you should worry but unless its harmless relax and go with the flow, it has nothing to do with you nor does it dimish his love or your worth....
As for the porn.. its all fantasy... sure they look... even men with hot wives look... but ask any of them... they love admire and lust after their women....
Think of it as a melting pot or a steamer
Hes just simmering for the action he gets at home so as long as the nozzle spits steam when your there
ur pretty much home safe and happy
you know lots of couples enjoy looking at pictures together

Answer 4

He's lying.

Men look at other women just as much as women look at other men, it's natural, it doesn't mean they are going to try and jump into bed with them at every opportunity.

I've been happily married a long time and I still look at other women. It doesn't mean I love or fancy my wife any less. It simply means I am a very healthy male.

So ultimately it is true that all men and ALL WOMEN are the same when it comes to these things.

Some are a bit prudish and won't admit it.

Others are scared about what there partner would think, and I'm sure there are a host of other reasons why also.

We are all animals and it is our nature, how we behave with that nature is what we control.

Answer 5

Men look at other women, it's nature and human instinct! Naked pictures (porn) on the internet is one thing, but to check another lady out at the mall or in a parking lot is totally different. My husband does it, doesn't bother me because he's going home with me and isn't chasing after her asking for her number. It's silly. It's a MAGAZINE! These women in California and New York have nothing better to write about so they throw this crap in there. Porn and just checking out another girl are two totally different worlds. Why are you reading all of this crap in the first place? What moron would believe any of this?!?

Answer 6

I hold a Doctorate in Paleoanthropology. It is the intersection of the disciplines of paleontology (the study of ancient lifeforms) and anthropology (the study of humans).

In the research that I carried out in order to gain my Doctorate, I found a few things about the Male and Female Humans.

To answer your query, YES ALL men are the same.
Even if they are in a loving, stable relationship that was so secure that Fort Knox wanted the blueprints, the male will always 'check out' other females.
It is not meant as a slight to their partner, it is a genetic and instinctual requirement.
A male will look to extend his line with the best possible mate (understand that this is NOT a 'roving eye' it is built in to the male psyche!). Different women are attractive to different men.
Men place a greater premium on physical attractiveness than do women.

Females on the other hand, selected mates with resources and who showed a commitment to invest those resources in them and their children.

Physical qualities as good health, size, strength, athletic prowess were and still are to an extent, important.These things were cues that signalled delivery of resources over the long run and protection of herself and her children. Also dependability and emotional maturity (I know.maturity isn't something normally associated with men but we're talking 'mating pairs' at the moment :~} )
The common desires for both male and female were, kindness, intelligence, love and mutual attraction.

There is also a Chemical side to all of this as well.

When you meet a prospective partner and begin to fall in love, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin and Phenylethylamine are produced which induce the feelings of euphoria and elation.
This means that BEING with that person makes you feel better and you want to be around them more and more.

It's a bit of a long answer I know but thank for for reading it (unless you fell asleep halfway through!).

Don't forget It Isn't Your Mans Fault For Looking - Its Scientific. BUT It IS His Fault For DOING!



:~}

Answer 7

I would have to say yes to that question, but I am saying yes rather broadly. Most men looking at a magazine and seeing a picture of a naked woman, would probably have a quick look. They wouldn't feel insulted by the picture but I'm not saying they sit there for hours examining ever part of the womans body. As for looking at another woman in the street - What's wrong with that!! As long as their not leering at the person or making insulting remarks or chasing the women for her number. Something of beauty is worth looking at. We all do it both men & women. God blessed us with EYES and as long as their behaviour is not inappropriate, I don't see the problem. Ever heard the saying "Thou protests to loud" or words to that effect!!!

Answer 8

Yes. These magazines, like ones aimed at women, are generalising men and women. They create a market for their product by suggesting that if men aren't interested in naked **** everywhere then there is something wrong with them. Fortunately, there are lots of men out there who just find it all boring and silly because they can't actually do anything with a picture! You will find that intelligent men tend to be happier to admit they find mens magazines to be daft and a waste of good money. The less intelligent ones are like sheep and follow the crowd or what they believe to be the crowd. However, we are all progammed to enjoy nice looking people. It doesn't mean you want to shag them, just looking isn't a sign of infidelity - but I still clout my husband round the ear if he looks at anyone even on the TV - he has resorted to the Xbox to save his ears.

Answer 9

Ha ha ha! That's a very standard answer from your man. Come on - what's he supposed to say? "Yes, I love looking at the female body"? He is that kind of guy, we all are. However, by looking at another female doesn't mean "I prefer her to you". We look! We are obsessed with the female form, and it is completely natural. Stopping a man glance at a pair of breasts - well, you might as well ask us to chew our own arm off.

Case point - have you ever seen those events where big racy sportscars from Ferrari are on pedestals, and women clamboring all over them in skimpy bikinis? It isn't to advertise the women, it's to grab our attention to the car. Most men that are targeted by these advertisements are usually in the most stable marriages ever (they actually want that - Ferrari don't want Billy the Chav and his pot-smoking 15-year old friends seen in their products), but they will only glance at the woman, they will see the car.

I would bring in at this point that men are not supposed to be monogamous and that we're genetically programmed to "sow our seed" all over the place. However, we're also genetically programmed to beat others with sticks; however, we are now civilised, so although the genes in your man say "Look! Look! Breasts!", the brain in your man says "Yes, they are breasts" and carries on with whatever he was doing.

So go easy on him - blame evolution.

Answer 10

Most guys probably do look at other women, even if they are in love. But what's wrong with that? If they do it in a disrespectful way, by making you or the other woman uncomfortable, that's wrong.
If your man feels insulted by these magazines, at least he's aware that it's wrong.