This for all the ladies, here is the scenerio. Your in love with a man that treats you just the way you should be, with unconditional love, respect, moral support and sometimes financial support, always listens to you and is always there when you need him, he does what ever possible to keep you happy. but here is the catch your already with somebody (not married but living with the father of your kids) he makes good money he keeps a roof over your head and your kids, pays for all the bills but doesn't give the attention that he should to his kids, and the love for him ended years ago all there is is just arguments and disrespect. Here is the question would you leave the father of your kids and go with the man that does love you and your kids even thou he makes way less money then he does but will make every effort to give you and your kids everything he could possibly give you or stay with the man that makes your life miserable but has lots of money?
2007-01-25 10:08:02 · 24 answers · asked by navagator73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would go....love and respect is so much more valuable than money
2007-01-25 10:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a man with little money and unconditional love. You know the old saying money cant buy you love!!! You cant put a price on unconditional LOVE!!!
2007-01-25 11:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by silky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man with little money and unconditional love because you can always get a job and help him make money or he can get a better job someday... But a rich man with lots of money and no love for me would be much harder to deal with as you cannot make someone love and want to be with you! Love lasts forever but money dont and you cannot take money and stuff with you when you die.
2007-01-25 10:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in the relationship you are in with the father of your kids it's time to move on regardless of money. The kids don't sound like they are being treated well so it's not a very difficult decision to make.
I would pick the guy who treats you and your children well. Money isn't everything. It's nice to have but it doesn't compare to being loved and respected. You can always get child support from your kids if you split up and that will help add to your income but I think life's too short to stay with someone who doesn't fulfill your emotional needs...
2007-01-25 10:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would gladly go with the man that loves me and my kids unconditionally and who actually proves his love by doing so much for me. I would rather be broke and happy, than have money and be miserable.
Hey, if it doesn't work out with her give me a call, i could use a good man, with unconditional love and respect and all that good stuff!
2007-01-25 10:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The money can run out, or bankrupt or whatever, then what would you have?
And any man that would interfere with a marriage for whatever reason, I would NOT trust! And that is NOT respect in my book!
And if he's always there when you need him and so on...he's in the romance, "stars in your eyes stage" now...he's going to be those things now. What's he going to be like when you get down to real life?
And believe me (I know) no matter how young or old the kids are, they WILL be devastated!
2007-01-25 10:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather choose a man with a little money and unconditional love ,,,
2007-01-25 14:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by lookin4dfuture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to the man with little money, but unconditional love.....I grew up in the house of no love but good provider....I would pick love any day, and my whole family just dosent understand how I could be with someone who makes a small income....
2007-01-25 11:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by sifford844 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never would've made kids with a man that I was not happy with. You need to evaluate yourself and quit blaming the man for everything that is wrong in the relationship. Fix what is wrong with you and then maybe the babies daddy can meet you half way. You sound like you are making up reasons to justify the fact that you cheated on him and now you want to leave him. You are justifying your actions by picking fights with him and anything else. Learn to tough it out! The grass isn't always greener on the other side. When you get there you will see that it has a bunch of brown patches in it. Grow up!
2007-01-25 10:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Itiyah Yisrael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love & No $
I have never heard of such selfishness. Wow, lady how old are you? I can't even give you any advice since your question is really pissing me off. You sound like a gold digging b*tch and that you should stay with the man with more money that makes you miserable. I hope the father of your kids sees how greedy, selfish and childish you are and quits talking to your gold digging @ss. You need to grow up and quit reproducing so we don't have more people like you.
2007-01-25 10:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with a man with little money and unconditional love. People make such a big deal about money nowadays and its stupid. Money isnt going to be keeping me warm at night.
2007-01-25 10:13:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋