What does overly conservative when it comes to sex mean
2007-01-25 09:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
- Does everything in the dark
- limited to one technique
- keeps on more clothes than necessary
- initiates very little
- limited vocabulary
- thinks of some words and techniques as dirty
- barely responsive
- waits for partner to do something
- wants it to be over as soon as possible
2007-01-25 10:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amber,
Since you asked this of married folks, I'm going to assume that marital status is an important aspect to those who are answering.
The term "conservative," or ANY term that describes sex, such as "kinky," or "wild" are definitions that are highly individualistic and conditional. Take a couple of virgins, for instance...just the act of disrobing is probable "wild" to them...the most exciting thing they've ever done!
So, in your case, "conservative" can mean so many things. To those who've been from one side of the sexual world to another, that term may describe one-position sex, lights off, eyes scrunched shut. Or, it may convey a lifestyle, where some religious beliefs ordain that sex is for procreation ONLY, not ever to be performed for pleasure. Most folks here say that whatever "conservative" is, it is boring...what bores THEM may be different by wildly varying degrees. Married folk CAN get in the habit of doing the same things over and over again, and anything can get monotonous, even sex. "Every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and Sunday nights after the kids are asleep, and do is as quick as possible for fear of being interrupted." If you KNEW what you were gonna have for dinner four nights a week, and it's all gonna be the same, wouldn't you get bored?
To some people, just arranging to have someone watch their kids and go to a motel for the night is viewed as "spicing things up."
2007-01-25 19:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell...boring in bed. If it was said to you...then your partner was trying to tell you they need you to be more adventurous in bed. Talk about it...explore both your wants and needs. If there is something that maybe you think you wont like it...give it a try once to be fair..but if you really don't like it...they will have to respect that. Don;t be afraid of your sexuality...if you are married than go ahead....indulge your fantasies...sex is fun! And a gift between a husband and wife. Good luck!
2007-01-25 18:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means you are not very sexally knowledgable or you are not overly adventurous when it comes to sex as in experimenting
positions and different types of sex, oral, anal,personal toys, etc.
2007-01-25 20:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notadventurous. You know you do it the same way every time and are a bit like clockwork. Spice things up.
2007-01-25 18:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is not ever leaving your comfort zone--not ever wanting to experiment--not like the over the top crazy just spicing it up sort of thing--
2007-01-25 18:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you need to do new things.Have fun.Sex is not supposed to boring.Invent new positions with your partner.Trust me, you and your partner will love it.I know my husband does.
2007-01-25 18:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means that there is no variety of positions and acts. Acts as in oral, anal and vaginal sex.
2007-01-25 18:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you dont put our enough i guess.... I think this is what it means but i am not sure.
2007-01-25 18:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a prude... only the missionary position, and only with your married partner... very boring!!!
2007-01-25 18:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋