or is it more strictly on a just sex basis? are men really just out to play women to 'get in their pants'? should a woman ALWAYS go in thinkintg she's being played ?just trying to understand how the wiring works. ;-)
2007-01-25 10:34:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is a high number of men that are just thinking of sex, becareful for those. the ones that go straight to the touchy, the kissing, and the excesive caressing are the ones you should beware of. me and my wife are both very passionate and we both like to make love and our intimacy is healthy. we never had sex. let me explain. to me sex is pointless and straight to the point. love making is more passionately and is more in the fuzion of two souls into one. so what do you fear love making or sex. beware of horney men looking for easy prey so becareful and be as malicious as you can for those looking to take advantage of you.
2007-01-25 10:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A no strings relationship is great. Because there are no emotional attachments for both guys and girls. Women are just as guilty as me when it comes to this. Some people are just trying to find someone to have an emotional bond with. When that person has found that someone then intimacy comes into play. I wish I could be a "player". It seems like "players" have all the fun. I've been played a few times it sucks. I wish I could play someone.
This is just MY OPINION.
I would love to be intimate with someone, but every women I meet don't.
2007-01-25 10:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by cy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only been in a few long term relationships in my life. The most mature man of the three preferred intimacy over sex.
I truly believe that it takes an evolved individual to appreciate and desire intimacy. (over going straight for the sex).
When my (former) man gave me trust and intimacy, that's when I felt we were making love.
2007-01-25 10:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Daaang! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do. The whole issue about sex is that well its like the weather and society is a construct that has us all acting a certain way and people make absurd generalizations. All common knowledge is highly missinformed and ignorent. Henry the 8th never had six wives, we are not desended from apes, Men are not any more visual sexually than women, the biggest man made construct is not the china wall, weed is not a gateway drug ect. What is true is Men and women are different but not really.
2007-01-25 10:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we crave intimacy as that is what makes therelationship special.
2007-01-25 10:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are really in a relationship for the sex. However there are actually some guys who like and intimate relationship that isn't centered around sex. It just depends on the guys. I don't think a girl should always going thinking she is getting played but she should definitely keep an eye out for it.
2007-01-25 10:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by musicfreak1187 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think gay guys crave for intimacy
2007-01-25 10:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men crave intimacy, just not as much as women do. Similiar to how most women crave sex, just not as much as men do.
2007-01-25 10:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think guy crave it as much cause there is more work that goes into being intimate and guys just want to get to the point, well alot of guys
2007-01-25 10:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i not for sure cause everyone i know says im not like a usual guy, I actually like intimacy, it doesnt have to be sex sex sex all the time, but thats just me, I would say that most guys are just trying to get into girls pants
2007-01-25 10:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋