If there is a girl you dont know, and she is engaged to a guy you hate, who also happens to be cheating on her; should you tell the girl and ruin the relationship?!?!
2007-01-25 10:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by BEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ALSO, I WOULD LET THE GIRL KNOW COMPLETELY ANONYMOUSLY
2007-01-25 10:52:50 · update #1
Ever heard of the saying "don't shoot the messenger"? That's what's going to happen, you tell, he makes her believe otherwise and you'll be the only one to blame for any problems they had, so if you want to let her know, don't do it face-to-face, better try a phone call, or a text message.
2007-01-25 10:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all - how do you know he is cheating? Do you have SOLID PROOF or are just going off of hearsay, or something you saw (e.g. him talking to another female).
Second - you don't know this girl. Their relationship is NOT your business. Seems like the reason you wanna tell her what's going on is for YOUR personal benefit (as opposed to being a good samaritan).
Personally, I don't think it's your place to tell her what her fiance is doing. You aren't friends with her, it's not your responsibility and you may even be wrong about the whole cheating thing.
Just stay out of it. If he really is cheating, let things unfold as they naturally would. Karma will come after him - you don't need to be Karma's foot soldier.
K.
2007-01-25 10:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ken K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont know the girl and you hate the guy why would you tell the girl? Stay out of their lifes.
2007-01-25 10:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldnt necessarily do it because you hate the person because that is for the wrong reasons.
If i were getting married and my sig other was cheating on my I would want to know. From that source i would investigate and see if its true.
2007-01-25 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tbay56 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not your job. You don't like the guy? Stay out of his life. You don't know the girl? Then you don't owe her anything. If you're going to meddle in someone's life, at least make it someone you know, and for good reasons instead of bad.
2007-01-25 10:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW, thats a tough one. But I think that you should stay out of it because, first of all it's none of your business. Secondly, you don't know her and you really don't have anything to do with him. Your feelings toward him is your personal problem.
2007-01-25 10:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by MsLady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yes i would cause ur not soused to do that type of thing at all and i shore as hell wouldnt want any one cheating on and more than likely u wouldnt either right?
2007-01-25 10:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by bluelapo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should only tell a guy if the girl is cheating on him - if the guy is cheating you shouldn't tell
2007-01-25 10:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No it nothing to do with u,u should stay out of it,ull end up the bad 1 if butt in!!!!!!
2007-01-25 10:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ben (drama queen)--stay out of ppl's business and mind your own.
2007-01-25 10:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋